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Disabilty is This a turn off?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I have a fairly mild disability being profoundly deaf though I do Wear cochlear implants to correct this.
I have always been pretty up front about this and I do manage a conversation though I cant use a phone.
So I am wondering is a disabled person of any type a turn off and would you be able to handle a few compromises that a disability might bring? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I met a woman with hearing aids once. She didnt tell me an I had a hell of a time trying to figure out why there was a high pitched noise everytime I went near her neck.
It didnt bother me in the least, just went to other areas. It in fact it helped, as I didnt have to get over her HH tits from then on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think a disability is a problem. You are doing the right thing by making potential meets aware of it. Those that see it as a problem are probably not the type of people you want to meet anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People should always take people as they find them, it shouldn't stop anybody being who they are.
If people have an issue with it then they are not for you.
Same goes for fat, thin, big cock, little cock, black, white, good grammar, bad grammar.
Actually, the bit about the grammar isn't quite true.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physical disability I don't think would be a problem for me......I met a lady in a wheel chair at bestival a few years back....we didn't do anything I just met her but she stands out in my mind as one of the most beautiful sexy women I ever saw...I'm with chaotic on the neurological disability thing though, I persanally would feel very ill at ease with somebody who I saw as vulnerable.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Disabilities wouldn't be an issue to us.
Unless, they have an issue about it 
We've had pm's from Asian guys, and whilst we dont have an issue with someones skin colour, when they bang on over and over about how they are Asian, and expect us to have an issue with it, then we decline.
Often we get comments because we haven't highlighted on our profile, we are an 'interace' couple. I dont see what our skin colour has to do with it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slept with a blind girl once, didn't matter one bit, she was a top girl , a great laugh and a piss taking cow! So physical disability's are fine, neurological is a different matter, |
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Certain types of disability would affect my playtime so it would be a problem. My playroom is upstairs so a wheelchair user would be out. I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets, use blindfolds etc.
Doesn't mean I'm a "ist" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult."
Yes same here  |
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it is a turn off for some people. I get told by narrow minded idiots that 'people like me' shouldn't be on this site.
I tend to only do social meets at present, due to my health being particularly bad at the moment and have met many people who have been lovely, so I'll continue to stay on here and meet new people.
Would I meet someone disabled? Yes, I already have met a fellow wheelchair user and a guy that was deaf. He too had the implants. But knowing BSL was a bonus. We just had fun signing rude words!   |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult."
well said,, disabled people need sex to , so it wouldnt bother me sex is fun have fun,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Certain types of disability would affect my playtime so it would be a problem. My playroom is upstairs so a wheelchair user would be out. I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets, use blindfolds etc.
Doesn't mean I'm a "ist" "
So true. If certain people can't do the sort of things you're looking for you wouldn't go for them. Nothing to do with a disability.but people should always be told. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody seems to care about my neurological condition in a good way.
I'm weird yes, but I'm far from vulnerable. It's a mild condition I deal with easily. It helps for people to know, but the people who don't give a shit are the ones I'll get on with easier. |
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"it is a turn off for some people. I get told by narrow minded idiots that 'people like me' shouldn't be on this site.
I tend to only do social meets at present, due to my health being particularly bad at the moment and have met many people who have been lovely, so I'll continue to stay on here and meet new people.
Would I meet someone disabled? Yes, I already have met a fellow wheelchair user and a guy that was deaf. He too had the implants. But knowing BSL was a bonus. We just had fun signing rude words! "
I can't believe how rude some people can be on this site....good on you for not letting them get to you |
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A straightforward mention early in the messaging process helps. I have some health issues at the moment and though it's not a disability a handful have declined to meet me. Which is fine.
But I'd rather know early on before I start to get excited about a meet. And by mentioning it early, without fuss and making it clear that I am comfortable in my skin and will not be offended by a thanks but no thanks it keeps it civilised and pleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have hearing aids not completely deaf tho yet?
mildred is registered disabled, too many peeps looking at her good bits to realize she has bad bits,
physical wouldn't bother us , the mind would be different depends realy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think for me the main sticking point is when you tell people you cant easily use the phone.
It seems that many women wont meet unless this happens and don't believe me when I tell them its a problem.
its a bit frusrating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit. "
Really? you look damn hot :p
I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.
But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head
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By *vaneTV/TS
over a year ago
Manchester |
Ive met a lot of ex servicemen with missing limbs etc. They usually get an extra special service from me. They also have some great stories. If someone was mentally handicapped then id have issues from a different stand point.
I met one guy who gad polio as a child he was only 5 foot and hunched but he had a dick that almost touched his knee.
So you just never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I developed a balance problem last year which means I can't drive. My brain is still in tact, I just have to be careful in the way I move. Am still getting the urge so I know the rest of me works ok . |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.
Really? you look damn hot :p
I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.
But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head
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Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel. |
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"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.
Really? you look damn hot :p
I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.
But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head
Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel."
After (ahem) perusing your pics I suspect the ladies might need to have your scar pointed out to them cos they might get distracted by other bits. Just sayin  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.
Really? you look damn hot :p
I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.
But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head
Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel.
After (ahem) perusing your pics I suspect the ladies might need to have your scar pointed out to them cos they might get distracted by other bits. Just sayin "
Thankyou!
It is why there are no pics of my stomach... |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult.
Yes same here "
This and I hope everyone would feel the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.
Really? you look damn hot :p
I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.
But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head
Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel.
After (ahem) perusing your pics I suspect the ladies might need to have your scar pointed out to them cos they might get distracted by other bits. Just sayin "
I thought that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I have a fairly mild disability being profoundly deaf though I do Wear cochlear implants to correct this.
I have always been pretty up front about this and I do manage a conversation though I cant use a phone.
So I am wondering is a disabled person of any type a turn off and would you be able to handle a few compromises that a disability might bring?"
No problems with most disabilities but saying that as with anyone there has to be an attraction there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never really thought a disability would or shoud be a problem and since being diagnosed with ms about 2 yearsgago it made it 100 % clear to me its not.... sexy fun with sexual people is sexy whatever. ..whatever disability size creed.. as long as its a sexy rewarding friendship x |
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