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Hair pulling - question for the ladies
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Over the years with some lovely ladies when we've been going doggy or spoons, they've asked me to pull their hair as we get towards the big finish. So - here's the question - what is it about hair pulling that's such a turn on? I've no objection to it - it creates a fine finale - just wondered what the magic is  x |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Over the years with some lovely ladies when we've been going doggy or spoons, they've asked me to pull their hair as we get towards the big finish. So - here's the question - what is it about hair pulling that's such a turn on? I've no objection to it - it creates a fine finale - just wondered what the magic is x"
Caveman sex...it's a dominant thing for the hair puller and submissive for the hair pullee  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it's a dominance thing I love it when my hubby does this and he knows it!
It just drives me crazy & makes me even hornier, although tbh I have no idea why!!
Maybe its the pulling or tightness??
Be interesting to see what other ladies say!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.
A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.
For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it. But, depends on who it's with. If the moment is right, the passion and lust is there - it just happens. Sometimes you don't even think about it. You just do it.
...but it's sexy as fuck though.
Mind you, they used to be pulling my hair before. (sighs) the good old days eh.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.
A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.
For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy."
This is the reason I grew my hair longer!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.
A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.
For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy.
This is the reason I grew my hair longer!! "
and why im keeping mine longish lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trace likes one arm held up her back while having her hair pulled and being pounded to an climax doggy style.......mucky tart lol.
P.S: She says she likes it because she has a sensitive head and likes the mild restraint of the arm up the back.
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the shape of a womans back as she arches her back and holds her arse up and back to recieve your cock pounding as you pull on a large hank of her hair is a real turn on .. obviously the idea is to force her head up and not to pull any hair out lol also capture any stray wrists you can lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.
I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.
I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy "
A common misconception is that dominance/submission is about inequality but that's a very simplistic and naiive view (no offence meant with the words!!) because it really isn't. In my case it couldn't be further from the truth as I am naturally a more dominant female.
I suspect many men and women who enjoy this type of relationship/encounter will understand what I mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.
A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.
For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy.
This is the reason I grew my hair longer!! "
 me too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dunno but I fucking love it "
but tugging not yanking .. along with wrist holding, neck biting, bum slapping (although not necessarily all at the same time  ) |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.
I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy
A common misconception is that dominance/submission is about inequality but that's a very simplistic and naiive view (no offence meant with the words!!) because it really isn't. In my case it couldn't be further from the truth as I am naturally a more dominant female.
I suspect many men and women who enjoy this type of relationship/encounter will understand what I mean."
I'm a naturally submissive female (only in the bedroom, I have been called bossy a fair few times out of it!) and I love having my hair pulled as well as a fair few other acts of submission. However, I am totally equal with my partner in our mutual decision to incorporate dominance/submission play. It is my choice to trust him and his choice to indulge me. I am a woman he never regarded as anything less than strong, assertive and independent before we introduced the D/s element to our sex life and he still sees me exactly the same way. It takes a certain amount of courage to admit that you actually enjoy being submissive, especially if you're the kind of woman who daily rails against sexism and double standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely love it when a man pulls
My hair as his just about to cum.
Def is a turn on ....
Equally though I'm guilty of grabbing his hair to 
Maybe I just enjoy ruff sex....not keen on hands round throats though   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's being totally dominated and controlled (but with my consent), there is something so sexy about a man who grabs a big handful of hair and pulls.
Not like silly hair pulling in the playground but a big manly handful, almost moving your body for you.
Yummmmm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it. But, depends on who it's with. If the moment is right, the passion and lust is there - it just happens. Sometimes you don't even think about it. You just do it.
...but it's sexy as fuck though.
Mind you, they used to be pulling my hair before. (sighs) the good old days eh.
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I did see the beard getting a good tugging at the fab social though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it. But, depends on who it's with. If the moment is right, the passion and lust is there - it just happens. Sometimes you don't even think about it. You just do it.
...but it's sexy as fuck though.
Mind you, they used to be pulling my hair before. (sighs) the good old days eh.
I did see the beard getting a good tugging at the fab social though "
Yeah, that's why i'm growing it. It's a replacement for my hair. Not sure if it has the same effect though.
Mind you, i once did meet someone who liked having her hair pulled but also liked having her arse squeezed proper hard. And i mean proper! It took me a while to realise how the hell can i do that...but, i found a way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.
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I agree... sort of holding your head by the hair at the back of the neck.... my weakness xx |
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I can't remember whether I like it or not with a man (been a while since I've been alone with a man), I know I don't like women doing it to me...I love pulling hair, spanking, pinning down, strangling, biting, slapping and spitting at others though...not a question of equality etc I think it's a personal choice for whoever is on the receiving end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive got long hair. Tied it up recently, during doggie, he pulled it, just gently felt good. then he pulled my hair out of the bobble, said he liked it down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.
I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy
A common misconception is that dominance/submission is about inequality but that's a very simplistic and naiive view (no offence meant with the words!!) because it really isn't. In my case it couldn't be further from the truth as I am naturally a more dominant female.
I suspect many men and women who enjoy this type of relationship/encounter will understand what I mean."
Oh yes |
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