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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse |
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"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse "
It's a swingers site, safe sex is an option on preferences but the site doesn't tell members how to conduct their sex lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse "
You state a lot of women do bareback doesn't it mean the man does too |
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"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned
Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way "
I don't think condoms are anywhere near as fragile as some seem to think they are. Provide you don't rip them with a fingernail they will stand quite a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse
You state a lot of women do bareback doesn't it mean the man does too "
of course not.
you know full well its all the dirty women folks faults lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned
Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way
I don't think condoms are anywhere near as fragile as some seem to think they are. Provide you don't rip them with a fingernail they will stand quite a lot. "
i used to work for Ann summers and quite often did party games with condoms. you'd be amazed how many come out of the pack with a hole in them. |
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I met a TS on here before and when I got to her place she wanted bareback,to which I refused.
Anyway whilst fking her doggy with condom she was trying to take it off 
Anyway to cut a long story short I made my excuses and left |
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"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned
Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way
I don't think condoms are anywhere near as fragile as some seem to think they are. Provide you don't rip them with a fingernail they will stand quite a lot. "
Well I had one come off half way through a session once
I was happily shagging away looked down and there was no condom, it was actually still inside my date!! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse "
Just women do bareback??? surely it's a 2way thing?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is from my view.. most men in generally I think want bareback IF the woman sais hey fancy doing it without lol."
i think most people in general, whether male or female, would rather not the hassle of using condoms, but unfortunately, the way the world is and pregnancy risk on top of STi's then they are,and always will be, a minimal requirement for illicit sexual affairs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is from my view.. most men in generally I think want bareback IF the woman sais hey fancy doing it without lol.
i think most people in general, whether male or female, would rather not the hassle of using condoms, but unfortunately, the way the world is and pregnancy risk on top of STi's then they are,and always will be, a minimal requirement for illicit sexual affairs."
I've yet to hear anyone say they prefer sex with a condom 'it just feels better to me'. but as said, pregnancy plus sti risk just means bareback issomething I'm more than happy to save for one particular person rather than do with everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine lost her womb, because her husband was playing away, at 29 hardly funny or worth it...it lay dormant in her for months before it was detected
Just saying, my deep and meaning full over.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me
smooth talking bastards! lol"
I just did a weird Muttley laugh readiing this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still not safe sex folks even with condoms. Get tested!*
If you never have been you could still be passing infections on without even knowing it.
*This high-horse moralising came courtesy of Mrs D.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never go bearback ,not worth the risk
Yeah, those bears can be a bit dangerous."
Though you might be safer if you're on its back rather than in front of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We received a wink from a couple who, on their profile, made it very clear that they would only meet people who were up for bareback sex. They had dozens of veris from people who all had 'safe sex' displayed on their interests.
No surprise, but a reminder to believe little of what you read. People lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still not safe sex folks even with condoms. Get tested!*
If you never have been you could still be passing infections on without even knowing it.
*This high-horse moralising came courtesy of Mrs D.
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A great message and a good gag to boot, very good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me
smooth talking bastards! lol
I just did a weird Muttley laugh readiing this."
so did I  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me
smooth talking bastards! lol
I just did a weird Muttley laugh readiing this.
so did I "
So did I |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People always talk about the sex being safe and using condom for penetrative sex, but what about oral, do people do bare oral and if so doesn't that just kill the argument for covering up after?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People always talk about the sex being safe and using condom for penetrative sex, but what about oral, do people do bare oral and if so doesn't that just kill the argument for covering up after?
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No everyone uses dams...:
Makes me laugh when someone throws something into the mixer and doesn't come back to back up what he's started x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People always talk about the sex being safe and using condom for penetrative sex, but what about oral, do people do bare oral and if so doesn't that just kill the argument for covering up after? "
But that's like saying we shouldn't wear seat belts because they don't stop all injuries and deaths in road accidents. It's not about being completely safe, but about being safer by taking simple precautions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This topic comes up regularly but our take on it is that wearing a condom simply does not guarantee safety for swingers.
As an example I cannot tell you how often in group situations we have seen guys play with their uncovered cock & then immediately after slide their fingers into some woman's pussy.
Nobody seems to notice or bother! |
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Unless you've shagged these fab users, or read a lot of verifications saying 'thanks for the great bareback' you'll not know how many people have bareback sex via fab. And if you're not sleeping with them, then it's not yours or fab's business.
When you reach the age of 18, you are an adult. Your body is your property and you are largely free to do whatever you wish with it. If you take the attitude that others you sleep with have a sexual history that you don't know, then it's up to you to shag them as you feel appropriate.
Some users do bareback with their long term partners, rather than fb's, others do it with their longer term fb's. Communication allows everything to be covered before a potential meet. If you're in a club, then you can speak or use body language - if you carry your own condoms, then you have what you need at hand, and some lube helps too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned
Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way "
It's not 100% safe either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow seems to be a lot of antibareback threads at the moment ( and yes we play safer unless it's between us )
as we always say treat EVERYONE as if they have had bareback because let's face we all have at one point or another even if it's with our long term partners,
Get tested regularly even if you use a condom , people seem to think condoms stop everything and anything they DONT.
I always wonder how many who play "safe" actually get tested ( I know most on the forum will but how many on the site ?) and wonder how many people use a condom/oral dam for oral sex ?
ANY form of intimacy has a certain risk, and I can garentee that all this bareback bashing will just increase the risk ( because it will go underground,people will lie and then you don't know who does,who doesn't )
Let people have the right to choose , would you shout as much about the choice to drink alcohol ? Or eat sugary foods? Or smoke? Or ride a bike ? Or go swimming in the sea? Everything everybody does has risks BUT it's their choice no one forces you to do it too
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow seems to be a lot of antibareback threads at the moment ( and yes we play safer unless it's between us )
as we always say treat EVERYONE as if they have had bareback because let's face we all have at one point or another even if it's with our long term partners,
Get tested regularly even if you use a condom , people seem to think condoms stop everything and anything they DONT.
I always wonder how many who play "safe" actually get tested ( I know most on the forum will but how many on the site ?) and wonder how many people use a condom/oral dam for oral sex ?
ANY form of intimacy has a certain risk, and I can garentee that all this bareback bashing will just increase the risk ( because it will go underground,people will lie and then you don't know who does,who doesn't )
Let people have the right to choose , would you shout as much about the choice to drink alcohol ? Or eat sugary foods? Or smoke? Or ride a bike ? Or go swimming in the sea? Everything everybody does has risks BUT it's their choice no one forces you to do it too
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This anti bareback attitude is very common on the forums. As a result many people hide the fact that they like bareback sex.
We are one of the few who openly admit we love it and have mentioned this on our profile.
Only rarely do we find that we are refused a meet because of this but at least we are open. Most others seem afraid of the potential criticism & hide the fact that they bareback.
Incidentally don't draw any conclusion from our friends list or verifications as we don't bareback all the time. |
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