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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tell me when someone plays/have sex with the same gender that makes them bi sexual surely. Had one couple say the woman was bi curious but had played with 5 other women i saod durely she meant bi but they wouldnt have it. Curious to me is your wanting to try something but havent right or wrong ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell me when someone plays/have sex with the same gender that makes them bi sexual surely. Had one couple say the woman was bi curious but had played with 5 other women i saod durely she meant bi but they wouldnt have it. Curious to me is your wanting to try something but havent right or wrong ?"
Generally I'd say people are whatever they choose to describe themselves as...they measure themselves by their own yardstick and not anyone else's... |
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"Tell me when someone plays/have sex with the same gender that makes them bi sexual surely. Had one couple say the woman was bi curious but had played with 5 other women i saod durely she meant bi but they wouldnt have it. Curious to me is your wanting to try something but havent right or wrong ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell me when someone plays/have sex with the same gender that makes them bi sexual surely. Had one couple say the woman was bi curious but had played with 5 other women i saod durely she meant bi but they wouldnt have it. Curious to me is your wanting to try something but havent right or wrong ?
Generally I'd say people are whatever they choose to describe themselves as...they measure themselves by their own yardstick and not anyone else's..."
I personally view myself as Bi-Playful, but as this isn't an option on here and I'm not looking to meet women on their own I've left my profile as Curious...plus I'm still exploring so I feel this is the most appropriate of the two options on offer on here for me. Some may disagree but can't say I'm overly bothered as it isn't hindering my ability to have fun! |
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"I would say I am bi curious. I only play with women in the heat of the moment. Mainly to get the guy all worked up though.
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I would of thought if you were bi inclined playing with the lady cause you seek and desire such would be the over-riding factor not to get the guy worked up!  |
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Its a big grey umbrella,Id say bi curious if they do it now and again. But prefer the other majority of time.
I like what Alex Reid said "if your a veggie and you tried a beefburger or had a bite,would it make you a carnivoure"   |
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Not having a dig at you Steve I thought everyone down Brighton was bi.....
Earlier this year I stayed with friends down there, I didnt get a meet,almost not quite.... Because I didnt know the name of the pub ggggrrrrr
Anyway back on track,we went into an aldi and infront of us was a pink haired mohican granddad. My friend said where other than Brighton would you see that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of rather lovely bi experiences, but not enough so that I feel totally confident with women, hence I still class myself as bi curious.
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By (user no longer on site)
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My view seems to be similar to a few on here.
You are bi-curious if you think about it or fantasize about it, if you have done it a few times, then that's bi-sexual.
For me, and it seems a few guys are like this, I don't fancy men, but quite enjoy being bi when it comes to mmf threesums. Oddly, i find it a big turn on sucking a guy in front of his mrs
I guess there are all sorts of levels of bi ness |
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Haha! Lots of gay and bi people in Brighton. I'm a classic cliche....
There are levels of bi-ness as I think it's a spectrum from totally straight to totally bi and people can move up and down the spectrum. |
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"Tell me when someone plays/have sex with the same gender that makes them bi sexual surely. Had one couple say the woman was bi curious but had played with 5 other women i saod durely she meant bi but they wouldnt have it. Curious to me is your wanting to try something but havent right or wrong ?"
I would say bi curious is when curious and wanting to try it but not done it. Surely if you have done it liked it and want to do it again you are no longer curious as you have done it so you then are bi sexual.
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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I just came here to ask the same question of myself, and the first topic I saw....?? ROFL!!! TY hehe
ok I will barge in with kinda what I was originally going to ask.
I have over the past couple of months switched between bisexual/curious on here.. because, honestly, I'm not sure what fits me best.
I am 40, and since I was 16 I have never been averse to the whole thing. I have kissed a few girls... most times prolly fuelled by beer. However, I have only taken part in 2 ffm's, and they were both a bit of a letdown tbh... again, a beer thing. no-one seemed to know what the other wanted, I guess.
But.. to me, bisexual indicates a desire to have a strong connection with a female. As in... if I were Bi, I would be considering a serious commitment with a woman. Or a guy. Do you understand what I mean??
I could die in 40 years and be quite content if I never got jiggy with another chick. But occasionally, I think... goddamn I would love to lick up a pussy and nibble on a clit right now.
soooooooooo.... maybe OP that might possibly answer a little of your question... but what the hell does this make me??
Bisexual - yes I guess by definition but then again not, because its not all I want in my sex life, cause I do like the ass and gorgeous curves of a chick..
Bicurious - because I can live happily with just a guy and his hard cock rocking me several times a week?
(sorry for the rambling.. i've been up all night  )  |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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I just came here to ask the same question of myself, and the first topic I saw....?? ROFL!!! TY hehe
ok I will barge in with kinda what I was originally going to ask.
I have over the past couple of months switched between bisexual/curious on here.. because, honestly, I'm not sure what fits me best.
I am 40, and since I was 16 I have never been averse to the whole thing. I have kissed a few girls... most times prolly fuelled by beer. However, I have only taken part in 2 ffm's, and they were both a bit of a letdown tbh... again, a beer thing. no-one seemed to know what the other wanted, I guess.
But.. to me, bisexual indicates a desire to have a strong connection with a female. As in... if I were Bi, I would be considering a serious commitment with a woman. Or a guy. Do you understand what I mean??
I could die in 40 years and be quite content if I never got jiggy with another chick. But occasionally, I think... goddamn I would love to lick up a pussy and nibble on a clit right now.
soooooooooo.... maybe OP that might possibly answer a little of your question... but what the hell does this make me??
Bisexual - yes I guess by definition but then again not, because its not all I want in my sex life, cause I do like the ass and gorgeous curves of a chick..
Bicurious - because I can live happily with just a guy and his hard cock rocking me several times a week?
(sorry for the rambling.. i've been up all night ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell me when someone plays/have sex with the same gender that makes them bi sexual surely. Had one couple say the woman was bi curious but had played with 5 other women i saod durely she meant bi but they wouldnt have it. Curious to me is your wanting to try something but havent right or wrong ?"
5 x 1 off's isn't that many, especially if it's all during group sex when you may be unsure what was the sexy bit the, exhibitionism or the touch.
Took my wife about that many to decide she definitely likes it and make the switch from bi-curious to bi-sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some very interesting posts on here. The am I bisexual or bi-curious question.
Seems that there are many different interpretations to this and I heard a new one the other day when I guy told me he thought bi-curious meant orally bi, whereas bisexual meant oral and anal! Must admit, that was a new one to me lol.
I am bisexual, I like sex with men and women, preferably together, but do play separately.
But that doesn't mean that I always play with a guy in a group session, it depends on the situation.
I think you just have to be honest and state how you feel. If you still feel curious, then keep that as your status.
Important thing is to feel comfortable in yourself and what you like, and to have lots of fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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i have been with 6 ladies when playing but still class myself as bi curious,because i would never want a female all the time because i love my man to much and prefer him to ladies allways |
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But generally I'm straight and my wife is Bisexual for the sake of fab.
But we just go with the flow tbh. 