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Random friend requests/look/delete
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?"
Absolutely... If you can be bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?" we just delete too many to say hello too. I think it's frankly rude myself to request without talking first , I mean you don't want every you dick and Harry seeing your face do you? Well we don't !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?we just delete too many to say hello too. I think it's frankly rude myself to request without talking first , I mean you don't want every you dick and Harry seeing your face do you? Well we don't ! "
You accept when they're offline, then remove. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?we just delete too many to say hello too. I think it's frankly rude myself to request without talking first , I mean you don't want every you dick and Harry seeing your face do you? Well we don't !
You accept when they're offline, then remove."
Not usually ,never really looked before, just ignore them ,but was a bit bored so accepted a few who are off line, looked and deleted, then felt a bit bad for doing it,,,, then thought,,, sod em, they sent the request in first place. |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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OMG... I just hate it when all those sexy women keep sending me friends requests without even saying hi...
I'm not just a piece of meat you know!! I have a brain.. (oh no.. that last bit sounded well gay ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a random friend request from a couple in Newcastle....i instigated a polite conversation saying I wouldnt mind a chat first and I got the reply "accept the friend request and we'll take it from there"......that was all.
They hadn't a single picture of any kind either so I thought it a bit dubious and blocked them.
I'm wary of random friend requests now should I get them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often say a few polite sentences, Welcome them if their new, say I'm from Coventry too, etc, and I get nothing, not even a Thanks but no thanks. That's rude.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often say a few polite sentences, Welcome them if their new, say I'm from Coventry too, etc, and I get nothing, not even a Thanks but no thanks. That's rude. " probably your profile pic puts them off, you look black and white WTF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a funny one, I have a few of these and just ignore them - usually they're off people who have no friend images of their own and haven't sent messages.
It's just as bad as the message just saying 'face pic?' without sending me their pics too, that's another pet hate! |
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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?"
As a single male I don't get many requests sent my way until recently a women sent me one out of the blue without any previous contact. In truth I was flattered but was a bit odd as she's either too shy to say hi but likes to pose naked or too desperate to card who she's with ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only add people I've met and delete random requests. One guy sent about 20 over a few days so I eventually accepted, but took all the friend pics off before lol |
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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?" that's exactly what we say we'll do with random requests in our profile text... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We sometimes message when a profile catches our eye.
Sometimes we just wink and send a friend request. The purpose is so that you can see our faces and if you wink back or message us then we can proceed further.
Many people having a moan about this approach but on the whole, we have had positive responses from people by being random.
Ultimately there are excellent and very appealing profiles on fab but we are interested in the face too and the random friend request often is quick and simple for us. Messaging is fine but a mug shot first. We're happy to be blocked by those who take offence!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even I get friend requests so it can't just be about pics!
I wonder if some people think they are asking to be friends. Still odd to me. "
I told you. Nothing says PHWOAAARRR than a profile with a few dots. It definately had me intrigued lol
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I just leave unwanted friend requests lying in the box...I don't mind winks and will wink back if I find the profile vaguely interesting (or message if the profile really catches my eye) but friend requests don't get excepted unless we've exchanged a coupla messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just leave unwanted friend requests lying in the box...I don't mind winks and will wink back if I find the profile vaguely interesting (or message if the profile really catches my eye) but friend requests don't get excepted unless we've exchanged a coupla messages "
^^^^^^This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who just send a friend request with out so much as a "hi" ,deserve to be friended, looked at, deleted, without knowing right?"
Totally agree..have a peek then delete or keep.. I'd expect the same.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just leave unwanted friend requests lying in the box...I don't mind winks and will wink back if I find the profile vaguely interesting (or message if the profile really catches my eye) but friend requests don't get excepted unless we've exchanged a coupla messages "
This, but more than a couple of messages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't accept any friend request unless we have had some sort of interaction first. How hard is it to message someone your interested in?
Would not accept just to see their pictures as no point if we are not going to talk to them. |
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