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If you're a couple..do you have rules about laying or do you just go with the flow?
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over a year ago
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I would have thought that most people have rules, in that certain things are undesirable or not to their liking. We won't meet anyone unless they like to wield a large mackerel. |
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"I would have thought that most people have rules, in that certain things are undesirable or not to their liking. We won't meet anyone unless they like to wield a large mackerel."
damn was going to message you until we read mackerel bit we prefer tuna lol ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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damn was going to message you until we read mackerel bit we prefer tuna lol "
Tuna just does not do it for us, sorry. We could be persuaded by a reasonably sized haddock. |
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Not rules so much as agreed and tried and tested limits which we do not go beyond in a play situation but discuss and change afterwards if we both agree...all of the issues we've seen couples have seem to be around when one of them does something outside of the others limits in what could be described as the heat of the moment...what keeps us grounded in this hobby is absolute trust and open communication...it would be out of order and disrespectful to each other to do something that the other would feel uncomfortable with and cause an issue in the company of the people we were playing with... |
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"Not rules so much as agreed and tried and tested limits which we do not go beyond in a play situation but discuss and change afterwards if we both agree...all of the issues we've seen couples have seem to be around when one of them does something outside of the others limits in what could be described as the heat of the moment...what keeps us grounded in this hobby is absolute trust and open communication...it would be out of order and disrespectful to each other to do something that the other would feel uncomfortable with and cause an issue in the company of the people we were playing with..." ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Not rules so much as agreed and tried and tested limits which we do not go beyond in a play situation but discuss and change afterwards if we both agree...all of the issues we've seen couples have seem to be around when one of them does something outside of the others limits in what could be described as the heat of the moment...what keeps us grounded in this hobby is absolute trust and open communication...it would be out of order and disrespectful to each other to do something that the other would feel uncomfortable with and cause an issue in the company of the people we were playing with..." 100% agree, trust and communication is a must! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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