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What makes a woman "good in bed"?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?
I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)
But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?
I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)
But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)
???"
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"A Hitachi wand? 
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol"
place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties
also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A Hitachi wand?
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol
place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties
also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis"
Sounds fun but not sure if it qualifies lol - effort is minimal and little to do with the woman (although maybe an element if skill I suppose)
So next question - what makes a woman dirty in bed? Surely that's even more subjective, what constitutes dirty ? Anal, oral, role play etc can be considered standard lol (or am I now so dirty that the filthy stuff feels vanilla? ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A Hitachi wand?
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol"
Maybe not being so serious? It was a joke?? |
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"A Hitachi wand?
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol
place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties
also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis
Sounds fun but not sure if it qualifies lol - effort is minimal and little to do with the woman (although maybe an element if skill I suppose)
So next question - what makes a woman dirty in bed? Surely that's even more subjective, what constitutes dirty ? Anal, oral, role play etc can be considered standard lol (or am I now so dirty that the filthy stuff feels vanilla? ) "
Why doesn't it qualify? Surely part of being good in bed is being adventurous and inventive. Changing things up, using toys, food,household items to increase the Sexual experience? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A Hitachi wand?
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol
place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties
also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis
Sounds fun but not sure if it qualifies lol - effort is minimal and little to do with the woman (although maybe an element if skill I suppose)
So next question - what makes a woman dirty in bed? Surely that's even more subjective, what constitutes dirty ? Anal, oral, role play etc can be considered standard lol (or am I now so dirty that the filthy stuff feels vanilla? )
Why doesn't it qualify? Surely part of being good in bed is being adventurous and inventive. Changing things up, using toys, food,household items to increase the Sexual experience? "
Hmm to a point I suppose but whipping out a power tool doesn't make a 'person' a good fuck. It might enhance the experience.
I'm being a purist I suppose (are you a good baker if you make a packet mix cake - might taste amazing but whose skill was it lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What makes a woman good in bed is simple
You love her
You fancy her
She is beautiful on the inside
Anything else is superficial "
I don't think being good in bed is superficial if a woman isn't loved, its about giving your best and enjoying it and giving pleasure..love doesn't come into being good in bed. |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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From a males point of _iew the most important thing for me is to know the women wants to be there with you. It is the biggest compliment you can have. Next we have to find out what you want as women are so varried compared to men. It is easy for a woman to bring off a man but for a women to climax there are so many different ways. Nice finding out though.
Shagging someone who for whatever reasons does not really enjoy you doing it ,is a real turn off and am sure lots of blokes have sensed this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Surely that's entirely subjective and all down to the man and woman in bed and whether they're compatible.
I love to dirty talk, to someone who hates it that would not make me good in bed, it would make me annoying or maybe embarrassing. To someone who loves it that might stick out as truly memorable.
Enthusiasm is pretty useful though in both genders. You can do a lot if someone shows willing!
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Talkative
Chemistry
Great kisser
Spending time to explore what's good for both of you
Lots of foreplay
Try new things
Not being in a rush
Trust each other and completely let go
Good hands or feet that caress and explore
Mutual satisfaction  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely that's entirely subjective and all down to the man and woman in bed and whether they're compatible.
I love to dirty talk, to someone who hates it that would not make me good in bed, it would make me annoying or maybe embarrassing. To someone who loves it that might stick out as truly memorable.
Enthusiasm is pretty useful though in both genders. You can do a lot if someone shows willing!
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By (user no longer on site)
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It really depends on who you're in bed with and what they like as some people like different qualities and what one person classes as good another might think is crap. To be good in bed you need to do your research first and find out what that person likes and just do that. I have found that works for me anyway and have never had any complaints |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I think back to my favourite meets, and the things that made them so sexually enjoyable, personally I'd say a woman with a great sex technique would be
A great kisser
Enthusiastic and receptive of my own sexual technique
Open minded and adventurous - I've been with some women who's oral technique didn't just stop at sucking my penis, but also moving onto my balls and even my anus on occasion
Affectionate and loving in the bedroom
Great sex needs to flow naturally, it should feel light, easy and FUN for both participants, if it feels like a constant load of stops and starts, the overall passion and enjoyment quickly starts to wear away. |
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Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.
Something like that   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....appreciating the cuppa and bacon butty you bring to her the morning after.
unless she's a strict muslim.. "
....wouldn't be getting porked at all then would she? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No inhibitions.
Movement
No giving and taking like a sack of spuds.
Giving the Blowjob like its your last meal.
Her "
I agree with most of the comments,
But i will go with this |
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"Talkative
Chemistry
Great kisser
Spending time to explore what's good for both of you
Lots of foreplay
Try new things
Not being in a rush
Trust each other and completely let go
Good hands or feet that caress and explore
Mutual satisfaction "
Good list. Nothing worse than the feeling there's a time constraint...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talkative
Chemistry
Great kisser
Spending time to explore what's good for both of you
Lots of foreplay
Try new things
Not being in a rush
Trust each other and completely let go
Good hands or feet that caress and explore
Mutual satisfaction
Good list. Nothing worse than the feeling there's a time constraint...!"
I second that but would add :
Sexually Fearless in regard to trying everything once , if it works then great ,if not move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.
Something like that "
Sounds good to me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talkative
Chemistry
Great kisser
Spending time to explore what's good for both of you
Lots of foreplay
Try new things
Not being in a rush
Trust each other and completely let go
Good hands or feet that caress and explore
Mutual satisfaction
Good list. Nothing worse than the feeling there's a time constraint...!"
Surpriseing how fast time goes When your enjoying yourself Especially under the covers....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A Hitachi wand?
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol
place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties
also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.
Something like that "
just like I do to Johnny I love watching his expressions  |
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I like her to have big suckable nipples, enjoy playing with toys (I've got a double ender and know how to use it), loves to have her puss licked and if she has her own strap-on to fuck me I am in heaven, Flirty (.Y.) x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For both women and men it boils down to being able to read each others body and mind. Its not about skill. When there's chemistry, energy and action flows between 2 ppl and love making is organic. One thing leads to the other. And what you like with one person, might not be as nice with another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A Hitachi wand?
How does that make for an enjoyable experience for the other person?
Surely that just makes being in bed alone great lol
place it between you while fucking....feels good for both parties
also use on him alone...gently on the tip of his penis"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.
Something like that "
Here here!!! Couldn't of said it better myself (Mrs T) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.
Something like that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well when I am in bed with a guy I enjoy hot hungry passionate kisses, exploring hands, licking, tasting, testing what is good for him, not being lazy, giving him attention and making him feel like he is the only thing on my mind, opening my body to him so he can explore me too, sucking his cock while looking in his eyes, seeing what he enjoys the most, watching for his body reacting to my mouth and tongue, lastly fucking him like I would want to be fucked, slow riding to hard pounding strokes til we both cum.
Something like that "
Yeah me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing, all she needs to do is to spread her legs and open her pussie in bed for my penis to penetrate her ."
ha ha you're reassuringly consistent with your comments.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?
I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)
But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)
???"
I was going to say, does as she's told, but was a joke (well partially anyway)
I like a woman that's comfortable with her body, wants me as much as I want her, kisses passionately (like it when kissing gets her wet), likes being tactile, wants me in control, flexible, (have gotten into some great positions), wants to be taken hard but likes being slow and gentle too, likes oral both ways, lots of stamina, tells me what she wants, I guess a nice fun girl with a filthy streak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Obviously this will fifer from person to person, but just wondering what it is for you?
I know what qualities / behaviours I find make for a good time with a guy (not single speed, attentive to whole body, great kisser)
But not sure what qualities / behaviours people would want from a woman (I am aware that attentive / good kisser are gender neutral)
???
I was going to say, does as she's told, but was a joke (well partially anyway)
I like a woman that's comfortable with her body, wants me as much as I want her, kisses passionately (like it when kissing gets her wet), likes being tactile, wants me in control, flexible, (have gotten into some great positions), wants to be taken hard but likes being slow and gentle too, likes oral both ways, lots of stamina, tells me what she wants, I guess a nice fun girl with a filthy streak. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No inhibitions.
Movement
No giving and taking like a sack of spuds.
Giving the Blowjob like its your last meal.
Her
I agree with most of the comments,
But i will go with this "
Me too. |
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