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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have had three meets lately where men have turned up and won't get within three feet of me without a condom. Fair enough, I agree with safe sex.
However, in all three cases, they have demanded that I supply the condom as they have not bought any with them, remembering this is an arranged meet. When told that I don't consider it my responsibility to supply such things for them, I get abuse.
My philosophy is simple, I arrange the meet for them, I drive to their area, I'm giving them what they want, the least they can do is spend £1 on a condom! Am I wrong? |
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"Have had three meets lately where men have turned up and won't get within three feet of me without a condom. Fair enough, I agree with safe sex.
However, in all three cases, they have demanded that I supply the condom as they have not bought any with them, remembering this is an arranged meet. When told that I don't consider it my responsibility to supply such things for them, I get abuse.
My philosophy is simple, I arrange the meet for them, I drive to their area, I'm giving them what they want, the least they can do is spend £1 on a condom! Am I wrong?"
I consider it a joint responsibility - I would generally expect both parties to have condoms, unless previously agreed otherwise (eg: one person has said they'll provide particular ones down to personal preference).
'Giving them what they want' is a strange turn of phrase, imo - surely it's meant to be a mutually beneficial/ pleasurable arrangement?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If guys dont turn up with condoms in clubs it annoys me as shows their lack of wanting safer sex. Ive actually pretended I havent got any and walked out. However on saying that I always supply condoms on meets as I get bundles from the clinic and know they are good etc and have a variety of sizes x I tell the guys in advance I have loads of condoms and a bottle of red will do instead lol x |
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I only give condoms out if the cock is worth it lol but in a way your best to supply your own then you know your safe then and the condom hasn't been messed with
Same when a guy buys a condom from a club then asks for money back because he hadn't used it they get a polite sorry don't do refunds lol
Thanks jo
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise"
what would make you insist on a condom? |
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"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise"
On what planet is that relevant? I doubt her looks decide whether the guys choose to wear a condom or not...
I am just glad to hear that these men are taking their sexual health seriously. x |
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In response to the O.P, yes, we find it cheeky when ANYONE turns up without condoms, unless it has been previously agreed that we will supply them and they will bring a bottle of wine or something...
At the end of the day, we will always supply our own (We know they are in date and haven't been tampered with then!) but it says a lot about a person's attitude to safe sex when they turn up without anyway. x |
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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago
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I personally think the onus is on the man to supply the condoms. Be for a meet I've had women/couples say they've got condoms but I never expect as I regard it that we men should already have some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise
what would make you insist on a condom?"
If she had two heads and seven arms, would make me a bit cautious.. |
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I generally keep 4 in my pocket,I went out last weekend and took 8 just incase my mate needed any or incase I needed em all..... The girl I was meeting sounds like she wants it all night. But I didnt use any,it was the wrong time of the month. This doesnt put me off but she wasnt up for it  |
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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago
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"Same when a guy buys a condom from a club then asks for money back because he hadn't used it they get a polite sorry don't do refunds lol"
It should surprise me that guys do this. Sadly, it doesn't..!  |
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"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise
what would make you insist on a condom?
If she had two heads and seven arms, would make me a bit cautious.."
Touchè... Although think of the gangbang possibilities!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise
what would make you insist on a condom?
If she had two heads and seven arms, would make me a bit cautious..
Touchè... Although think of the gangbang possibilities! x"
Hell yeah , lol  |
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