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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy. "
some men do come across as desperate and creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy.
some men do come across as desperate and creepy."
I agree, there are some 'interesting' people on here  |
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy. "
Only the desperate and creepy ones come across desperate and creepy.
Makes it easier to spot the decent ones.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A"
I think am right in what I say so am taking that insult like a champ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy.
some men do come across as desperate and creepy.
I agree, there are some 'interesting' people on here "
Some are very interesting in the bedroom.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
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I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though "
Who is shooting you down?? Just expressing our opinion on the good ones. Or did you prefer no one to answer? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
Who is shooting you down?? Just expressing our opinion on the good ones. Or did you prefer no one to answer? "
I thought you said I was moaning, but lets make love not war. PEACE  |
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though "
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile."
This site is pretty much all to do with sex, so id say it was a sex site ...  |
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile.
This site is pretty much all to do with sex, so id say it was a sex site ... "
wrong, for a start its name is fabswingers, its explanation is a site created by swingers for swingers, yes of course swinging includes sex and alot of it lol, but it isnt sex site, that would be somewhere you could basically just order sex or people did nothing other, but this, a swinging site, is a tool in the swinging lifestyle to help people chat/meet with like minded, joining it alone does not make you a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile.
This site is pretty much all to do with sex, so id say it was a sex site ...
wrong, for a start its name is fabswingers, its explanation is a site created by swingers for swingers, yes of course swinging includes sex and alot of it lol, but it isnt sex site, that would be somewhere you could basically just order sex or people did nothing other, but this, a swinging site, is a tool in the swinging lifestyle to help people chat/meet with like minded, joining it alone does not make you a swinger."
you said: "order sex" LOLOLOLOLOLOL |
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy. "
I have all the power off Fan too. Its great. |
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile.
This site is pretty much all to do with sex, so id say it was a sex site ...
wrong, for a start its name is fabswingers, its explanation is a site created by swingers for swingers, yes of course swinging includes sex and alot of it lol, but it isnt sex site, that would be somewhere you could basically just order sex or people did nothing other, but this, a swinging site, is a tool in the swinging lifestyle to help people chat/meet with like minded, joining it alone does not make you a swinger.
you said: "order sex" LOLOLOLOLOLOL"
yes I did intentionally lol, as thats what a sex site is as opposed to this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile.
This site is pretty much all to do with sex, so id say it was a sex site ...
wrong, for a start its name is fabswingers, its explanation is a site created by swingers for swingers, yes of course swinging includes sex and alot of it lol, but it isnt sex site, that would be somewhere you could basically just order sex or people did nothing other, but this, a swinging site, is a tool in the swinging lifestyle to help people chat/meet with like minded, joining it alone does not make you a swinger.
you said: "order sex" LOLOLOLOLOLOL
yes I did intentionally lol, as thats what a sex site is as opposed to this."
What site can you 'order sex' though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol not just here but all over the internet sex sites, women are extinct like the afrikan tiger, co the supply demand is no there for men, but for women they can fuck one from here everyday if they wanted lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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X10 is probably a large underestimate.....reckon it's much higher.
Am I moaning as a single bloke ? Not on your life .... I'm out there meeting n socialising and having fun. Only thing that cramps my style is work or my own laziness at times.
Stop whining and get on with it.... |
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"The goods ones are too busy having fun and being social along with making people laugh on here. Rather than bemoaning their luck.
I love getting shot down for 'expressing myself'. Its hard to tell how someone is from a sex website though
If I ever join a sex website ill be sure to come back here and let you no if its hard, however on a swinging site such is that you can tell a lot about someone by there profile and 1st message, without even having a chat, it just depends how you read a profile.
This site is pretty much all to do with sex, so id say it was a sex site ...
wrong, for a start its name is fabswingers, its explanation is a site created by swingers for swingers, yes of course swinging includes sex and alot of it lol, but it isnt sex site, that would be somewhere you could basically just order sex or people did nothing other, but this, a swinging site, is a tool in the swinging lifestyle to help people chat/meet with like minded, joining it alone does not make you a swinger.
you said: "order sex" LOLOLOLOLOLOL
yes I did intentionally lol, as thats what a sex site is as opposed to this.
What site can you 'order sex' though?"
well I cant put names on here anyway as this is a respected swinging site, but can you not engage your brain and think of the sorts of sites im talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"X10 is probably a large underestimate.....reckon it's much higher.
Am I moaning as a single bloke ? Not on your life .... I'm out there meeting n socialising and having fun. Only thing that cramps my style is work or my own laziness at times.
Stop whining and get on with it...."
U ok grampa?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy.
Only the desperate and creepy ones come across desperate and creepy.
Makes it easier to spot the decent ones. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, im having shit loads of fun on here. The forum alone keeps me giggling most of the day. And the ladies are some of the funniest i have ever spoke to, so i think its great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can hear Violins playing in the background
I think i'm about to cry
Oh woe is me
Gimp
Ill always listen to you grandma x "
Why call people grandma and grandpa? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy. "
Do they?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can hear Violins playing in the background
I think i'm about to cry
Oh woe is me
Gimp
Ill always listen to you grandma x
Why call people grandma and grandpa?"
he is 21 me and Gimp must be like grandparents lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can hear Violins playing in the background
I think i'm about to cry
Oh woe is me
Gimp
Ill always listen to you grandma x
Why call people grandma and grandpa? he is 21 me and Gimp must be like grandparents lol"
That was my first assumption but I didn't want to assume. If it is it's extremely disrespectful as the majority of people on here are over 21. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That there's x10 the amount of men than women on here! I wish it was equal, as women have all the power on here. And a lot of men on here come across as desperate and a little a creepy. "
How do you know that men come across as desperate and creepy?
Women don't have all the power on here, we meet men but choose which men we want to meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"X10 is probably a large underestimate.....reckon it's much higher.
Am I moaning as a single bloke ? Not on your life .... I'm out there meeting n socialising and having fun. Only thing that cramps my style is work or my own laziness at times.
Stop whining and get on with it....
U ok grampa? "
"Grampa" is fine cheers.....getting plenty because I'm just getting on with it and not moaning about numbers n ratios. Currently I have more meets with ex members which don't show up on site so actually better than it seems.
Take the advice given.... Ensure you have an effective profile. Read other peoples and message appropriately. You will get there in the end! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am just putting out there how I think the site is( I still like it). Everything has its faults. Remember this is not real life, so stop saying I have 'bad luck' with sex. |
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"Am just putting out there how I think the site is( I still like it). Everything has its faults. Remember this is not real life, so stop saying I have 'bad luck' with sex."
of course its real life lol, are we not real people, that meet other real people, and do real things together, its just we have this life and we have our other life and like to keep the 2 seperate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Am just putting out there how I think the site is( I still like it). Everything has its faults. Remember this is not real life, so stop saying I have 'bad luck' with sex.
of course its real life lol, are we not real people, that meet other real people, and do real things together, its just we have this life and we have our other life and like to keep the 2 seperate."
Nobody knows each others here (generally speaking)! We all like to have little digs at each other, when in person it wouldn't be like that. People are saying I have this 'bad luck', how would anyone through the internet know anything about me? I don't speculate about any of you! I am a young adult, but some of you are looking for a internet row, when am not an 'internet tough guy'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A"
Even the good ones can be duffers , I'm sure many have been pulled in by some who turn out to be a little less than truthful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A
Even the good ones can be duffers , I'm sure many have been pulled in by some who turn out to be a little less than truthful. "
Exactly! People can say what they like over the internet. They can make out their a 'good guy' or 'bad guy', and you still wont know until you get to know the person through face to face interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A
Even the good ones can be duffers , I'm sure many have been pulled in by some who turn out to be a little less than truthful.
Exactly! People can say what they like over the internet. They can make out their a 'good guy' or 'bad guy', and you still wont know until you get to know the person through face to face interaction. "
And even then some are able to keep the truth to themselves while preaching to others. |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"lol not just here but all over the internet sex sites, women are extinct like the afrikan tiger, co the supply demand is no there for men, but for women they can fuck one from here everyday if they wanted lol. "
oh yes lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A
I think am right in what I say so am taking that insult like a champ "
actually.... I think they are much more right than you give them credit for...
the site gives you the oppotunity to stand out...
so use all of them, some of them, or none of them.... but the onus is on you!!
see... I think the numbers game thing is a cop out for your own failings (not you personally but anyone who uses it).... it shifts all the blame elsewhere, and sometimes you have to be able to look yourself in the mirror and ask "what can I go to make myself better!"
the ones who work that out will stand out..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A
I think am right in what I say so am taking that insult like a champ
actually.... I think they are much more right than you give them credit for...
the site gives you the oppotunity to stand out...
so use all of them, some of them, or none of them.... but the onus is on you!!
see... I think the numbers game thing is a cop out for your own failings (not you personally but anyone who uses it).... it shifts all the blame elsewhere, and sometimes you have to be able to look yourself in the mirror and ask "what can I go to make myself better!"
the ones who work that out will stand out..... "
Ill be me! not like you said: "what can I go to make myself better!". If you believe in that, what have you done?! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Ill be me! not like you said: "what can I go to make myself better!". If you believe in that, what have you done?!"
you can be "you" all you want... however "you" then dont have anyone/anything else to blame (including numbers)
so what have I done.... shit loads!!!
I don't let my cock rule my head, I have my own check and balances for when I am getting to know people, I use the tools the site provides, I did my research on various FAQ so I don't fall into the trap that others did...
so yes, I am a better and much more confident "me" now than I was those many moons ago.... but that was work I did to make myself better rather than being spoonfed...
I believe you get one chance to make a great first impression.... to be thoughtful in your response.... so do i believe you do that.... nope! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ill be me! not like you said: "what can I go to make myself better!". If you believe in that, what have you done?!
you can be "you" all you want... however "you" then dont have anyone/anything else to blame (including numbers)
so what have I done.... shit loads!!!
I don't let my cock rule my head, I have my own check and balances for when I am getting to know people, I use the tools the site provides, I did my research on various FAQ so I don't fall into the trap that others did...
so yes, I am a better and much more confident "me" now than I was those many moons ago.... but that was work I did to make myself better rather than being spoonfed...
I believe you get one chance to make a great first impression.... to be thoughtful in your response.... so do i believe you do that.... nope!"
zzzzz... am happy for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There could be a hundred times more single guys on here - wouldn't bother us.
The good ones are easily spotted and the duffers avoided.
Using the 'numbers game' is often the easy cop out of the rejected and ignored.
Effort in = results out!
A
I think am right in what I say so am taking that insult like a champ "
actually.... I think they are much more right than you give them credit for...
the site gives you the oppotunity to stand out...
so use all of them, some of them, or none of them.... but the onus is on you!!
see... I think the numbers game thing is a cop out for your own failings (not you personally but anyone who uses it).... it shifts all the blame elsewhere, and sometimes you have to be able to look yourself in the mirror and ask "what can I go to make myself better!"
the ones who work that out will stand out.....
I made it the end of your profile, well done, when do I get my blue peter badge? |
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