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If you're a couple..do you have rules about laying or do you just go with the flow?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Sorry I meant to say playing!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would have thought that most people have rules, in that certain things are undesirable or not to their liking. We won't meet anyone unless they like to wield a large mackerel.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we dont really have rules we both go with the flow and what feels rite at the time

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By *orthyorkypairCouple  over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I would have thought that most people have rules, in that certain things are undesirable or not to their liking. We won't meet anyone unless they like to wield a large mackerel."

damn was going to message you until we read mackerel bit we prefer tuna lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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damn was going to message you until we read mackerel bit we prefer tuna lol "

Tuna just does not do it for us, sorry. We could be persuaded by a reasonably sized haddock.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not rules so much as agreed and tried and tested limits which we do not go beyond in a play situation but discuss and change afterwards if we both agree...all of the issues we've seen couples have seem to be around when one of them does something outside of the others limits in what could be described as the heat of the moment...what keeps us grounded in this hobby is absolute trust and open communication...it would be out of order and disrespectful to each other to do something that the other would feel uncomfortable with and cause an issue in the company of the people we were playing with...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not rules so much as agreed and tried and tested limits which we do not go beyond in a play situation but discuss and change afterwards if we both agree...all of the issues we've seen couples have seem to be around when one of them does something outside of the others limits in what could be described as the heat of the moment...what keeps us grounded in this hobby is absolute trust and open communication...it would be out of order and disrespectful to each other to do something that the other would feel uncomfortable with and cause an issue in the company of the people we were playing with..."

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By *eforfuncplCouple  over a year ago

Morecambe

We just go with the Flo ) x

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple  over a year ago

Bloxham

We have rules but nothing set in stone what ever we feel comfortable doing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Having respect for one another is the main rules.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Not rules so much as agreed and tried and tested limits which we do not go beyond in a play situation but discuss and change afterwards if we both agree...all of the issues we've seen couples have seem to be around when one of them does something outside of the others limits in what could be described as the heat of the moment...what keeps us grounded in this hobby is absolute trust and open communication...it would be out of order and disrespectful to each other to do something that the other would feel uncomfortable with and cause an issue in the company of the people we were playing with..."
100% agree, trust and communication is a must!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we always like to chat with prospective playmates and set our stall out with our rules and make sure we understand the others rules aswell

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