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why block someone who has never even viewed your profile..let alone messaged you??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ? Maybe they just thought you were too close for comfort ? There could be hundreds of reasons, people always seem to focus on the negative , don't worry and just look at the positives of being on here |
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"Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ? Maybe they just thought you were too close for comfort ? There could be hundreds of reasons, people always seem to focus on the negative , don't worry and just look at the positives of being on here "
Never a truer work spoken |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
There's 19604 members of Fab at the minute (one or two of them may even be "genuine", but that's another thread)...I think you should start a happy thread about the 19603 potential meets you could be contacting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember you will won't be able to tell they have not _iewed your profile if they have activated stealth mode
So they may have come across your profile and for whatever reason have decided to block
No big deal
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So how do you know your blocked?"
" well i was _iewing profiles and it came up saying i couldnt _iew one due to either being blocked or hidden!? am all for peoples privacy...just wondered..seeing as i have never messaged or _iewed that profile before why i would be unable to  am quite new'ish to the site...just hope i havent upset anyone  " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
It's just the way it is mate, I have stated blocking people for various reasons, ugly, ignorant, crap posts on here etc, I can only message about 2 people now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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am not upset..or bothered about it so that it wrecks my head...i just thought how odd it was....guess i have a lot to learn about people...even at my age things can still puzzle me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
like the streets sang
dry your eyes mate
i know its hard to take but
her minds has been made up
plenty more fish in the sea  |
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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
We'll said lol there are some idiots on here I've had loads invite them as a friend to we can set something up there only in looking at my pics don't even reply to a message yet we are friends lol had to delete them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been blocked by some cause we met and they didn't want to see me again and been blocked by a few cause of who I met please themselves couldn't careless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ? Maybe they just thought you were too close for comfort ? There could be hundreds of reasons, people always seem to focus on the negative , don't worry and just look at the positives of being on here "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's life. ..move on to the next one. You can't be to everyone's taste as how boring would life be then"
"yes i totally agree....but if i was to block everyone who wasnt to my taste i'd have a very very big list indeed! lol.... i was just wondering why?? i wont lose any kip over it...just think its a tad odd thats all"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had it before where they have joined like a hour or two before and clicked on their profile and i am blocked already. I learned to just ignore it otherwise you will drive yourself insane wondering what you could of done for them to block you without a single word been spoken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeahh,I've had some block me..despite never having spoken..maybe they just dont like me...fair play...not exactly worried.
Its neither sides 'loss', and they arent any more or less special than anyone I hope to meet or have met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have blocked people in the past for their comments in the forum, and thought, wow, I don't want to meet this person. I have blocked people who keep deleting and re-joining to get around blocks. I monitor the recently joined, their profiles and locations are usually similar enough to block them before unpleasant contact............ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
You might find you have been blocked by more now, why do you feel the need to try and control other people's motives. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not really arsed why tbh
Too many people on here worried about their inability to justify and/or control the actions and mindsets of others
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"am not bothered myself...just thought it was odd and wanted to know what others thought about it? " |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol
You might find you have been blocked by more now, why do you feel the need to try and control other people's motives."
"where in my post does it say i'm trying to control other people??? read it right....i said i dont understand why people do that- there by inviting people to discuss why they think others do it....not i want to know why i have been blocked!!!  " |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
I have a few blocked on my local updates, simply because their pictures were putting me off Fab. Not nice to log in and see em at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have been blocked by mostly women, because they dont like what i say on the forums or because they dont want me looking at their pics and profile.
i have blocked people before because of what they say on the forums, so i remember what sort of people they are, not because i dont want them to contact me, or because i think they are going to contact me. i dont usualy bother now though, only block people who keep messaging me, too pushy, too rude or i have a bad feeling about.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.
I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.
and now your blocked lol "
"like i care really!! " |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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makes me laugh...men are now blocking me!! lol...like am ever going to check them out anyway!! to all the people that read...and understood my topic - thank you for your input...some very informative replies and to all the people who didnt read it right...and are now reaching for the block button...block block block away...its your right to do so just dont think i'm bothered about it in the least. i asked a question...and for the most part got good sensible replies...thank you -you sexxxy forumites  " |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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makes me laugh...men are now blocking me!! lol...like am ever going to check them out anyway!! to all the people that read...and understood my topic - thank you for your input...some very informative replies and to all the people who didnt read it right...and are now reaching for the block button...block block block away...its your right to do so just dont think i'm bothered about it in the least. i asked a question...and for the most part got good sensible replies...thank you -you sexxxy forumites " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've blocked people who live in the next street, people i went to school with, even people my kids went to school with. .
It's a privacy thing . . Some people just don't need to know we're on here . .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on "
Nice new pictures, have you lost weight? |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.
I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.
and now your blocked lol "like i care really!! ""
man cant take a joke (i hadn't blocked you) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.
I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.
and now your blocked lol "like i care really!! "
man cant take a joke (i hadn't blocked you)"
"sorry...been getting messages from people..mainly guys..telling me i am now blocked!! " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive got 2 blocked.
One guy because of his pics. He put them up every day n i got sick of seeing them.
The other guy was a meet who didnt even have the balls to speak to me after our meet x i want my veri of him gone x |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
I do pre-emptive blocking. Usually because it is someone who lives in the area where I work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block list is like a filter. If we come across a profile that has "no black, no asain"
Then they get blocked to save coming across the same profile months later.
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good idea. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Theres loads of reasons, some that have been mentioned here might be the exact reason Only people that will know then is the people or person that pressed the button marked b,
Have fun looking at those tha haven t
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have blocked a person because I work with him!! I clicked on a profile, then his photos to see his big smiley face and a little willy looking back at me! I blocked not because I am size orientated (although it did make me giggle went he sat in the office going on about the size of his cock) but because I didn't want the man who I sit opposite and is my line manager seeing what I like to do out of my work time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
Maybe it's your mrs |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
You will just drive yourself mad if you just keep concentrating on how others use the site... Be that messaging, blocking ect.....
Just work on the one thing you can control to be the best you you can be...... You!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You will just drive yourself mad if you just keep concentrating on how others use the site... Be that messaging, blocking ect.....
Just work on the one thing you can control to be the best you you can be...... You!!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on
Nice new pictures, have you lost weight? "
Thank you. Only a tiny bit. Someone took my pictures for me yesterday. He posed me, made it look good. I love my profile pic. I actually look slim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on
Nice new pictures, have you lost weight?
Thank you. Only a tiny bit. Someone took my pictures for me yesterday. He posed me, made it look good. I love my profile pic. I actually look slim "
Losing a little bit of weight makes a difference though, he did a good job with the pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
Its a preventative action you might have met someone they don't like or looked at your profile and just though 0% so blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on
Nice new pictures, have you lost weight?
Thank you. Only a tiny bit. Someone took my pictures for me yesterday. He posed me, made it look good. I love my profile pic. I actually look slim
Losing a little bit of weight makes a difference though, he did a good job with the pictures. "
He did I'm well impressed with him. |
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"Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ? Maybe they just thought you were too close for comfort ? There could be hundreds of reasons, people always seem to focus on the negative , don't worry and just look at the positives of being on here "
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Like someone else said,this could be for many reasons...
Life is short,i block people I am not interested in,this saves time and I encourage people to do it with me.this prevents winks,endless messages and saves us all time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol"
How do you know they have never _iewed your profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about?? lol
How do you know they have never _iewed your profile?
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"sorry...what i mean is...when i tryed to look at a profile...in my area..it came up saying i couldnt due to being blocked for whatever reason! so i was wondering....why would 'you' block someone (anyone) before they have messaged or _iewed your profile?? they may well have _iewed me..in stealth mode lol....who knows? |
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