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over a year ago
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"Disregarded unless your smoking hot!!!! Or what we are looking for. "
Yep, this is pretty much our answer. Truth is, most winks we get are from people with no pics, little text in the profile and no veris, so we ignore them. |
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over a year ago
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I think a message is so much better but can sympathise with people who write hundreds of messages for little return so I can see why they chuck in a cheeky wink and hope for the best.
Friend requests out of the blue get nothing. Even if you are smoking hot. |
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over a year ago
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"So there's not really much of a chance for us single guys hoping to get on in the world of swing then? "
Course there is,would you wink at a woman in the street and expect her to fall into your arms xxx |
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"So there's not really much of a chance for us single guys hoping to get on in the world of swing then?
Course there is,would you wink at a woman in the street and expect her to fall into your arms xxx"
No but a cheeky smile and a wink if you catch her looking at you might break the ice. It's worked before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often prefer them to a message,sometimes ill wink back,sometimes I won't,its not as if a massive amount of effort went into sending it so I don't feel bad about ignoring them,they're just cheeky ice breakers |
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"I often prefer them to a message,sometimes ill wink back,sometimes I won't,its not as if a massive amount of effort went into sending it so I don't feel bad about ignoring them,they're just cheeky ice breakers "
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"So there's not really much of a chance for us single guys hoping to get on in the world of swing then?
Course there is,would you wink at a woman in the street and expect her to fall into your arms xxx
No but a cheeky smile and a wink if you catch her looking at you might break the ice. It's worked before. "
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"I often prefer them to a message,sometimes ill wink back,sometimes I won't,its not as if a massive amount of effort went into sending it so I don't feel bad about ignoring them,they're just cheeky ice breakers "
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