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over a year ago
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I like tall, fit, furry, young guys but that's not what I'm married to. I see being on this site as an added extra to my life that offers me the opportunity to spend time with the type of guy I fantasise about, objectifying I know but hey X |
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over a year ago
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Cos guys want to fuck anything, even a fat woman (yes I'm a fatty) but apart from the odd male they don't want to be seen out with a large lady. Hence they're exes are all slim as that's the type of woman they want to be seen with. |
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"Cos guys want to fuck anything, even a fat woman (yes I'm a fatty) but apart from the odd male they don't want to be seen out with a large lady. Hence they're exes are all slim as that's the type of woman they want to be seen with. "
so glad i like the odd men then! Any relationship i ever had , have been happy to be seen out in public with me! And i have been much bigger than i am now ... .. This misconception that if you are big, it means you a total hog, who dont look after yourself, lazy, unworthy .. and shouldnt actually like yourself ? ... Is not every big woman  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cos guys want to fuck anything, even a fat woman (yes I'm a fatty) but apart from the odd male they don't want to be seen out with a large lady. Hence they're exes are all slim as that's the type of woman they want to be seen with. so glad i like the odd men then! Any relationship i ever had , have been happy to be seen out in public with me! And i have been much bigger than i am now ... .. This misconception that if you are big, it means you a total hog, who dont look after yourself, lazy, unworthy .. and shouldnt actually like yourself ? ... Is not every big woman "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could ask he same question, why white women
say they love black men yet their boyfriend/ex is
a white man..."
good point made right here  from a black man lover! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my private life ive always gone for bbws but since being on fab ive tried slim women too. However for me, personality is important and size is secondary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a man messaged me saying he wanted to meet because I'm big I'd tell him to FRO regardless what size his ex is  "
This!
I apply the same rule to guys who say they want to meet me because they've always wanted an "older" woman - I am nobody's trophy fuck!!
Can honestly say tho I have never actually asked a guy what size his ex is, any more than I ask what size his cock is - my choice is always based on the rapport we have when messaging! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe he fancied his ex but he hated her because she was annoying.
have met men with slim wives but they liked me because i was more fun.
you get different things from different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've yet to meet someone that does not want to be seen in public with me... "
Would you want to meet someone who didn't want to be seen in public with you assuming that you knew that in advance?! |
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ?? "
Why do people vote UKIP but date Labour voters?
Why do people with black ex's have white partners?
Why do non smokers meet smokers?
My other halfs ex's were all slim and enjoyed the outdoor life. Bless him he literally has to drag my fat arse around the local parks and waterways.
You can like all sorts...said Bertie Bassett  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ?? "
Simply they like to be seen with a slim woman but on here they think its easier to meet bigger women for sex because they think they get less offers and there is a better chance of a meet. Some people suck up after all. |
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"Cos guys want to fuck anything, even a fat woman (yes I'm a fatty) but apart from the odd male they don't want to be seen out with a large lady. Hence they're exes are all slim as that's the type of woman they want to be seen with. "
I've always been fat. Fat when I married, fat when I had my kids, fat when I met gorgeous, fit handsome men of here all happy to be seen with me as I always met socially first.
The last tall, fit, handsome man I met of here is moving in with me once his flat is sold. He's here four nights a week anyway, and he asks if I'm ashamed to be seen with him if I don't hold his hand in public! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ??
Simply they like to be seen with a slim woman but on here they think its easier to meet bigger women for sex because they think they get less offers and there is a better chance of a meet. Some people suck up after all. "
Sadly there are bigger women who allow them to get away with that, there are others who would tell them to suck right off!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't speak for others but I like women of all shapes and sizes provided they have an overall persona which is attractive and joyfull
My natural preference is for curvy BBW's. I find them lovelier in bed, perhaps for me it is about the pleasures of the flesh xx Jim |
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"I've yet to meet someone that does not want to be seen in public with me...
Would you want to meet someone who didn't want to be seen in public with you assuming that you knew that in advance?!"
fuck no....Im not desperate for attention or a shag..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ??
Simply they like to be seen with a slim woman but on here they think its easier to meet bigger women for sex because they think they get less offers and there is a better chance of a meet. Some people suck up after all.
Sadly there are bigger women who allow them to get away with that, there are others who would tell them to suck right off!! "
Why would it matter to me if they didnt want to be seen with me, especialy if they are so much younger, there are some people i havnt liked being seen with too all that much.  im not that stuck up to let it bother me too much though. i like getting to meet men for sex, thats all, not on here to look for a partner as i already have one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ??
Simply they like to be seen with a slim woman but on here they think its easier to meet bigger women for sex because they think they get less offers and there is a better chance of a meet. Some people suck up after all.
Sadly there are bigger women who allow them to get away with that, there are others who would tell them to suck right off!!
Why would it matter to me if they didnt want to be seen with me, especialy if they are so much younger, there are some people i havnt liked being seen with too all that much. im not that stuck up to let it bother me too much though. i like getting to meet men for sex, thats all, not on here to look for a partner as i already have one."
I'm not looking for a partner either and I enjoy having sex with men, I do not however want to have sex with a guy who thinks he's got a better chance of fucking me because I'm big and will take what I can get, if that makes me stuck up then stuck up I definitely am and will happily remain so!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos guys want to fuck anything, even a fat woman (yes I'm a fatty) but apart from the odd male they don't want to be seen out with a large lady. Hence they're exes are all slim as that's the type of woman they want to be seen with. so glad i like the odd men then! Any relationship i ever had , have been happy to be seen out in public with me! And i have been much bigger than i am now ... .. This misconception that if you are big, it means you a total hog, who dont look after yourself, lazy, unworthy .. and shouldnt actually like yourself ? ... Is not every big woman "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it is not the size of the person, it is what the person is like inside.
I did read a head line saying 'fat is the new norm', funnily enough it was on the front cover of a womens mag |
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ?? "
Because most of them are embarrassed to be seen in public with a fat girl, worry what their mates or family will say and take the piss out of them
Ps yes I'm a fat girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask why men say I love BBW's but there's ex's are slim ??
Simply they like to be seen with a slim woman but on here they think its easier to meet bigger women for sex because they think they get less offers and there is a better chance of a meet. Some people suck up after all.
Sadly there are bigger women who allow them to get away with that, there are others who would tell them to suck right off!!
Why would it matter to me if they didnt want to be seen with me, especialy if they are so much younger, there are some people i havnt liked being seen with too all that much. im not that stuck up to let it bother me too much though. i like getting to meet men for sex, thats all, not on here to look for a partner as i already have one.
I'm not looking for a partner either and I enjoy having sex with men, I do not however want to have sex with a guy who thinks he's got a better chance of fucking me because I'm big and will take what I can get, if that makes me stuck up then stuck up I definitely am and will happily remain so!! "
No, i said i have not always wanted to be seen with some men but i am not that stuck up to let it bother me too much, because i am grown up about it and dont worry about what people think too much, but i can understand why a young lad wouldnt want to be seen with me.
you could say a man asks plain looking women because they are more likely to say yes, same as old dears like me, no different just because you happen to be fat. You only have to say no thanks.
its not realy a big deal is it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It annoys me to death when I get a message off someone who I know wouldn't look at me twice in the vanilla world but in the fab would .. ..but if I'm not interested for some reason or another which I do reply with a polite thanks but no thanks I get a message back sayin I weren't really interested any way or look at the state of you !! And this has happened more than a few times .. I think some of these bloke think us "fat girls " are a quick and easy lay and it riles me ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It annoys me to death when I get a message off someone who I know wouldn't look at me twice in the vanilla world but in the fab would .. ..but if I'm not interested for some reason or another which I do reply with a polite thanks but no thanks I get a message back sayin I weren't really interested any way or look at the state of you !! And this has happened more than a few times .. I think some of these bloke think us "fat girls " are a quick and easy lay and it riles me ... "
If people keep doing it maybe you should block them after you have said no thanks. i have sometimes had people get annoyed with me when i said no to them, they think i should say yes to everyone. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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" !! And this has happened more than a few times .. I think some of these bloke think us "fat girls " are a quick and easy lay and it riles me ... "
block and do the searching for someone who catches your eye...
may minimise your angst |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It annoys me to death when I get a message off someone who I know wouldn't look at me twice in the vanilla world but in the fab would .. ..but if I'm not interested for some reason or another which I do reply with a polite thanks but no thanks I get a message back sayin I weren't really interested any way or look at the state of you !! And this has happened more than a few times .. I think some of these bloke think us "fat girls " are a quick and easy lay and it riles me ... "
I'm sure this doesn't only happen to big women! If people feel the need to be rude or abusive after you have politely declined it says far more about them than about you, block them and forget about them they are not worth your time.
And stop referring to yourself as a "fat girl" - being overweight should not define you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I remember when I was younger, one of my sisters matr commenting on the fact the my mum gave better hugs due to her being bigger than thier skinny mums. I wonder what thier mums would say if they ever found out. |
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"It annoys me to death when I get a message off someone who I know wouldn't look at me twice in the vanilla world but in the fab would .. ..but if I'm not interested for some reason or another which I do reply with a polite thanks but no thanks I get a message back sayin I weren't really interested any way or look at the state of you !! And this has happened more than a few times .. I think some of these bloke think us "fat girls " are a quick and easy lay and it riles me ... "
Why let it rile you? They are the ones getting frustrated cos they've got a hard on going to waste not you lol if they are that desperate for a fuck that they message people they don't like that's their problem, no one else's.
In future reply politely then block them to avoid any future incidents. |
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"Ive only ever been with bbw ladies and I love them all and think they are sexy as hell better than skinny girls with fake boobs "
 why couldn't hiou just leave it at the positive and not say negative things about other people? This is why BBW threads go down hill so fast on here |
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