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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had to block a member who just joined for being rude after I sent a polite message saying hello and welcome to Fabswingers. What she said was that I should not be on here and I offend her eyes so I replied saying no need to be rude then I blocked her.
I think I have the right to be here just as anyone else. Their shouldn't be that kind of rudeness on here at all.
Has anyone had people like that? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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ignore her words, you have every right to be here.
although I do think new members should get a breathing space from messages for the first few days, to settle in.
people sending 'welcome' messages may have the best intent, but a lot within hours could put people off.
good luck for the future |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ignore her words, you have every right to be here.
although I do think new members should get a breathing space from messages for the first few days, to settle in.
people sending 'welcome' messages may have the best intent, but a lot within hours could put people off.
good luck for the future"
I'm already ignoring what she said and you're right, there are no excuses for rudeness. I will be careful on what idiots are on here. |
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You did the right thing. Report and block. There's every reason to be friendly and polite, especially to people new to fab and the forums.
Ps. Join in the forums more so your character and personality shine out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had to block a member who just joined for being rude after I sent a polite message saying hello and welcome to Fabswingers. What she said was that I should not be on here and I offend her eyes so I replied saying no need to be rude then I blocked her.
I think I have the right to be here just as anyone else. Their shouldn't be that kind of rudeness on here at all.
Has anyone had people like that?"
What a nasty woman.You look and sound a nice person and I hope you have lots of fun on here! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You did the right thing. Report and block. There's every reason to be friendly and polite, especially to people new to fab and the forums.
Ps. Join in the forums more so your character and personality shine out. "
Sounds like a good idea mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had to block a member who just joined for being rude after I sent a polite message saying hello and welcome to Fabswingers. What she said was that I should not be on here and I offend her eyes so I replied saying no need to be rude then I blocked her.
I think I have the right to be here just as anyone else. Their shouldn't be that kind of rudeness on here at all.
Has anyone had people like that?"
Not us but we don't try and jump on newbies as invariably they are inundated and don't need preying on when they first join. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just had to block a member who just joined for being rude after I sent a polite message saying hello and welcome to Fabswingers. What she said was that I should not be on here and I offend her eyes so I replied saying no need to be rude then I blocked her.
I think I have the right to be here just as anyone else. Their shouldn't be that kind of rudeness on here at all.
Has anyone had people like that?
What a nasty woman.You look and sound a nice person and I hope you have lots of fun on here! "
Thanks for the compliment. I'm sure I will have plenty of fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just had to block a member who just joined for being rude after I sent a polite message saying hello and welcome to Fabswingers. What she said was that I should not be on here and I offend her eyes so I replied saying no need to be rude then I blocked her.
I think I have the right to be here just as anyone else. Their shouldn't be that kind of rudeness on here at all.
Has anyone had people like that?
Not us but we don't try and jump on newbies as invariably they are inundated and don't need preying on when they first join. "
I don't try either and was only being polite by saying hello. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You did the right thing. Report and block. There's every reason to be friendly and polite, especially to people new to fab and the forums.
Ps. Join in the forums more so your character and personality shine out. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to the forum.
Ignore her as others have said. You look like a lovely young man.
P"
Thank you. That's nice of you to say so. Don't worry, I'm already ignoring what she said anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a message from a guy we hadn't spoken too before saying that I (Daz) needed my eyes tested for thinking Nic was gorgeous & why anyone would want to meet her !
I did offer to meet him anytime he wished for a heart to heart chat Then we blocked him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We had a message from a guy we hadn't spoken too before saying that I (Daz) needed my eyes tested for thinking Nic was gorgeous & why anyone would want to meet her !
I did offer to meet him anytime he wished for a heart to heart chat Then we blocked him "
I think it should be that guy you blocked who needs his eyes testing as I've had a look and Nic looks very gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a message from a guy we hadn't spoken too before saying that I (Daz) needed my eyes tested for thinking Nic was gorgeous & why anyone would want to meet her !
I did offer to meet him anytime he wished for a heart to heart chat Then we blocked him
I think it should be that guy you blocked who needs his eyes testing as I've had a look and Nic looks very gorgeous"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate...it was probably a idiot bloke pretending to be a women on here saying those nasty things.
Ignore it....
Already have done mate.
Lol you started a thread about it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she needs to get her eyes tested.
You're right. She should go to specsavers lol."
Now why insult her now pot kettle you know the saying dont throw stones bet thing to do is leave them be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really peeves me when somebody messages me; I reply completely normally (or they request a face pic etc)... And they delete the message and never reply
I'd think if we were on messaging terms you may as well be polite and just say if you're not interested! I wouldn't take offense or bite back :P |
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