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There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !! |
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over a year ago
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I did meet him and almost three years later we are still going strong, madly in love with a beautiful baby. Good luck in finding that special someone.
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"I did meet him and almost three years later we are still going strong, madly in love with a beautiful baby. Good luck in finding that special someone.
MissD "
Haven't seen you guys around for a while. How's everything?
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"I did meet him and almost three years later we are still going strong, madly in love with a beautiful baby. Good luck in finding that special someone.
MissD "
Amazing. Congrats. I can only hope to be as lucky x |
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"Definitely wouldn't rule it out with the right person. Think of all the fun you'd have !"
That's exactly my point. We all know were on a different wave length so why not revel in it with someone who understands not try and fight it |
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"I did meet him and almost three years later we are still going strong, madly in love with a beautiful baby. Good luck in finding that special someone.
MissD
Haven't seen you guys around for a while. How's everything?
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Hey, nice of you to notice our absence. Its nice to be missed.
Were really good but the site has been on the back burner for a while due to the baby but now he is 4 months and in a good routine were starting to get our lifeback a bit. Silk has posted a few times but sometimes its a struggle to keep in touch.
How are you doing? |
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"I did meet him and almost three years later we are still going strong, madly in love with a beautiful baby. Good luck in finding that special someone.
MissD
Amazing. Congrats. I can only hope to be as lucky x"
Thank you believe me it was very unexpected but stranger things have happened. X |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
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Very true but then they can tell me where there is a dedicated dating site for swingers ??? |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
Very true but then they can tell me where there is a dedicated dating site for swingers ??? "
There was one fab flirts but it turned into fab...and hardly anyone used it... |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
how selfish are you, wanting me all for yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I change my profile before Christmas to really show what I'm after. It's not worked yet but at least I feel better as I'm not lieing to anyone especially myself. |
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"This is what I don't understand about these 'it's not a dating site' comments, if you want a relationship that includes swinging where are you most likely to find someone like minded?! "
Precisely. Yes some are here for one thing. Understandable others are more open minded about possibilities but should feel they have to remain quiet for fear of ridicule |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
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The site is what you make of it. A shag site, a friends site, a kinky site, a voyeur site, a banter site, a perve site, a fetish site, a cheeky monkey in the forums site
It's what you want and not what others tell you it must be |
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"This is what I don't understand about these 'it's not a dating site' comments, if you want a relationship that includes swinging where are you most likely to find someone like minded?!
Precisely. Yes some are here for one thing. Understandable others are more open minded about possibilities but should feel they have to remain quiet for fear of ridicule "
I had very much similar feedback on my long running 'seeking an FB' thread, many people on here, guys especially, just don't seem to understand that its possible to feel affection and some degree of tenderness toward someone without it being a full blown romance. |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
The site is what you make of it. A shag site, a friends site, a kinky site, a voyeur site, a banter site, a perve site, a fetish site, a cheeky monkey in the forums site
It's what you want and not what others tell you it must be "
All because it says I will only do a social first meet on my profile......I need a new block button, I've used it so much I think it's broken |
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I think this happens with a few people who just start as having fun, I think most are up for it but don't like the complications.
I'd be open, to the right woman I think.... |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
The site is what you make of it. A shag site, a friends site, a kinky site, a voyeur site, a banter site, a perve site, a fetish site, a cheeky monkey in the forums site
It's what you want and not what others tell you it must be
All because it says I will only do a social first meet on my profile......I need a new block button, I've used it so much I think it's broken "
Nowt wrong with your profile or what you want & if a guy can't accept that then he needs to move on |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
The site is what you make of it. A shag site, a friends site, a kinky site, a voyeur site, a banter site, a perve site, a fetish site, a cheeky monkey in the forums site
It's what you want and not what others tell you it must be
All because it says I will only do a social first meet on my profile......I need a new block button, I've used it so much I think it's broken
Nowt wrong with your profile or what you want & if a guy can't accept that then he needs to move on "
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
The site is what you make of it. A shag site, a friends site, a kinky site, a voyeur site, a banter site, a perve site, a fetish site, a cheeky monkey in the forums site
It's what you want and not what others tell you it must be
All because it says I will only do a social first meet on my profile......I need a new block button, I've used it so much I think it's broken
Nowt wrong with your profile or what you want & if a guy can't accept that then he needs to move on
Thank you "
No need to thank me, just take what you want from the site and don't feel you have to give in to the 'fuck and go' individuals. Besides the next guy to message you who doesn't get it right, hit them over the head with the block button  |
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"This is what I don't understand about these 'it's not a dating site' comments, if you want a relationship that includes swinging where are you most likely to find someone like minded?!
Precisely. Yes some are here for one thing. Understandable others are more open minded about possibilities but should feel they have to remain quiet for fear of ridicule "
I'm never quiet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm starting to get bored being single now. Off to Ibiza soon so it'll be good for there but ideally I'd like an adventurous girlfriend - not easy to find. |
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over a year ago
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I would like to date a fellow deviant. Probably quite essential. I don't think the vanilla world could cope with me. But at the same time I don't want anything too deep and meaningful. More than a fuck, but less than a fiancee I think....lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not actively looking for a relationship on here but if it happens then it happens. I always enjoy it when life throws little supprises at you. So yeah if the right person came along I'd be all for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this happens with a few people who just start as having fun, I think most are up for it but don't like the complications.
I'd be open, to the right woman I think....
Pick me pick me "
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its not impossble is it? If I met someone here who I really liked then yes of course.. follow your instincts. The only thing that springs to mind would be that although I know she might sleep with others, would she tell me, and I might wonder if she would either be happy to stay with me, or go off with someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm ready for the right girl now I think.
Is that right now or generally feeling ready for a relationship? Right now tends not to be a relationship."
Ready for a relationship. Problem is too much choice out there but I now want a girl to share experiences with. |
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Joined this site for a bit of fun, but been single for a few years now, not actively looking for a relationship but if i meet someone on here and it happens then so be it.
I'm not gonna stress about it though.  |
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
I'm meeting someone for a date on Friday night from here. We're both looking for 'friends with benefits' as it's evidently known. We have some similar interests so can go out socially together, sometimes we may want to fuck, sounds good to me. We'll have to discuss how we feel about each other fucking with others, but we''l see. I think at this point in my life, my experiences etc I'd prefer to 'date' someone from this place rather than a regular dating site. I've liked the mostly open mindedness that I've come across on here |
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
Maybe... |
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
Stunning pics, I'm sure you will plenty of offers now from admirers x |
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!
Stunning pics, I'm sure you will plenty of offers now from admirers x"
Thanks but no after 18 months I'm still single lol x |
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This is an interesting topic.
I (Dempsey) was for many years single through choice, mainly because I thought I didn't want the hassles and commitment of a relationship. When I think back now, I was in denial, I craved intimacy and companionship but masked those feelings with sex.
Luckily I met hotpiece, she knew my history before we got together and think it was ,in a way, an attraction for her.
She thinks like I do, we're on the same page, and it works.
We didn't meet here, but I don't see a problem with people using fab as a dating site, it cuts out a lot of uncertainty from the start.
I wonder if displaying a recognised sign in a profile pic would work, get the word out on the forum ,maybe if you have a pic with a flower between your legs it's a sign you're open to the possibility of more than just sex.
I'm an old romantic at heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is an interesting topic.
I (Dempsey) was for many years single through choice, mainly because I thought I didn't want the hassles and commitment of a relationship. When I think back now, I was in denial, I craved intimacy and companionship but masked those feelings with sex. than just sex.
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Think im going through this stage!!! Sounda just like me apart from I don get bloody sex haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was a single on a swinging site (not this one) and i met a fella who was also the same site, both looking for just nsa fun, we met and that was that, we are still together 7 years later and very much in love and now married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met Mr D on a sex site for a one night meet in a hotel. Bit like a previous poster I didn't enter into it looking for a relationship but looking back I wasn't wholly happy with my life so maybe I wouldn't admit it but I was looking for a partner. I believed as I'd already decided monogamy wasn't for me that a lasting bond wasn't likely because who'd agree to my terms, I'd ruled out virtually all men?
14 years later here we are. |
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"I think this happens with a few people who just start as having fun, I think most are up for it but don't like the complications.
I'd be open, to the right woman I think....
Pick me pick me
Haha you need a better chat up line than that "
Alright darling come ere often |
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"No because the ones I find sexually attractive are 14-30 years older than me.
I wouldn't say no to one, but would try and avoid people of that age if I was getting too close "
Thats quite interesting. So you meet people for sex that you wouldn't be interested in dating? Why would you settle down with someone that you don't find sexually attractive, as you have made out above? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while... "
Sounds just like me  .
I'm also going to add that I'm surprised at so many young guys declaring they're ready... Pfft no use to me |
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"This is an interesting topic.
I (Dempsey) was for many years single through choice, mainly because I thought I didn't want the hassles and commitment of a relationship. When I think back now, I was in denial, I craved intimacy and companionship but masked those feelings with sex.
Luckily I met hotpiece, she knew my history before we got together and think it was ,in a way, an attraction for her.
She thinks like I do, we're on the same page, and it works.
We didn't meet here, but I don't see a problem with people using fab as a dating site, it cuts out a lot of uncertainty from the start.
I wonder if displaying a recognised sign in a profile pic would work, get the word out on the forum ,maybe if you have a pic with a flower between your legs it's a sign you're open to the possibility of more than just sex.
I'm an old romantic at heart "
I'm from exactly same place. I think I mask the loneliness with sex. And I love the idea of the flower xx |
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I wonder if displaying a recognised sign in a profile pic would work, get the word out on the forum ,maybe if you have a pic with a flower between your legs it's a sign you're open to the possibility of more than just sex.
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Ha ha, on my pics I have one of a tulip between by breasts - not sure what that's a sign of
Like others have said - use the site for your preferences. Don't let others dictate how they think you should use it. It's your life, not theirs ! |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while...
Sounds just like me .
I'm also going to add that I'm surprised at so many young guys declaring they're ready... Pfft no use to me "
I know there are a few young stud muffins....I prefer a bit older than me but would not rule out younger |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while...
Sounds just like me .
I'm also going to add that I'm surprised at so many young guys declaring they're ready... Pfft no use to me
I know there are a few young stud muffins....I prefer a bit older than me but would not rule out younger "
It's good to be flexible in your attitudes, mind and body |
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"This is an interesting topic.
I (Dempsey) was for many years single through choice, mainly because I thought I didn't want the hassles and commitment of a relationship. When I think back now, I was in denial, I craved intimacy and companionship but masked those feelings with sex.
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Is it not possible to have an FB, with whom you can enjoy a decent amount of intimacy and companionship though? Personally I think that would be perfect, at least for me, right now I don't feel like I want a full relationship, but do get angry with the on going feelings of loneliness and sexual frustration. |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while...
Sounds just like me .
I'm also going to add that I'm surprised at so many young guys declaring they're ready... Pfft no use to me
I know there are a few young stud muffins....I prefer a bit older than me but would not rule out younger "
I'm not too much younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried relationships after divorce, looks like i'll be single for a long while as they moved too fast for me. I'll just take it slow and if it happened it happens. Never going out to "find the one"
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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It has been hinted at in one or two of the posts above, but the OP may want to state explicitly that she is only interested in white guys.
Going by some of the very recent many posts from white guys moaning about women who only fancy black guys, you'd think women with the OP's preference didn't exist. |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while...
Sounds just like me .
I'm also going to add that I'm surprised at so many young guys declaring they're ready... Pfft no use to me
I know there are a few young stud muffins....I prefer a bit older than me but would not rule out younger "
Toshn darling we have gone through this already.....lol xx |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
The site is what you make of it. A shag site, a friends site, a kinky site, a voyeur site, a banter site, a perve site, a fetish site, a cheeky monkey in the forums site
It's what you want and not what others tell you it must be "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first thread where I can relate to all comments from both sides...
Maybe we should ask for / create a new site fabswingersdating ha ha but guess it will still be overrun with numptys and the "will not commit"... Oh well back to searching for the elusive one  |
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"Oooh a would love to share sexual pleasures with a partner in crime mmm so much we could achieve
If I could look at your backside everyday I'd be in heaven lol lol you would be able to but its part of a package "
The other bits are pretty hot too |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while... "
Misscheekychops - on the dating scene anybody would think Christmas has come early. Form a queue boys I'm first by the way. Message me if your serious Hun and we can arrange a date x |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while...
Misscheekychops - on the dating scene anybody would think Christmas has come early. Form a queue boys I'm first by the way. Message me if your serious Hun and we can arrange a date x"
grab your coat cheeky, you've pulled, hope he blows your socks off |
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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I'm definitely receptive to meeting someone on a much more regular basis and see where it leads! Stuff the silly 'this is a sex site'...are they trying to say that if you meet someone on a vanilla site that you're not going to have sex??? Perish the thought  |
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"If someone comes along and blows my socks off then yes why not....I've been ready for a relationship for a while...
Misscheekychops - on the dating scene anybody would think Christmas has come early. Form a queue boys I'm first by the way. Message me if your serious Hun and we can arrange a date x"
Lol thanks but I don't play chase |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is an interesting topic.
I (Dempsey) was for many years single through choice, mainly because I thought I didn't want the hassles and commitment of a relationship. When I think back now, I was in denial, I craved intimacy and companionship but masked those feelings with sex.
Luckily I met hotpiece, she knew my history before we got together and think it was ,in a way, an attraction for her.
She thinks like I do, we're on the same page, and it works.
We didn't meet here, but I don't see a problem with people using fab as a dating site, it cuts out a lot of uncertainty from the start.
I wonder if displaying a recognised sign in a profile pic would work, get the word out on the forum ,maybe if you have a pic with a flower between your legs it's a sign you're open to the possibility of more than just sex.
I'm an old romantic at heart "
Flower in place! Lol |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
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"No because the ones I find sexually attractive are 14-30 years older than me.
I wouldn't say no to one, but would try and avoid people of that age if I was getting too close
Thats quite interesting. So you meet people for sex that you wouldn't be interested in dating? Why would you settle down with someone that you don't find sexually attractive, as you have made out above? "
I won't settle down with someone I find sexually unattractive. Just saying when i settle down they will be around my age. Just because I find someone in their 40s sexually attractive. It doesn't mean I will settle down with them. If someone is in their 20s and I found them sexually attractive. I would settle down with them. As along as we got on in other areas too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is what I don't understand about these 'it's not a dating site' comments, if you want a relationship that includes swinging where are you most likely to find someone like minded?!
Precisely. Yes some are here for one thing. Understandable others are more open minded about possibilities but should feel they have to remain quiet for fear of ridicule
I had very much similar feedback on my long running 'seeking an FB' thread, many people on here, guys especially, just don't seem to understand that its possible to feel affection and some degree of tenderness toward someone without it being a full blown romance."
Mind though, it'd be nice if there was a more universally recognised expression for such a relationship, such as 'Bed Buddy' or something less crass than 'Fuck Buddy' or 'friend with benefits' enough to say this relationship isn't just about emotionless fucking. |
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"I'm starting to get bored being single now. Off to Ibiza soon so it'll be good for there but ideally I'd like an adventurous girlfriend - not easy to find. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I change my profile before Christmas to really show what I'm after. It's not worked yet but at least I feel better as I'm not lieing to anyone especially myself. "
The perfect guy for you would be Homer Simpson. You have boobs and donuts too. If he does not want you I can take over from him. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"This is what I don't understand about these 'it's not a dating site' comments, if you want a relationship that includes swinging where are you most likely to find someone like minded?!
Precisely. Yes some are here for one thing. Understandable others are more open minded about possibilities but should feel they have to remain quiet for fear of ridicule
I had very much similar feedback on my long running 'seeking an FB' thread, many people on here, guys especially, just don't seem to understand that its possible to feel affection and some degree of tenderness toward someone without it being a full blown romance.
Mind though, it'd be nice if there was a more universally recognised expression for such a relationship, such as 'Bed Buddy' or something less crass than 'Fuck Buddy' or 'friend with benefits' enough to say this relationship isn't just about emotionless fucking."
Part time loves? As heard on the radio and the web-site to facilitate monogamous but part time relationships.
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
Not looking for it but my mind isn't closed to the concept if the right one happened along. |
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Having teamed up with a certain girl on fab and setting up a couples profile, it isn't a good idea really and we have gone back to our single profiles after 8 weeks. The problem.....she used the couples profile for her own benefit, not always but alot, and was sneaky to the point of promising to meet people if they contacted me to see if I was been nice to potential meets!!!
Play single it's by far easier and you know you can trust yourself. Happy swinging all, and stay safe. J. |
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"I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .........."
*Nods*
Me too. If I was lucky enough to find someone I clicked with I'd certainly be open to it being more than strictly casual. |
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"This is what I don't understand about these 'it's not a dating site' comments, if you want a relationship that includes swinging where are you most likely to find someone like minded?!
Precisely. Yes some are here for one thing. Understandable others are more open minded about possibilities but should feel they have to remain quiet for fear of ridicule
I had very much similar feedback on my long running 'seeking an FB' thread, many people on here, guys especially, just don't seem to understand that its possible to feel affection and some degree of tenderness toward someone without it being a full blown romance.
Mind though, it'd be nice if there was a more universally recognised expression for such a relationship, such as 'Bed Buddy' or something less crass than 'Fuck Buddy' or 'friend with benefits' enough to say this relationship isn't just about emotionless fucking.
Part time loves? As heard on the radio and the web-site to facilitate monogamous but part time relationships.
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Hmmm, I may have to check that out, thankyou x |
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
Me |
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"Just be open to what happens and don't put too many obstacles in the way of your own happiness.
I think the web has made people expect too much."
Very true sometimes we put obstacles in the way then wish we hadn't when we realise what we want. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I did meet him and almost three years later we are still going strong, madly in love with a beautiful baby. Good luck in finding that special someone.
MissD "
Congratulations on your baby's birth xx |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
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I was told that for simply asking for a social meet first. Lol. |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
I was told that for simply asking for a social meet first. Lol. "
To me it's neither. It's a swinging site, which is a combination of both. You have the social aspect, which is like Facebook and then the sex. Personally I find the social side more important and the sex an added bonus. |
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"Apparently so I have been told by a few guys "this is not a dating site".........it's.....wait for it...........shock horror.... "Its a sex site".......OMG
I was told that for simply asking for a social meet first. Lol. "
Me too. I said I didn't want a date, just to be safe and meet in a public place to make sure you are who you say you are and see if we click. |
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Listening to some couples singles shouldn't use it as a dating site god forbid you hit it off with a fellow single and have fun after sex oh my. To those that do well done ha ha |
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"There must be guys out there ready to date a like minded adventurous woman ? Step forward declare it. Seems there are so many looking yet so few speak of it.
I'll be the brave one and go first. You guys follow suit.
I declare I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything more .......... Your turn !!"
Right now no I need a break from sessions of purgatory. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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We did it in reverse. We dated and 15 months in i gave into curiosity and agreed to 'try' it. Swinging is not the be all and end all of our relationship, it's just something we enjoy seperately from each other.
Julie x |
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I'd love to date a like minded swinger and see if it could develop into anything as much prefer swinging/seeing the same person instead of notches on the bedpost. |
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