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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many months is acceptable for a woman or a couple on here not to be verified? I have lost count of the number of times I get propositioned from a "single woman" or a "couple" that have been here over 3/6/12 months and haven't even been on cam. A web cam only costs a fiver and funny how the "wife is in bed.. Wifes just gone out... Wifes at work... Wifes gone shopping"... Excuses I've heard... Not trying to put a downer on the site, but I now rightly or wrongly assume any women or couples who have been here over 3 months with no veris to be as fake as a delboy video player |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many months is acceptable for a woman or a couple on here not to be verified? I have lost count of the number of times I get propositioned from a "single woman" or a "couple" that have been here over 3/6/12 months and haven't even been on cam. A web cam only costs a fiver and funny how the "wife is in bed.. Wifes just gone out... Wifes at work... Wifes gone shopping"... Excuses I've heard... Not trying to put a downer on the site, but I now rightly or wrongly assume any women or couples who have been here over 3 months with no veris to be as fake as a delboy video player"
It's an annoying part of the site that has no full proof solution, I never message anyone who has been on here longer than 3 months without a verification, |
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If im messaged by a woman on here with out any veris or even a photo veri and shes been on here for a couple months.
I'm cautious.
I'll google image reverse her pictures first (assuming she has any).
I may or may not return messages and see where it leads depending on my gut instinct.
Theres some legit reasons why women dont meet up straight away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm suspicious I ignore. I spend enough time talking to men I'm interested in meeting. No time for silly games. I stopped looking for women on here because of the pretenders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I can meet lots of couples...surely its easy to apply logic in how to find them too...
I get tired of people moaning about the fakes on the site, when I know theres thousands who arent.
its worse those verifying others they havent met though(when you do your research)..that does get my goat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"acceptable ????
leave them to do their business as they wish.
this constant inference that people are not genuine as they play differently is ridiculous
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"As long as they want , you can block unverified from contacting you.
But then it mau block some nice real couples and women... Catch 22 x "
There are thousands of verified couples and women, the ones you would exclude by blocking unverifieds are a fraction of that. Do what you find best and forget the rest this isn't supposed to be hard work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't cam. Never will but I'm not fake.
Snap
You both have veris x x "
Aye -a fair few. Get yourself to a social hun.loads of good ones coming up. Great was to build up your contacts and future playmates x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My personal opinion is that only face to face meetings should be allowed as veris.
I don't cam and doubt if I ever will, it's not my thing. The best way is to find a local social and go along, you can meet loads of people and it's a good way of putting yourself on other fabbers radar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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surely photo verification is the hardest to fake...as you have to hold something up with your name etc on it...I know pics can still be faked but someone has gone out of their way to get photo verified??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm suspicious I ignore. I spend enough time talking to men I'm interested in meeting. No time for silly games. I stopped looking for women on here because of the pretenders "
This. If it seems odd I leave it. Some great people don't have veri's. Some crap people do. |
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"If I'm suspicious I ignore. I spend enough time talking to men I'm interested in meeting. No time for silly games. I stopped looking for women on here because of the pretenders
This. If it seems odd I leave it. Some great people don't have veri's. Some crap people do."
agree 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been here a little while now but haven't managed any kind of meet as yet. It can be quite difficult when you have young children especially when you don't have family close by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't cam. Never will but I'm not fake.
Snap
You both have veris x x
Didn't once upon a time "
We wouldn't cam either. Doesn't interest us even slightly.
We do have veris from meeting but if we hadn't we wouldn't cam just to get one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many months is acceptable for a woman or a couple on here not to be verified? I have lost count of the number of times I get propositioned from a "single woman" or a "couple" that have been here over 3/6/12 months and haven't even been on cam. A web cam only costs a fiver and funny how the "wife is in bed.. Wifes just gone out... Wifes at work... Wifes gone shopping"... Excuses I've heard... Not trying to put a downer on the site, but I now rightly or wrongly assume any women or couples who have been here over 3 months with no veris to be as fake as a delboy video player"
I do not class webcam as proving what folk are like all it does is show face on cam.
Just my personal opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photo verification should be essential
should it? When are you getting your photo verification done?
Er; he is photo verified 
is he? ooppss sorry my bad  "
The flag thingy on his profile is for photo verification  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photo verification should be essential
should it? When are you getting your photo verification done?
Er; he is photo verified
is he? ooppss sorry my bad
The flag thingy on his profile is for photo verification "
Can you block people in the forum? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can apply as many filters as you like, however every single thing from verifications to web cams can and is subject to skulduggery.
The only way to meet real swingers is to meet them in oerson at socials or clubs.
Sites are businesses designed to make their proprietors money .
If you wish to suspend disbelief then they are fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Photo verification should be essential "
It proves what exactly?? That they are a person that can hold a piece of paper with their name on it? It doesnt prove that they are a woman, any man could ask a female friend to do it for him. As time goes by fakes are easy to spot. Good old common sense is the best filter and not thinking with your genitals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photo verification should be essential
should it? When are you getting your photo verification done?
Er; he is photo verified
is he? ooppss sorry my bad
The flag thingy on his profile is for photo verification
Can you block people in the forum? Lol"
You can block anyone you want to block. You can't prevent them fromseeing forum posts or posting on your posts though. They will get a forum ban if they try to get round a block via the forum.
Does that answer your question? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Photo verification should be essential
It proves what exactly?? That they are a person that can hold a piece of paper with their name on it? It doesnt prove that they are a woman, any man could ask a female friend to do it for him. As time goes by fakes are easy to spot. Good old common sense is the best filter and not thinking with your genitals."
Obviously it's not 100% fake proof but it does help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photo verification should be essential
should it? When are you getting your photo verification done?
Er; he is photo verified
is he? ooppss sorry my bad
The flag thingy on his profile is for photo verification
Can you block people in the forum? Lol
You can block anyone you want to block. You can't prevent them fromseeing forum posts or posting on your posts though. They will get a forum ban if they try to get round a block via the forum.
Does that answer your question? "
Yes thank you  |
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"Photo verification should be essential
should it? When are you getting your photo verification done?
Er; he is photo verified
is he? ooppss sorry my bad
The flag thingy on his profile is for photo verification "
is it oh dear I didn't look at that....it must be my age  . Thanks for pointing it out  . |
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