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How to punish your man?
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over a year ago
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Can someone tell me ways to Punish a guy? Really wants to dominate thx118.  thinking of getting some dom T girls and dom Fem. Look at our couples profile naughtyaffairs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about soft CBT just tie up his cock and balls with a pretty ribbon so it's girly and leave the end un wrapped and flick it, tease it etc its not too harsh but just a bit uncomfortable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks that's what I was thinking too. He has he bed resistants. I wanna get another T or a woman and get him fucked in front of me  "
does he like being fucked? If so it wouldn't be a punishment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!  "
Oh he does 
We bought a cane last Sunday and some needles so he'll definitely get punished  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.
It is cringeworthy to watch.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.
It is cringeworthy to watch.
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No never met each other
I'm uncomfortable but only coz I've never done this before, it's all quite new to me! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.
It is cringeworthy to watch.
No never met each other
I'm uncomfortable but only coz I've never done this before, it's all quite new to me! Lol"
If the level of discomfort gets to the stage where it upsets you, please have a grown up discussion with the guy in the middle of all this.
If you don't and you allow it to continue, it will destroy you.
I was seeing a guy for a while and got too involved - in other words it was more than just shagging - and I had to stand up and be counted.
He could av told me to get fucked, but he didn't : infact we ended up having 7 years of 'fun' because I had the bollocks to say I wasn't happy with how things were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.
It is cringeworthy to watch.
No never met each other
I'm uncomfortable but only coz I've never done this before, it's all quite new to me! Lol
If the level of discomfort gets to the stage where it upsets you, please have a grown up discussion with the guy in the middle of all this.
If you don't and you allow it to continue, it will destroy you.
I was seeing a guy for a while and got too involved - in other words it was more than just shagging - and I had to stand up and be counted.
He could av told me to get fucked, but he didn't : infact we ended up having 7 years of 'fun' because I had the bollocks to say I wasn't happy with how things were."
Doesn't upset me, but if it does I'll speak to him and end it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't upset me, but if it does I'll speak to him and end it"
You don't have to end anything - just have an honest and reasoned talk.
We still had fun, sometimes just us, sometimes together but it was controlled - in so much as we both had a say in who and how we met.
Hope it works out well for you all x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nobody needs to be upset as long they know what they are doing and where they stand! For me he is my soul mate! We passed tht BS relationship stage! And we are looking to explore which I'm very comfortable only doing with him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't upset me, but if it does I'll speak to him and end it
You don't have to end anything - just have an honest and reasoned talk.
We still had fun, sometimes just us, sometimes together but it was controlled - in so much as we both had a say in who and how we met.
Hope it works out well for you all x"
I'll just end it when the time comes, otherwise it'll just get worse and would never expect anyone to choose between people so sasha will be able to have all the fun she wants with him if it's not for me
I'll most probably leave the swinging scene all together if it still makes me uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh no u can have the fun with him, as u know I'm a busy bee and away and me and Alan
Live 240 miles away! At least I know he is in safe hands with u whn I'm away xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh no u can have the fun with him, as u know I'm a busy bee and away and me and Alan
Live 240 miles away! At least I know he is in safe hands with u whn I'm away xx "
Feel like a dick now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very comfortable with K. As she sounds like a vey nice girl. Alan has told me abt her. So
U don't need to be upset babes. "
I'll go hibernate for a bit lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Alan is a very nice guy! And he loves his friends and he will bring the world just to make one happy!. This what I like about him.... Trust me I have met enough guys and this one is in different level. That's why I'm looking ways to make him satisfied xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read the title of the thread and no posts at all. The first thing that cake to mind when you asked "how to punish a man". Well the best way to punish a man is by marrying them  "
Haha yeah and don't give him sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh no don't wanna marry! I just like things to be straight up. Married couple kill each other. I wanna keep the essence of swinging...... Name or the game and abide by the cardinal rule of swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read the title of the thread and no posts at all. The first thing that cake to mind when you asked "how to punish a man". Well the best way to punish a man is by marrying them
Haha yeah and don't give him sex"
then get sympathy when he cheats on you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh not into that shit! I wud not let a mark on
My body! I love my self too much!! "
I've got tattoos so I'm ok with needles, just didn't like it when I was blindfolded  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x"
I speak before using my brain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!
Oh he does
We bought a cane last Sunday and some needles so he'll definitely get punished "
For the safety of my anus I hope never to be trapped in a room with pair of you O.O |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!
Oh he does
We bought a cane last Sunday and some needles so he'll definitely get punished
For the safety of my anus I hope never to be trapped in a room with pair of you O.O"
Lmfao! Up for some dp sasha? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x"
Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.
Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x
Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.
Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!
Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x
Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.
Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!
Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck
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I'm not married lol it was a joke. I'm only 24 :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x
Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.
Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!
Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck
I'm not married lol it was a joke. I'm only 24 :p"
What's age got to do with it? I got married at 20 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
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Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.
Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.
For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.
As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies please, take this in private.
Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.
And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay
Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.
It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x
Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.
Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!
Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck
I'm not married lol it was a joke. I'm only 24 :p
What's age got to do with it? I got married at 20"
I suppose it doesn't but I've never really seen many people my age married. Or at least not for very long |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.
Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.
For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.
As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here."
This isn't more than a bit of fun for me, if it was I'd stop seeing Alan but we'd remain friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.
Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.
For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.
As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here."
They are not "my ladies" to "sort out" they're grown adults with minds of their own the three of us are very open and everyone had knowledge of what is going on.
None of the three of us wants a relationship just enjoying the good things without the hassle.
Oh and I know it's the case as I'm talking to them both at the same time and they're more annoyed at your high horse than each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.
Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.
Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.
For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.
As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here.
They are not "my ladies" to "sort out" they're grown adults with minds of their own the three of us are very open and everyone had knowledge of what is going on.
None of the three of us wants a relationship just enjoying the good things without the hassle.
Oh and I know it's the case as I'm talking to them both at the same time and they're more annoyed at your high horse than each other "
no high horse
just saying what anyone with two eyes in their head can see panning out in front of them
my comments are actually constructive
anyway, let you get back to kidding yourselves, i have said enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone is going to get hurt
thank you
i am so glad it's not only me that can see it ..."
Well if you're finished judging everyone else's lifestyle choices feel free to get back on topic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Someone is going to get hurt
thank you
i am so glad it's not only me that can see it ...
Well if you're finished judging everyone else's lifestyle choices feel free to get back on topic"
Yes please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh no I can't girl! Very scared! That's why I always admire people with tatoos. Thumbs up for u xx
Haha! I'm fine with tattoos just not injections  X"
Always wanted to get a TATOO bit scared lol. I t |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh no I can't girl! Very scared! That's why I always admire people with tatoos. Thumbs up for u xx
Haha! I'm fine with tattoos just not injections X
Always wanted to get a TATOO bit scared lol. I t"
Most painful was my ribs! Others didn't hurt, nearly fell asleep having my neck done, had to remember to keep my eyes open lol
Want me to hold your hand? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh no I can't girl! Very scared! That's why I always admire people with tatoos. Thumbs up for u xx
Haha! I'm fine with tattoos just not injections X
Always wanted to get a TATOO bit scared lol. I t
Most painful was my ribs! Others didn't hurt, nearly fell asleep having my neck done, had to remember to keep my eyes open lol
Want me to hold your hand? "
Will ditch Alan and go to a TATOO palour lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh no I can't girl! Very scared! That's why I always admire people with tatoos. Thumbs up for u xx
Haha! I'm fine with tattoos just not injections X
Always wanted to get a TATOO bit scared lol. I t
Most painful was my ribs! Others didn't hurt, nearly fell asleep having my neck done, had to remember to keep my eyes open lol
Want me to hold your hand?
Will ditch Alan and go to a TATOO palour lol "
Lol yeah we'll leave Alan at the pub and go get tattoos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is painful to read and pretty cringeworthy
But as you say, you're grown adults, so I'm guessing you've all thought about the consequences when the inevitable happens
Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Someone is going to get hurt
thank you
i am so glad it's not only me that can see it ...
Well if you're finished judging everyone else's lifestyle choices feel free to get back on topic"
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about soft CBT just tie up his cock and balls with a pretty ribbon so it's girly and leave the end un wrapped and flick it, tease it etc its not too harsh but just a bit uncomfortable x "
Interesting. Thank u for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a lighter note...what is CBT?
Lauz x
definitely not a lighter note cock and ball torture "
Ahh right. Yes, definitely not a lighter note. Can't see Andy letting me do that to him anytime soon. I salute you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On a lighter note...what is CBT?
Lauz x
definitely not a lighter note cock and ball torture
Ahh right. Yes, definitely not a lighter note. Can't see Andy letting me do that to him anytime soon. I salute you "
I've broken handcuffs before and ill do it again if either of them try that lol :p |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"On a lighter note...what is CBT?
Lauz x
definitely not a lighter note cock and ball torture
Ahh right. Yes, definitely not a lighter note. Can't see Andy letting me do that to him anytime soon. I salute you
I've broken handcuffs before and ill do it again if either of them try that lol :p"
That's what you will be getting hahahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On a lighter note...what is CBT?
Lauz x
definitely not a lighter note cock and ball torture
Ahh right. Yes, definitely not a lighter note. Can't see Andy letting me do that to him anytime soon. I salute you
I've broken handcuffs before and ill do it again if either of them try that lol :p"
I don't think you have a choice by the sound of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On a lighter note...what is CBT?
Lauz x
definitely not a lighter note cock and ball torture
Ahh right. Yes, definitely not a lighter note. Can't see Andy letting me do that to him anytime soon. I salute you
I've broken handcuffs before and ill do it again if either of them try that lol :p
That's what you will be getting hahahahaha"
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I am not sure what is going on on this thread, but if you are not happy with people discussing their kinks or 3 consenting adults talking about sex on a thread then ignore the thread altogether rather than tell them to go private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not sure what is going on on this thread, but if you are not happy with people discussing their kinks or 3 consenting adults talking about sex on a thread then ignore the thread altogether rather than tell them to go private. "
Trust someone sensible to come in just add I was getting the popcorn out!
John |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am not sure what is going on on this thread, but if you are not happy with people discussing their kinks or 3 consenting adults talking about sex on a thread then ignore the thread altogether rather than tell them to go private. "
Thank u babes. |
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