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So had a guy over this aft and just started to tidy up my bed. Where I uttered, to myself, "For fucks sake, going to have to wash that now!" (precum on my duvet cover).
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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago
not far from Brighton |
Haha the mess that means im guna have more washing..or the lack of verification when uve left them one which theyve displayed but still not left u one.
I like a good verification and a cheeky message later after the meet to say they are still thinking about me/what we got upto.. gives me a buzz
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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago
not far from Brighton |
"The I'm horny messages you get every Sunday morning for months after"
Haha oh i love those messages.. I like abit of a power trip/win when he would prefer to spend his sunday with me than anyone else.. I also hate sundays so abit of flirty dirty texts keep me in better spirits |
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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago
not far from Brighton |
"We expect a glowing verification within 30 minutes else we block them"
Cor thats abit harsh.. especially if uve kept them up til the early hours n they have along drive home.. il settle for a thanku text and a veri within 3 days haha  |
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over a year ago
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I send a friend request they except,send a veri and a thanku for good time message and what do I get sweet f.a so I think oh I'm crap! No flipping aftercare charming |
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"So had a guy over this aft and just started to tidy up my bed. Where I uttered, to myself, "For fucks sake, going to have to wash that now!" (precum on my duvet cover).
What annoys you after a meet?"
This, it's funny how much I don't mind it during... From both male and female, in fact i always think it's so sexy and crazy horny as well, but as soon as we're done and we've showered all I can think about is the wash I'll have to do, or poor house keepers at the hotels  |
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"The I'm horny messages you get every Sunday morning for months after
Haha oh i love those messages.. I like abit of a power trip/win when he would prefer to spend his sunday with me than anyone else.. I also hate sundays so abit of flirty dirty texts keep me in better spirits"
I just think why you telling me? I'm not helping anyone to wank who can't be bothered to meet me again |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Constant bombardment for a second meet straightaway
This "
I think this is the most popular one. As long as nothing gets damaged/stolen/lost on meet. Constantly nagging the other one person for a meet will be number 1 on the annoying list |
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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago
not far from Brighton |
"The I'm horny messages you get every Sunday morning for months after
Haha oh i love those messages.. I like abit of a power trip/win when he would prefer to spend his sunday with me than anyone else.. I also hate sundays so abit of flirty dirty texts keep me in better spirits
I just think why you telling me? I'm not helping anyone to wank who can't be bothered to meet me again "
Oh.. no not guna help him.along with his wank.. but hes welcome ti come.play instead haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The I'm horny messages you get every Sunday morning for months after
Haha oh i love those messages.. I like abit of a power trip/win when he would prefer to spend his sunday with me than anyone else.. I also hate sundays so abit of flirty dirty texts keep me in better spirits
I just think why you telling me? I'm not helping anyone to wank who can't be bothered to meet me again
Oh.. no not guna help him.along with his wank.. but hes welcome ti come.play instead haha"
lol mine aren't allowed here |
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The realisation that no matter how many towels you put down on the bed, Baby Oil will get everywhere and that's going to be more pretty patterns on the duvet cover despite several cycles through the wash.
Ah well it's hardly a big annoyance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Constant bombardment for a second meet straightaway
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I think this is the most popular one. As long as nothing gets damaged/stolen/lost on meet. Constantly nagging the other one person for a meet will be number 1 on the annoying list "
We met a couple at a club once and they were nice enough and we had fun playing with them and almost certainly would have met them again but the sheer volume of messages, not helped by the fact it was always the male clearly hoping to get his rocks off was enough to guarantee we'd never meet them again |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Constant bombardment for a second meet straightaway
This
I think this is the most popular one. As long as nothing gets damaged/stolen/lost on meet. Constantly nagging the other one person for a meet will be number 1 on the annoying list
We met a couple at a club once and they were nice enough and we had fun playing with them and almost certainly would have met them again but the sheer volume of messages, not helped by the fact it was always the male clearly hoping to get his rocks off was enough to guarantee we'd never meet them again"
So if the guy messed up. Would you get with the lady again if she was with someone else or by herself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We expect a glowing verification within 30 minutes else we block them
Cor thats abit harsh.. especially if uve kept them up til the early hours n they have along drive home.. il settle for a thanku text and a veri within 3 days haha "
i think she was joking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Constant bombardment for a second meet straightaway
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I think this is the most popular one. As long as nothing gets damaged/stolen/lost on meet. Constantly nagging the other one person for a meet will be number 1 on the annoying list
We met a couple at a club once and they were nice enough and we had fun playing with them and almost certainly would have met them again but the sheer volume of messages, not helped by the fact it was always the male clearly hoping to get his rocks off was enough to guarantee we'd never meet them again
So if the guy messed up. Would you get with the lady again if she was with someone else or by herself? "
No idea, it's not a situation we've ever considered. Though we would have no qualms about telling them why we wouldn't play with them again if we saw them in a club again |
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"I send a friend request they except,send a veri and a thanku for good time message and what do I get sweet f.a so I think oh I'm crap! No flipping aftercare charming"
Lol |
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"So had a guy over this aft and just started to tidy up my bed. Where I uttered, to myself, "For fucks sake, going to have to wash that now!" (precum on my duvet cover).
What annoys you after a meet?"
always wash the covers....
What'd annoy me is if they'd d*unk the last of my milk or wine!
Or unplugged my phone to charge theirs lol
Ruby x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When it doesn't work out with a couple and you get a message from the guy saying he has permission to play alone after you have left a verification which they don't return
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they then post for another meet
Lol
Was I not good enough lol
Not that that has happened to me or anything
I am awesome in bed
What about when you post for another?! "
Did I do that after we met ?
Dammmmm
You was so good as well
I forgotten ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha the mess that means im guna have more washing..or the lack of verification when uve left them one which theyve displayed but still not left u one.
I like a good verification and a cheeky message later after the meet to say they are still thinking about me/what we got upto.. gives me a buzz
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same here....its just plain rude! Lol  |
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Geting a text message, saying thanks it was good but you aren't my type! - should have known that before arranging the meet?......a week later saying I enjoyed it , you free now?....guess what my reply was lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So had a guy over this aft and just started to tidy up my bed. Where I uttered, to myself, "For fucks sake, going to have to wash that now!" (precum on my duvet cover).
What annoys you after a meet?"
What? You don't wash your sheets anyway? Dirty fecker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The I'm horny messages you get every Sunday morning for months after
Haha oh i love those messages.. I like abit of a power trip/win when he would prefer to spend his sunday with me than anyone else.. I also hate sundays so abit of flirty dirty texts keep me in better spirits
I just think why you telling me? I'm not helping anyone to wank who can't be bothered to meet me again
Oh.. no not guna help him.along with his wank.. but hes welcome ti come.play instead haha"
So... How does one get the original meet :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The I'm horny messages you get every Sunday morning for months after
Haha oh i love those messages.. I like abit of a power trip/win when he would prefer to spend his sunday with me than anyone else.. I also hate sundays so abit of flirty dirty texts keep me in better spirits
I just think why you telling me? I'm not helping anyone to wank who can't be bothered to meet me again
Oh.. no not guna help him.along with his wank.. but hes welcome ti come.play instead haha
So... How does one get the original meet :p"
Kiss arse and tell lies!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The assumption there will be a 2nd meet, without asking if everyone had a good time, and/or if it was what everyone wanted, just a message saying im/we are free on such and such are you free." Is it normal the guy ask for a second time or the girl?.
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"The assumption there will be a 2nd meet, without asking if everyone had a good time, and/or if it was what everyone wanted, just a message saying im/we are free on such and such are you free.Is it normal the guy ask for a second time or the girl?."
Im guessing its normally the lad asking |
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"The assumption there will be a 2nd meet, without asking if everyone had a good time, and/or if it was what everyone wanted, just a message saying im/we are free on such and such are you free.Is it normal the guy ask for a second time or the girl?.
Im guessing its normally the lad asking"
No i ask but suppose i look desperate and end up feeling a plank |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just my dog dive bombing into the bedroom afterwards,running away with tissues,condoms and on one occasion,hurtling down the back garden with a strap-on in her mouth!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just my dog dive bombing into the bedroom afterwards,running away with tissues,condoms and on one occasion,hurtling down the back garden with a strap-on in her mouth! "
You've just made my day!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trying to pay straight after - it's not that kinda place!
Seriously though, I think zero contact after a meet is always a bad sign, touch wood I've not had it though, I like to be civil and complimentary where I can be
Oh and the assumption it was the best shag ever, when you know they're a serial swinger and say that to everyone ha x |
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"The assumption there will be a 2nd meet, without asking if everyone had a good time, and/or if it was what everyone wanted, just a message saying im/we are free on such and such are you free.Is it normal the guy ask for a second time or the girl?."
has been, single guys, couples, and males from couples, have never met single female so never had that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The "How was i, honestly?" messages and the assumption i'm just going to give up my very next moment of free time to meet them. It's not that i'm after one night stands but the cling factor is not sexy. |
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"after veri's have been exchanged, the messages that start, 'so have u mentioned me to any of your friends'.....
I've had this but what does it mean ?"
it means they hope they can use you as a bit of free advertising, and you will tell your friends how good, big, hard, fantastic they were so all your friends will want to meet them too. |
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"after veri's have been exchanged, the messages that start, 'so have u mentioned me to any of your friends'.....
I've had this but what does it mean ?
it means they hope they can use you as a bit of free advertising, and you will tell your friends how good, big, hard, fantastic they were so all your friends will want to meet them too."
On god really I think I took it to mean something else , god how nieve am I  |
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"So had a guy over this aft and just started to tidy up my bed. Where I uttered, to myself, "For fucks sake, going to have to wash that now!" (precum on my duvet cover).
What annoys you after a meet?"
When guys wipe their knob on the curtains  |
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