why is it so dificult to meet unless u wanna meet a single guy. do think so many guys are too desperate on here because a most fems are so picky. yeah it is there own preferance and so be it. but why can a single guy get a meet in a heartbeat if he wants as long as hes willing to meet another single guy |
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Some single males come on here thinking as although the women are on a swinging site they will be "easy"
Out in the vanilla world effort is required along with the attraction and some conversation and flirting , wooing
Why in here should no effort but I a cock shot and "hi wanna meet "
Work
Our meets have been after very detailed , flirty , witty long conversations
On txt , phone and have made meeting
More worthwhile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Easy to meet, I dont think so. We have limited time due to family etc. We have a free afternoon today out of the blue. The guys my wife likes are not about so what do we do. It,s near impossible to meet the
guys she wants to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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there are more men on here than women but a lot of women arent realy that choosy as you see all different types of men on here with verifications.
You have to be nice, tell women what they want to hear but not be too nice.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Theres that many men on here that even women with the looks of a cows aresehole can be picky
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Touche. These things work both ways, and we're not all desperate to get laid! |
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" but a lot of women arent realy that choosy as you see all different types of men on here with verifications.
You really need to start wording things better!  "
Do i realy. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Too many guys think of it as instashag, and that any woman they speak to will be just desperate to drop her knickers for anything that offers.
I'm on here, and no I don't look like a cows arsehole, but I do have standards, and won't just meet anyone - there has to be some spark.
It takes work to build up for a meet.
Too many people presume that because a person is on here, they are gagging for it, and will do anyone that offers.
I have to say, in defence to single guys (who I have actually blocked now as thats not what I'm looking for) its been couples I have found most pushy and rude, expecting that I will meet them whenever they want, without them making any effort. |
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"Theres that many men on here that even women with the looks of a cows aresehole can be picky
that's why I love it here "
Yes its not so bad sometimes we can get good looking ones too. if we are lucky.  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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" but a lot of women arent realy that choosy as you see all different types of men on here with verifications.
You really need to start wording things better!
Do i realy. "
There are all different types of men and women on here....
Because a man that you wouldnt touch with a stick has a veri from some other woman, doesnt me that she is not choosy/picky/fussy or whatever...
It simply means she has different tastes and is attracted to something that you are not.... |
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" but a lot of women arent realy that choosy as you see all different types of men on here with verifications.
You really need to start wording things better!
Do i realy.
There are all different types of men and women on here....
Because a man that you wouldnt touch with a stick has a veri from some other woman, doesnt me that she is not choosy/picky/fussy or whatever...
It simply means she has different tastes and is attracted to something that you are not...."
She may have different tastes i agree, but how do you know she isnt choosy? |
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"Too many guys think of it as instashag, and that any woman they speak to will be just desperate to drop her knickers for anything that offers.
I'm on here, and no I don't look like a cows arsehole, but I do have standards, and won't just meet anyone - there has to be some spark.
In all fairness ive had that same issue. Even when im just on here not wanting to meet ive had couples message me demanding meets there and then but I say no (despite wanting to another time) and get blocked because I wasnt looking for a meet
It takes work to build up for a meet.
Too many people presume that because a person is on here, they are gagging for it, and will do anyone that offers.
I have to say, in defence to single guys (who I have actually blocked now as thats not what I'm looking for) its been couples I have found most pushy and rude, expecting that I will meet them whenever they want, without them making any effort."
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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You might also find a little work on your profile will help... Its a bit sparse.
And personally, I wouldn't even read a message as i automatically delete cock avatar pics - just my personal taste, and from experience. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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if the whinge has more thought behind than your "shop window to the world"... thats a good point to start...
my phrase... you have to be able to help yourself "help yourself!"
so i dont think it is a case of women being picky at all..... sometimes men shoot themselves in the foot by not showing off themselves to their best abilities
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"why is it so dificult to meet unless u wanna meet a single guy. do think so many guys are too desperate on here because a most fems are so picky. yeah it is there own preferance and so be it. but why can a single guy get a meet in a heartbeat if he wants as long as hes willing to meet another single guy"
Because some men will fuck anything and most women won't? Is that the answer? |
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"why is it so dificult to meet unless u wanna meet a single guy. do think so many guys are too desperate on here because a most fems are so picky. yeah it is there own preferance and so be it. but why can a single guy get a meet in a heartbeat if he wants as long as hes willing to meet another single guy
Because some men will fuck anything and most women won't? Is that the answer?"
atleast you seem to see the point of the thread unlike most people here |
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Its a bloody nightmare to meet. I have to consider the following things.
My rota.
My partners rota (who is unaware).
Childcare either after school or during school holidays. This can include trying to get friends to look after children.
Priorities of my unpaid work ect.
Then to top it off are the wankers who then play funny buggers..... .  |
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"Its a bloody nightmare to meet. I have to consider the following things.
My rota.
My partners rota (who is unaware).
Childcare either after school or during school holidays. This can include trying to get friends to look after children.
Priorities of my unpaid work ect.
Then to top it off are the wankers who then play funny buggers..... . "
aww i know what you meen only for a guy to find a sexy fem like yourself to meet is considerably more difficult haha yet what i ment with the thread is most guys are so desperate to meet and find it so hard to meet sexy fems...well fems that they meet other single guys...so a guy can cum on here and have a meet within about 3 mins if he wants and knows how to type |
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