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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average. |
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"This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average."
 hope it goes well for you... well done  |
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"This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average.
hope it goes well for you... well done "
wow - wow - if we're looking for a single guy to join us would you be up for it? Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Average guys do get meets. Regularly.
One persons average is another persons stunning.
Chances out there for everyone, but as Brucie says 'you jusy have to play your cards right' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive."
Mate you where not wrong and fair play for doing it... |
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yes I been on here 3 years was on as single and nothing then on here as Cpl and had lots of meets come off site for a year back on here now . I have try the nice way and nothing try the hi can I fk you way and still nothing.
70% of people on here are fake even the Cpl ones . when you get reply they say get back to you but they never do
onne thing I have done is keep all your sent messages when you meet some one and starts meets if any of your passed get intouch block them
no mater how you are on here it want work |
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that"
they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that"
Because they have chosen them, or met them at parties ect.
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that
they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z"
well why don't they block the ones that do it not all of us we not all here for that I read all profile first before send message and still nothing back so that s why men do it may as well say want a fk and not read it or read it send nice message and still get deleted . all I would like is one message that says hi sorry your not for us easy |
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"People who are upfront and honest are always preferable over looks in my book, I've met many 'Mr Averages' and had some great times. "
yes you are right there be you on here I am never lie or anything but most women and single females think we all the same but if they take the time to chat they will find out we not all bad |
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that
they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z
well why don't they block the ones that do it not all of us we not all here for that I read all profile first before send message and still nothing back so that s why men do it may as well say want a fk and not read it or read it send nice message and still get deleted . all I would like is one message that says hi sorry your not for us easy"
We block all single males - if we want to find one we will message him - too much hassle to have it otherwise Z |
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is thatBecause they have chosen them, or met them at parties ect."
yes your right they chosen them but not met them at partys
why put it on profile if they not going to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that
they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z
well why don't they block the ones that do it not all of us we not all here for that I read all profile first before send message and still nothing back so that s why men do it may as well say want a fk and not read it or read it send nice message and still get deleted . all I would like is one message that says hi sorry your not for us easy"
we havnt blocked single males because we get the occasional email from some regarding posts or comments we made which can lead to a bit of banter, we have stated on our profile what we are looking for and if people are just too stupid to take it in or understand it then i for one feel no need to reply to a chancers message.
If you dont know how to play the game save time and pay for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is thatBecause they have chosen them, or met them at parties ect.
yes your right they chosen them but not met them at partys
why put it on profile if they not going to meet them"
How on earth do you know how & where others meet single males do you have crystal balls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always look and read profiles of women/ couples even though am not what they are looking for
Nothing wrong with window shopping 
From another average man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes"
Good grief man! Your negativity and whinging just makes you completely unapproachable,you're like a human version of eeyore the donkey
Cheer up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wooo hoooooo
Let's hear it for the average guys!!
Fist bump ish
But what about us beautiful people?  "
Your out of my league so you cancel yourself out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average."
Well done OP - nice to see a single guy being positive and getting somewhere!
From an other average dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The op is a lovely guy,He got of his bum and went to a sussex social,and was a blooming good laugh ,that does help too shows He is approachable and makes a effort to meet,,I was pleased for him the other day and told him so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about the positivity mate.......I posted a similar thread a while back extolling the virtues of this site I'm below average on my oppinion and have had plenty of meets and more planned....its all about who you are, being positive, happy and above all being yourself on here. I love this site so much I can't even begin to tell you..........good man, more like you please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive."
well done. Nice to see a positive thread. Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes"
Stop whingeing and take a leaf out of the OPs book  |
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Well done mate, it takes time and patience on here to get a meet
Being pushy never works, just being yourself and taking the time to be pleasant and approachable helps loads
Hooray for the average guy, which I'm proud to say I'm one of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please - this is supposed to be a positive thread - not a rant.
yes - lets keep on track! The OP is a great example of a nice guy having fun - some other dudes may need to take notice! Z"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that
they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z
well why don't they block the ones that do it not all of us we not all here for that I read all profile first before send message and still nothing back so that s why men do it may as well say want a fk and not read it or read it send nice message and still get deleted . all I would like is one message that says hi sorry your not for us easy"
Couples and women get 100's of messages a day there's not enough time a day to reply to them all. Go to a local swing club its the best way to get a foot on the ladder, don't pester people always be polite and a gentleman, no one likes a whiner. Offer to take them out for coffee or lunch and treat them well and pay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes"
Your 2nd verify is very off putting tbh its almost like you wrote it yourself or payed someone to write it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes
Your 2nd verify is very off putting tbh its almost like you wrote it yourself or payed someone to write it. "
I agree |
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"This is not a rant.
I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.
I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.
Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.
So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.
Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.
Good luck Mr average."
good for you nice to see a positive post on here .hope you have a positively filthy time mate
And to the moaning single guys judt remember playing with someone is a privilege not a right . |
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Totally with you on this Trooper!
Average guys have to put in more effort sometimes. Nice to see it pay off!
I'm no oil painting (well, maybe a Picasso or Dali!) but do ok.
Personality, sense of humour and just being nice counts for a lot!
And not whinging about not getting meets has to be a plus!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well do the OP, yes average polite none winging Guys do OK on here.
Shame some winger has dragged down the original post!!!"
Thanks - yes it's a shame. There's always one (at least). Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab "
You are absolutely not average…..i know - i just checked…. and you're pretty close to me… and to be honest we should do away with this ping pong seduction and just meet instead…. just a thought… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab
You are absolutely not average…..i know - i just checked…. and you're pretty close to me… and to be honest we should do away with this ping pong seduction and just meet instead…. just a thought… "
For the avoidance of doubt the invitation was to Chaotic Temptation not the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab
You are absolutely not average…..i know - i just checked…. and you're pretty close to me… and to be honest we should do away with this ping pong seduction and just meet instead…. just a thought… "
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Ha message with a face picture simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab
You are absolutely not average…..i know - i just checked…. and you're pretty close to me… and to be honest we should do away with this ping pong seduction and just meet instead…. just a thought… .
Ha message with a face picture simple"
Think i'm outside your age range and probably species preference but happy to if i can think of a way of getting it to you… |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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It's not just average people....
I am about to start the group "even munters get meets"...have thought of a catchy name for it yet!
What can I say... Must have a brilliant personality to overcome the hideousness!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab
Your hardly 'average' chaotic but at least your humble lol "
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I look like crap in the morning as well as everyone else there for averagely normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab
Your hardly 'average' chaotic but at least your humble lol .
I look like crap in the morning as well as everyone else there for averagely normal "
I should very much like to see you in the morning then, just so I know your not telling porky pies....obviously |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not just average people....
I am about to start the group "even munters get meets"...have thought of a catchy name for it yet!
What can I say... Must have a brilliant personality to overcome the hideousness!!! "
munter hunters obviously |
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