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By *raceyp OP Couple
over a year ago
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we are a fun couple (we think) and after meeting couples can anybody tell us if our profile is off putting or the pics are no good etc cos it seems no couples want to meet us plenty of blokes or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site |
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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago
wirral |
"we are a fun couple (we think) and after meeting couples can anybody tell us if our profile is off putting or the pics are no good etc cos it seems no couples want to meet us plenty of blokes or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site"
looks fine to me.
looking ar ur veries it looks like u are doing well on here with cpls as well as singles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for some yes it may be a put off but i dont think they really understand the point of the site if it puts them off that much. profile looks great"
I disagree with you, but it does explain why so many single men whine about not getting meets: the assumption being because this is a sex site you're supposed to sleep with everyone that asks otherwise why are we here!
Some of us are very selective with who and how often we meet and looking at a profile of someone with hundreds of verifications is off putting to me: how many do you need to prove you're genuine and meet?!!
How people conduct their lives and profiles is their business but saying those of us who don't want to play with people we feel we'd need an haz mat suit to play with as not understanding the site is incorrect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are a fun couple (we think) and after meeting couples can anybody tell us if our profile is off putting or the pics are no good etc cos it seems no couples want to meet us plenty of blokes or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site"
Nothing wrong with the profile. The reference to 3000 timewasters as you call people is rather condescending though.
I see this thread for what it is though a "look at us we need couples meets so message us after seeing this". I have no doubt you will find people do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see this thread for what it is though a "look at us we need couples meets so message us after seeing this". I have no doubt you will find people do that."
yeap, another look at me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You not on your own with that one.
We fined it very hard to put down what we want to say or make it sound right.
We have had time wasters but we are in know hurry when the right folk come along its gona be great.
Or it could be that we are just ugly lol x |
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".... or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site"
Regardless of what is on your profile, your perception of success will be most influence by your expectations: If you expect 3000 people to be queuing up to meet you… you’re not going to be thinking your profile is successful no matter what you write on it.
By potentially labelling 3000 people as timewasters and wannabes, whether you meant to or not, you are implying you are expecting a bloody long queue….. which begs the question, do you really want to meet just anyone who asks? Have you ever knocked people back because they didn’t meet your preferences?
If you have, then shouldn’t you also expect some of the 3000 won’t think you are right for them?
If you haven't, then I can see why some of the 3000 won’t think you are right for them.
May be some of the 3000 have queues of their own.... and having read your post, you may well (as you probably hoped) bumped up a few places with some folk... but I am also sure you dropped down a long way on plenty of others.
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
"is too many verifications on profile a off putter"
It doesnt put me off in the slightest, but it can be a double edged sword.
I've had some people turn me down because there's a perception that I "get around" too much (go figure!!) - other people have been very positive about it - even to the extent where they have commented on the fact I've met people they know and would be happy to meet on the basis of that.
You'll never please everyone all the time - so don't try |
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couldnt agree more, there seem to have been a run on "what's wrong with our/my profile?" threads, its mainly to get more hits on thier looked at me list if you ask me! But there again, maybe Im just that way out today! lol |
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