It doesn't seem like there are many parties around and me and hubby want to try one.
Do we've decided to run out own!
So what makes a great swingers party? What should we do and what shouldn't we do?
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Have fun
Ensure people know what rooms are play rooms and which are not.
Any out of bounds area mark off
Communicate your rules, it is your home.
Invite wisely
Good luck and hope you all have a great night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been lots of great party's what you want is plenty of room no good doing it in one bed flat lol. Once you have got confirmation of how many is going Get a few nibbles and buy some lemonade, tell everyone to bring own alcohol if they drink.when people turn up invite them in show them around as you are the hosts hopefully everyone doesn't turn up all at once.then start of like a social as no pressure,people can chat get too know each other and if alls well things will happen. Hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as _iew said, set rules and limits early.
put notices on rooms that are out of bounds (kids bedrooms and so on)
get some nibbles
invite people you get along with
organise some games to get people relaxed, however, have found that those which involve others sitting watching whilst one or two guests do something 'sexy' can be a little intimidating for some. everyone involved at all times is best
the hardest part i have found about hosting a party is trying to enjoy it while also making sure everyone else is.
its very difficult to get the balance between host and playmate right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Invite more people than you want to attend - some people will drop out last minute.
Provide condoms and wipes, and invite a good blend of men & women and couples. Too many girls is not good as men get worn out. Invite more men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my experience as one of a couple holding parties you need to invite at least double the amount you want to attend unless you know them all very well. People are a bit more reticent about attending private houses as opposed to clubs because of territory I suppose. Our first party we invited 15 couples, five said they would attend, two couples showed up. Interestingly all the single men who said they would attend did in fact show up. Good luck  |
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Thanks for the tips all xxx