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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I first joined fab last year I used it to check out profiles etc..and arrange meets..
This time however I mainly check the forums..don't message much at all, or browse...
anyone else feel the forum is bit of a seperate side, i feel people are missing out by not having the banter on here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel as you do that the forums are another facet of fab.
Like you I've tended to get into it a bit more over time.
It's nice to exchange comments and ideas, and most people are very curtious regardless of differing points of view. Jim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums can be fun , but are just a sideline .
We would be a bit worried if they became the main reason for being on fab .
Primarily we are here to enjoy nsa sex with like minded folk , and wouldn't be on the site if we weren't
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totes agreeeee
Would never of got chatting to certain hot fab members if was not for the forums "
True, meeting a couple from the forums, Saturday, might not of bumped into them had we not seen them on the forums...excited 
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will say one thing which might sound odd.
I have a single profile on another site where there are no forums.
It feels a lot more friendly on the other site where we talk one on one (or two) and you communicate to a wider audience only through your profiles and not open forum.
I do love the forums and the banter, the debates and the laughter but at times the attitudes to sexuality surprise me on here and some of the mass-bullying threads are ugly (I even got pissed off with myself for allowing it to affect how I'd behave), that's what happens with open shop I guess.
Not asking anyone to agree, that's a very personal experience when comparing two sites.
That said I'll still keep coming back for more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will say one thing which might sound odd.
I have a single profile on another site where there are no forums.
It feels a lot more friendly on the other site where we talk one on one (or two) and you communicate to a wider audience only through your profiles and not open forum.
I do love the forums and the banter, the debates and the laughter but at times the attitudes to sexuality surprise me on here and some of the mass-bullying threads are ugly (I even got pissed off with myself for allowing it to affect how I'd behave), that's what happens with open shop I guess.
Not asking anyone to agree, that's a very personal experience when comparing two sites.
That said I'll still keep coming back for more.
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I think the people are the same everywhere on all sites etc.
The sheep effect plays a large part.... but also in one to one messages you don't get the input/ other opinions from other people so it's bound to be different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will say one thing which might sound odd.
I have a single profile on another site where there are no forums.
It feels a lot more friendly on the other site where we talk one on one (or two) and you communicate to a wider audience only through your profiles and not open forum.
I do love the forums and the banter, the debates and the laughter but at times the attitudes to sexuality surprise me on here and some of the mass-bullying threads are ugly (I even got pissed off with myself for allowing it to affect how I'd behave), that's what happens with open shop I guess.
Not asking anyone to agree, that's a very personal experience when comparing two sites.
That said I'll still keep coming back for more.
I think the people are the same everywhere on all sites etc.
The sheep effect plays a large part.... but also in one to one messages you don't get the input/ other opinions from other people so it's bound to be different."
Oh agree, im not saying the people are any different, people are people. Just that open fora does lead to certain behaviours. Hence the sites without them feel friendlier. Sorry if that was less then clear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will say one thing which might sound odd.
I have a single profile on another site where there are no forums.
It feels a lot more friendly on the other site where we talk one on one (or two) and you communicate to a wider audience only through your profiles and not open forum.
I do love the forums and the banter, the debates and the laughter but at times the attitudes to sexuality surprise me on here and some of the mass-bullying threads are ugly (I even got pissed off with myself for allowing it to affect how I'd behave), that's what happens with open shop I guess.
Not asking anyone to agree, that's a very personal experience when comparing two sites.
That said I'll still keep coming back for more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will say one thing which might sound odd.
I have a single profile on another site where there are no forums.
It feels a lot more friendly on the other site where we talk one on one (or two) and you communicate to a wider audience only through your profiles and not open forum.
I do love the forums and the banter, the debates and the laughter but at times the attitudes to sexuality surprise me on here and some of the mass-bullying threads are ugly (I even got pissed off with myself for allowing it to affect how I'd behave), that's what happens with open shop I guess.
Not asking anyone to agree, that's a very personal experience when comparing two sites.
That said I'll still keep coming back for more.
I think the people are the same everywhere on all sites etc.
The sheep effect plays a large part.... but also in one to one messages you don't get the input/ other opinions from other people so it's bound to be different.
Oh agree, im not saying the people are any different, people are people. Just that open fora does lead to certain behaviours. Hence the sites without them feel friendlier. Sorry if that was less then clear! "
I think I was agreeing with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before joining the forum, I'd have periods where I'd get annoyed and leave. The forum now keeps me here in those times of ermmmm annoyance ."
100% agree and I find the forum folk in general to be very friendly and some what sarcastic which I love as it always lightens up my dark days. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i tend to use them for the same thing... to network...
i just use the forums to network and get to know people in a slightly different way than i would at clubs and socials.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite new to fab and have only recently discovered the forum's
Well the banter has certainly cheered me up on those dark wet days.
The wit on here is hugely entertaining. |
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