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over a year ago
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how did u bring swinging up with ur partner and how did u get into this? like who said it to who first? and what was your first experience? views and replys much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well.. being that it's not the easiest thing to broach in a new relationship, I (the male half!) chose not to mention that I'd swung before when we first met. Failing to delete my browsing history though lead to her bringing it up - I was expecting a not good reaction so was pleasently suprised when she said she was interested and here we are lol. |
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well about 4 years ago was with a GF and we were due to go on a walking holiday in devon for some reason .so i said ...dont wanna go we are too young for that ....and said lets spend 4 days doing all the swing clubs in the midalnds ...and she said good idea and that was it ... |
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swiging was always hubbys idea and i wasnt up for it at all but with a little persuation he talked me into it thinking he wouldnt go thro with it if i said yes ......
so i played his bluff by saying i wanted a mmf 3some first he agreed and we arranged our first meet with a very nice guy but for the week leading upto it i was sick with nerves n every day was gonna call it off even on the day of the meet i was so nerviuos was sure i wouldnt go thro with it ......
but to cut a long story short i did n had the most amazing time and it was a case off NEXT as soon as it was over I loved it that much .......
we now meet with SINGLE GUYS and COUPLES for fun as and when we can ....
ten yrs later were still loving it xxxxx
luv jacs n stallion
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By (user no longer on site)
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lol, Jacs ditto here , it was the same with me, but we had our first mmf 3 sum with hubbys best mate. that was back in 95 and we have never looked back, we have had mmf,ffm, and cpls too. still love it now and made many great friends toooo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to just yak about it as bedroom talk... guaging reactions that way.. when after ages we both realised we both quite liked the idea the rest is history...
Bedroom talk is a safe way eh??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it started for us by watching porn then talking about what was happening in the porn ect..along with our fantasies..as you do 
we were very unsuccessfull for about a year in our attemp to "swing" then someone recommended this site ...and hey presto!! lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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ben was curious as to what went on in a club. i was not up for it at all. couldnt understand why a loving couple would need to do this. he showed me some sites and i asked alot of questions on a forum and decided to give it a go. i did take a couple of bottles of wine with me for courage and expected to have d*unk it all within 20 mins lol. we went to chams and it was lovely. we stayed 8 hurs and the wine lasted all day. ben was happy as he had seen what went on and wasnt what he imagined. i decided we would go again and havent looked back. we do change the rules regularly though. at first we locked ourselves away. then played in front of others. slowly we joined others untill we did full swing. we do still have bounderies. neither of us will play alone and we stay in the same room |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely. That's how it was for us too. Unspoken fantasies become spoken ones and then 'would you for real?' and before you know it, you've booked to go to chams again at the end of May lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We watched a programme on tv about a swingers party, many years ago. That night Jane had a dream about an Orgy and woke up wet and horny, so we decided to look into it. After reading loads of articles we joined a contact magazine club (before the days of internet sites like this) and got snail mailing looking for meets. The rest is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had been trying to work out how I could get attention up top, while he was down there. I had a friend who used to swing and she had told me about. After a few drinks one night, I came out with "so what do you think about swinging, I'd quite like to do it." It was a risk as we'd been married 10 years, but knew that he was quite open-minded. |
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