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Always wondered how people deal with this? I would never use this without pre-arrangement. Just know some people enjoy it during role play. Some people enjoy acting or letting go/giving up control everyone's got their own views on whether they use it or not. I always respect the rules of the house no questions asked. |
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over a year ago
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"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut "
I love being called a slut and a whore and worse (better in my eyes). I tell men I love it so it makes it quite easy. On the odd occasion a guy has actually been shocked said he would never call a woman that as it's offensive or demeaning I take things no further as we're not likely to be compatible. |
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"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut
I love being called a slut and a whore and worse (better in my eyes). I tell men I love it so it makes it quite easy. On the odd occasion a guy has actually been shocked said he would never call a woman that as it's offensive or demeaning I take things no further as we're not likely to be compatible."
only certain men would call me it. I'm not into role play or acting |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."
Couldn't agree more |
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"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut
I love being called a slut and a whore and worse (better in my eyes). I tell men I love it so it makes it quite easy. On the odd occasion a guy has actually been shocked said he would never call a woman that as it's offensive or demeaning I take things no further as we're not likely to be compatible.
only certain men would call me it. I'm not into role play or acting "
Oh God no it's not role-play for me either. I adore being submissive and dirty talk turns me on. Being called a slut when being fucked is just a knee-trembler for me. |
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"With the right person at the right time then it's a turn on. A random are you a slut type message I don't like, find it rude!"
Of course, that goes without saying. I discuss it with guys so they know I am open to it. If they're lukewarm that's ok, it's not a must-do. However if they're offended (and it has happened) it won't work, so I take no umbrage as everyone has their lines that they don't cross, but I would not pursue contact. |
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"With the right person at the right time then it's a turn on. A random are you a slut type message I don't like, find it rude!"
Exactly this! Depends on the person you're with. The wrong person saying it at the wrong time - I'd lose interest completely ! Dirty talk done well is a massive turn on - done badly - you might as well chuck a cold bucket of water over me!!!!  |
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In private, and as a part of intimate play, then yes, it's entirely right if used in the right context - I do like being treated like a slut sometimes and that goes with it...
But use the word at any other time - especially in general conversation - and you can expect to make intimate and painful acquaintance with a rusty pair of scissors!!!!
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut
I love being called a slut and a whore and worse (better in my eyes). I tell men I love it so it makes it quite easy. On the odd occasion a guy has actually been shocked said he would never call a woman that as it's offensive or demeaning I take things no further as we're not likely to be compatible.
only certain men would call me it. I'm not into role play or acting
Oh God no it's not role-play for me either. I adore being submissive and dirty talk turns me on. Being called a slut when being fucked is just a knee-trembler for me."
I bet you like been taken from behind, having your head pull back by your hair and been call a dirty slut while getting pounded hard??!! J |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."
I understand what you mean, its just that I disagree with society's view on the concept. Slut - bad = woman who enjoys having sex with lots of men. Player - man = hero cause he shags around, where is the fairness in that? Why can't a woman enjoy her sexuality without being called names, so the word slut to me is not negative. |
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"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt 
Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes "
Frill understands me.
I understand Frill.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt
Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes
Frill understands me.
I understand Frill.
Lol "
It needs the growl though, right? Soft, wimpy voice just won't do it |
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It's a word that always amused me after reading the dictionary definition if it. My partners step dad called it her once and was shocked by her response and the modern interpritation of the word so he showed us the dictionary to show us what he meant lol.  |
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Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.
But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions. |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that.
I understand what you mean, its just that I disagree with society's view on the concept. Slut - bad = woman who enjoys having sex with lots of men. Player - man = hero cause he shags around, where is the fairness in that? Why can't a woman enjoy her sexuality without being called names, so the word slut to me is not negative."
Because typically it requires effort for a man to get laid whereas a woman could literally walk into a bar and say right who's coming home with me and have a dozen offers. |
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"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.
But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions."
If I get an initial mail saying that, they are off. Only my doms are allowed to call me what they want
Anyone else will see the 'not so sub side' of me |
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"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt
Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes
Frill understands me.
I understand Frill.
Lol
It needs the growl though, right? Soft, wimpy voice just won't do it "
Absolutely, a guy whispered all manner of filth in my ear unexpectedly in a club and his voice was gruff when he said it. I was gone at that point.....oh my. He knew I loved it and he was a totally natural dirty talker. I was well and truly put in my place.
Only works with a guy you're comfortable with and who has the natural confidence to treat you how you yearn to be treated of course. |
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"It's a word that always amused me after reading the dictionary definition if it. My partners step dad called it her once and was shocked by her response and the modern interpritation of the word so he showed us the dictionary to show us what he meant lol. "
I joke that im a slut in the original sense often.
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It's like any other aspect of sex isn't it...it's fine if everyone's into it, and you just need to make sure of that.
I like it a little rough on occasion, but I wouldn't just go there without knowing she would enjoy it; likewise calling her any names. |
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"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.
But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions."
Of course, but that's the same with anything, saying you like anal on your profile wouldn't mean you're happy with someone making references to what they're going to do to your arse in an opening mail.
Saying that I've never had any messages like that. Finally got a 'want to see my cock' yesterday. I said yes. He ran away. |
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"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.
But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions.
Of course, but that's the same with anything, saying you like anal on your profile wouldn't mean you're happy with someone making references to what they're going to do to your arse in an opening mail.
Saying that I've never had any messages like that. Finally got a 'want to see my cock' yesterday. I said yes. He ran away."
I love it when they run  |
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"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.
But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions.
Of course, but that's the same with anything, saying you like anal on your profile wouldn't mean you're happy with someone making references to what they're going to do to your arse in an opening mail.
Saying that I've never had any messages like that. Finally got a 'want to see my cock' yesterday. I said yes. He ran away.
I love it when they run "
I felt cheated. The first person who's probably ever said a straight yes to him (and meant it) and he buggered off. Chicken. |
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I do not allow anyone to call me names. I have never been into men calling me offensive names during sex as I find it demeaning.
My OH would never call a woman names or spank them, hair pull, be rough etc, even if they wanted it, it is against his nature. |
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"Always wondered how people deal with this? I would never use this without pre-arrangement. Just know some people enjoy it during role play. Some people enjoy acting or letting go/giving up control everyone's got their own views on whether they use it or not. I always respect the rules of the house no questions asked. "
It can enhance for some others struggle to cope with it the ones who take offense well just need to get over it as its not a biggie really. Sometimes we like it sometime we are not really bothered its only a word after all. |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."
Snap!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not been called it in a while, but I love it.
Get called a dirty slut, you wouldn't believe what it does.
All just sex talk no harm done."
there is a time and place
and also people.
i call V a slut and its fine (as we use dirty chat in our sex play)
someone in the street does it and he is likely to be picking up teeth.
on meets, well we prefer others to show each other, and us respect, so if dirty talk is going to happen, its with all parties agreeing, rather than someone throwing it out there and HOPING it goes down well |
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Said in the right context, at the right time and with the right person it can be horny as hell. Any of those elements missing and you would get a smack in the gob.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know a woman who loves being called a slut, call her a whore and it's good bye balls
I'm an equal opportunity insult receiver. I love it all. They're words not deeds , therefore if a man imparts filthy, dirty words to someone receptive it does not indicate a man who treats people a certain way in a non-sexual context..... "
I am in support of the definition of the word slut as described by the authors of 'The Ethical Slut':
"a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you."
Ultimately words mean what you want them to mean, and can mean different things to different people. What's important is finding those who share meaning. |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."
I called my friends niece a _ezebel once joking around
Bloody world war 3 nearly broke out |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."
Tesco?!! It'd be shoved up his arse, no need for a bag! |
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"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...
Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that.
Tesco?!! It'd be shoved up his arse, no need for a bag! "
Brings a whole new meaning to the oft heard sounds of 'unexpected item in bagging area' |
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"I do not allow anyone to call me names. I have never been into men calling me offensive names during sex as I find it demeaning.
My OH would never call a woman names or spank them, hair pull, be rough etc, even if they wanted it, it is against his nature. "
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