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I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally because our profiles say no singe men."
yes us too . I only chat with people i met at socials or whos posts get me intrested in forums . Especially if they seem a good laugh and not too full of themselves .  |
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"I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
please gen answers only"
1. we don't pick meets from profiles, we decide to meet after exchanging a couple of messages
2. we only message people with pictures on their profile or who send pictures when messaging us
3. how do you know we don't read your profile before deleting your message?
4. we block after first message for many reasons but chiefly because of rudeness or because its clear that our profile text hasn't been looked at.
These answers are all genuine  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
please gen answers only"
1. If they are close, have a happy profile, decent pics, and look good.
2. If their profile is any good then they wil have some friends locked or private pics. I ask to see them. If they don't have more pics (especially a face one) then I am unlikely to take it further.
3. We do read them, then delete. Most women will not show on your 'looked at' page as we have turned that bit off, so we see a message and click on the profile. If the profile is not what we are interested in, then whats the point in reading the message? Also, just because you've read our profile doesn't mean you're what we're looking for.
4. I only block people who are abusive or who pester me, so I can't respond to that one. |
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"I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
please gen answers only"
1. Not a single male
2. Not a single male
3. Only a single mail
4. To keep it to a single mail
Genuinely not completely accurate |
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"I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
please gen answers only"
1. we read the profile, the preferences, the verifications and look at pics.
2. If message is polite and well written we will chat and then ask for a pic
3. We usually have a look at profile, and will reply if the message is polite, even if it's just to say no thanks
4. We only block if the message shows a guy hasn't read our profile or is 'vulgar' or 'lewd', we aren't averse to a bit of naughty chat but not in an opening message. We also block if someone repeatedly messages us despite a 'no thank you' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well my profile says who has looked at my profile. "
Yes but it will only show those who are not in stealth mode - quite a lot of women sneak a peek a profiles undercover |
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I think it would be nice to say no thank you and that's it but seen as lots of men keep sending you messages after that can see why but it would be nic e to have the chance
was on here as acpl last year and had 12 meets and all good she has now gone and looking but its so hard now |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"im talking about profile that say looking for single men to not any profile I only wend messages to them and no one eles
have have pics and body pics so
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Nearly every single male profile on here has a pic, although its usually just a cock pic. But women aren't like men. Most of us read the profile before we scroll to the pics, and if the profile is crap, whats the point of going further? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sorry OP I did look..
heres My advice, from a single straight guy...shocckkk!
many will see ur profile...it is verified yes, u have pics etc etc..but...sorry the main answer would be that a lack of responses may often be down to how recently u have been meeting.. for most they would like something more up to date.
sorry for giving u the the most accurate reason why u might fall into the category at not receiving much mail back from ur target groups |
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Just had a quick look at profile and things that would put us off.
1. Sugar not keen on tattoos
2, you look miserable as sin in your pics
3. Your veri's are from way back (as stated)
Also just to show we read profiles carefully .... there is a word missing from the second last line, which means it doesn't make sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally because our profiles say no singe men. Block single guys from contacting you then...like ive blocked couples "
no cos the odd cheeky nice one pops through xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well my profile says who has looked at my profile.
It is possible to look at profiles without showing up. We do it sometimes."
us too its on orivacy settings xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sorry OP I did look..
heres My advice, from a single straight guy...shocckkk!
many will see ur profile...it is verified yes, u have pics etc etc..but...sorry the main answer would be that a lack of responses may often be down to how recently u have been meeting.. for most they would like something more up to date.
sorry for giving u the the most accurate reason why u might fall into the category at not receiving much mail back from ur target groups"
Sound advice, worth taking notice of! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sorry OP I did look..
heres My advice, from a single straight guy...shocckkk!
many will see ur profile...it is verified yes, u have pics etc etc..but...sorry the main answer would be that a lack of responses may often be down to how recently u have been meeting.. for most they would like something more up to date.
sorry for giving u the the most accurate reason why u might fall into the category at not receiving much mail back from ur target groups"
. Listen to this guy he talks sense . I see him in many sensible forum discussions . Hes a nice guy that talks sense xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it would be nice to say no thank you and that's it but seen as lots of men keep sending you messages after that can see why but it would be nic e to have the chance
was on here as acpl last year and had 12 meets and all good she has now gone and looking but its so hard now"
so,etimes there is too many messages to say no thank you to everyone .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always read the profile of anyone who messages us & unless they are rude in the message we always reply, We always ask for a face photo after a few messages if we think we like the guy. We prefer guys whose messages are fun & show a sense of humour. The worst things to say in the first message is "are you free to meet" or "you wanna fuck" or "hi sexy love your tits" .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well your profile takes all of 10 seconds to read. And 9 of those seconds is deciphering it, not so good with the words there. That could do with improving.
And if you check you'll see I dont show up on the looked at me list. You can turn off that option
First impressions are everything, and if you don't make a good one then you'll never get a reply. And people don't have to reply to you. Deal with it.
Nice to know you're staunchly hetero though. And nice for a male veri to confirm that also.
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"I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
please gen answers only
1. we don't pick meets from profiles, we decide to meet after exchanging a couple of messages
2. we only message people with pictures on their profile or who send pictures when messaging us
3. how do you know we don't read your profile before deleting your message?
4. we block after first message for many reasons but chiefly because of rudeness or because its clear that our profile text hasn't been looked at.
These answers are all genuine "
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Have you tried clubs, parties and socials? That way you get to meet people and show more than a profile can.
Even if you don't get to play with anyone, you can ask people you chat with to verify you. That will solve the worry of no recent verifications.
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
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As someone said earlier in the thread, there is no need for the chicken and egg situation if you get yourself to a few clubs or socials. Get chatting to people and get yourself known as a nice guy. The play meets will follow |
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The old chestnut. No recent verifications ah.
What a catch 22.
Give the guy a break lol. Clearly he wants a new verification.
OP personally i think your not badlooking and generally seem a nice chap
but as I found your a lot less attractive here now your a single. The only way forward is perseverence and patience.good luck mate.
Unfortunately I cant give you any positive answers or advise really other than grab a paddle .
Maybe remove the veri from your mate it sounds like you wrote it lol.
Yes I read no single male replies. Good luck!
As always love to you all. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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i usualy know if someones not my type just by seeing a face pic.
it may be because they look too serious or grumpy, too rough, unkempt, poor quality picture or i just dont like the look of them. or because they have no verifications or i dont like the ones they have. maybe i dont like their message or their profile tells me they arent my type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for that answer very true. Its like the chicken and the egg. You cant get meets because you not met any one so no one meet you lol ."
Here are a few suggestions
1. Do some research on the guys who are successful on here? Read their profiles. Watch their interactions in forum or chatrooms.
2. Jazz up your profile. Make it stand out a bit. Be positive and funny. Let those you want to attract get a glimpse of how much they'll enjoy and pleasure they'll spending time with you.
3. Then consider a visit to a club like Townhouse, put up a meet request and maybe a couple of posts on the forums letting people know you're going and see if you can find others who are going as well.
4. Start interacting in forums and chatrooms and get to know people.
5. Remember Fab's meant to be fun. So have fun and good luck |
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I ask for a pic and use that to decide if I fancy them. So a decent face pic makes a hell of a difference!
Don't stick your tongue out, give the camera the finger, pull a mean and moody expression or obscure part of your face. If you can't be bothered to show me clearly who I'll be meeting I'll move on to the next.
A well written profile with no text speak (spelling mistakes are ok) and actually saying what you're looking for helps. Don't brag that you'll go down for hours or will make me gush and definitely don't describe a fantasy of "you walk in, dressed to kill and I..." 
The Sidney uni warning is a waste of space.
If you can't accom and don't say why I will wonder if you're married.
"will fill in later" or "just ask" do not constitute a profile and will get a no thanks from me. |
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"i usualy know if someones not my type just by seeing a face pic.
it may be because they look too serious or grumpy, too rough, unkempt, poor quality picture or i just dont like the look of them. or because they have no verifications or i dont like the ones they have. maybe i dont like their message or their profile tells me they arent my type."
Picturers can be deceiving. Recently I sent a single woman a message and she kindly replied no thanks you are not my type. Few weeks later I met the same girl on a club and suddenly I was her type and we had a fabulous night 
I guess is more related to the huge number of single males in here giving couples and single females the choice to cherry pick.
So mate get yourself to clubs and socials and meetings will follow.  |
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"i usualy know if someones not my type just by seeing a face pic.
it may be because they look too serious or grumpy, too rough, unkempt, poor quality picture or i just dont like the look of them. or because they have no verifications or i dont like the ones they have. maybe i dont like their message or their profile tells me they arent my type.
Picturers can be deceiving. Recently I sent a single woman a message and she kindly replied no thanks you are not my type. Few weeks later I met the same girl on a club and suddenly I was her type and we had a fabulous night
I guess is more related to the huge number of single males in here giving couples and single females the choice to cherry pick.
So mate get yourself to clubs and socials and meetings will follow. "
We only meet people who we have met at a club. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a few questions for single women and some cpls on here , and please no single male answers
1. how do you pick your meets from the profile.
2 been looking at profiles and most don't have many pics so how do you no they your type.
3 after we single males read your profile you don't read ours just delete message.
4 why do you block us after first message.
please gen answers only"
I can read a profile very quickly, especially if there's little in there to read. I would not show up on the 'looked at me' page as being a member I have the option to hide myself from this.
If I get a badly phrased, one line message along the lines of 'how are you?' etc, then it's usually a delete particularly if there's no face pic.
I also delete messages from those who have evidently not read my profile and fit none of my preferences. Though sometimes I direct them to read it as a way of getting them to see that they are not what I am looking for. However, many say they have read it and when I point out something in my profile they do not match they usually say 'I missed that'.
I block if they are rude or are pestering. |
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