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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Where is the Bi male couples. See a lot of straight males on this site who are also on fabguys. So am thinking maybe why hide your sexuality. If your bi male in a couple say so and dont worry about the homophobic guys. Bi means we like women too i prefer women to men but i also like cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To some its a filthy aversion...you have to accept that some are more open minded than others...i must admit I once felt that way...but I have seen the error of my ways lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a bi male couple (with a straight fem) and we have always been open about it and its never been a problem with meets, in fact we only meet bi guys anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a question of degrees.
I am going to put my Doctor Johnson hat on here and see what this raises LOL.
Definition of Straight male
1 A Person who in company of other people of the same gender recoils when another person of the same gender comes anywhere near them. Sometimes called a homophobic reaction. Sometimes this homophobic reaction is a knee jerk reaction and actually hides slight feeling of attraction to the situation but the flee instinct takes over and causes acute embarassment and need to withdraw from the situation. (been there had that T shirt)
2 Bi Curious. A person in the company of other people of the same gender who likes to experiment a little. Degrees vary from touching Cocks in a person of the opposite genders mouth to generally being quite comfortable with things like DP though not specifically going out of way to touch or feel the same genders appendages. Also at the more extreme end included in this category are people who quite like oral fun but wouldn't say they have an absolute need to do it in same sex situations such as MMF or MMFF.
3 Bi sexual males
Happy with all forms of sexual intercourse between males and females. Happy to do oral, anal and kissing. Can just as easily have sex with males on a 121 basis as with females in MMF situations.
There that's my 2 penny worth. Bet it brings out some interesting alternative perspectives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a question of degrees.
I am going to put my Doctor Johnson hat on here and see what this raises LOL.
Definition of Straight male
1 A Person who in company of other people of the same gender recoils when another person of the same gender comes anywhere near them. Sometimes called a homophobic reaction. Sometimes this homophobic reaction is a knee jerk reaction and actually hides slight feeling of attraction to the situation but the flee instinct takes over and causes acute embarassment and need to withdraw from the situation. (been there had that T shirt)
2 Bi Curious. A person in the company of other people of the same gender who likes to experiment a little. Degrees vary from touching Cocks in a person of the opposite genders mouth to generally being quite comfortable with things like DP though not specifically going out of way to touch or feel the same genders appendages. Also at the more extreme end included in this category are people who quite like oral fun but wouldn't say they have an absolute need to do it in same sex situations such as MMF or MMFF.
3 Bi sexual males
Happy with all forms of sexual intercourse between males and females. Happy to do oral, anal and kissing. Can just as easily have sex with males on a 121 basis as with females in MMF situations.
There that's my 2 penny worth. Bet it brings out some interesting alternative perspectives."
Not sure where that leaves my hubby - he certainly wouldn't have a 1-2-1 with a guy on his own, wouldn't kiss or cuddle them and won't fuck a guy. Yet he loves sucking cock and being fucked. Is there another category on offer?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also prefer fun with man when a woman is around. I wont kiss a man with stubble by the sound of it your hubby is a bi curious bottom "
Labels. Waste of time. I too don't want to kiss and cuddle guys. I don't fuck them either. I do mutually suck and love to be fucked. I'm certainly waaaaay beyond curious tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you sure LoL ?
I tease but yep that should be added to the category
I did say there were degrees of Bi sexuality in my remit. Yours is somewhere in the Bi sexual category
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In the gay world there is a TOP he will fuck a guy but wont get fucked, BOTTOM who likes to recieve anal, ORAL who just likes to be sucked and or suck and VERSITIAL Who is into all above, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit since I went Bi curious on our profile we get a lot less peeps asking after fun with us. Sadly being a bit open about it does mean less enquiries on the naughties front. Perhaps it's our age too. Mean like an old library book we get left on the shelf more and more.
However on the Plus front it does mean people are well aware of our likes and dislikes so there are less embarrassing moments of awkwardness when we do meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'cos considering we are all swingers, some people are extremely narrow minded!
Both openly bi, if we get less meets cos of it, then so be it! We aren't ashamed of who we are   "
Nicely put. Given it's a swingers site I'm often surprised how narrow minded some people can be.
We are all unique. Like you I open
Y say I'm bi and if they don't want to meet well so be it xx Jim |
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"I must admit since I went Bi curious on our profile we get a lot less peeps asking after fun with us. Sadly being a bit open about it does mean less enquiries on the naughties front. Perhaps it's our age too. Mean like an old library book we get left on the shelf more and more.
However on the Plus front it does mean people are well aware of our likes and dislikes so there are less embarrassing moments of awkwardness when we do meet."
I found the same too. I tried putting bi curious on my profile, but it killed interaction with most couples in the chat room. We'd exchange a few laughs, check out each others' cams, and be getting on really well.
Then suddenly they'd switch off and give you the silent treatment. A quick check showed that they "just this minute" had checked my profile.
On the other hand, it sent PMs from bi, gay, and yes, straight men, into the stratosphere. Hoo-bloody-ra.
And as for "old library book" lol - don't worry, a good "old book" can give immensely more pleasure to people than a whole shelf of new volumes |
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"Why is it narrow minded to not want to meet someone?
It's like saying people should meet everyone that asks.  "
That isn't what I said!
It's just narrow minded to presume a bi guy just wants another guy.
The OP asked why men hide the fact they are bi on their profiles, it's because there are to many judgemental p****s in this world! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it narrow minded to not want to meet someone?
It's like saying people should meet everyone that asks.
That isn't what I said!
It's just narrow minded to presume a bi guy just wants another guy.
The OP asked why men hide the fact they are bi on their profiles, it's because there are to many judgemental p****s in this world!"
I wasn't replying to your comment. Sorry. I just read back up. It was more a general comment I was making.
Not sure what you mean by judgemental though. Surely people can choose who they do and don't want to meet? If they don't want to meet a bi guy then they don't. Doesn't matter why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about bi-selective
Does that mean I get the bi boys?
Shame I'm a bi man in a girls costume 
Rich? Is that you in the avatar? 
Of course. "
Nice arse!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about bi-selective
Does that mean I get the bi boys?
Shame I'm a bi man in a girls costume
Rich? Is that you in the avatar?
Of course.
Nice arse!! "
Lol. Laughin that ass off
Thanks xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also prefer fun with man when a woman is around. I wont kiss a man with stubble by the sound of it your hubby is a bi curious bottom
Labels. Waste of time. I too don't want to kiss and cuddle guys. I don't fuck them either. I do mutually suck and love to be fucked. I'm certainly waaaaay beyond curious tho "
I on the other hand enjoy being more sensual with guys. But only if all agreed. I will never cross any boundaries set.
Just love being in the middle of things and enjoying hot cock and pussy.
I to have gone beyond the curious stage.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where is the Bi male couples. See a lot of straight males on this site who are also on fabguys. So am thinking maybe why hide your sexuality. If your bi male in a couple say so and dont worry about the homophobic guys. Bi means we like women too i prefer women to men but i also like cock "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi male couple here!
There are many bi guys on here that hide the fact because straight couples wouldn't meet with them.
We are amazed by the number of straight men that contact us as we are only looking for bi men. But when we say 'no thanks' they suddenly remember to tell us they are bi, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're both bi and both pierced too and if that puts people off then we're sorry but we won't change just to get meets.
Dave doesn't fuck guys but will indulge in oral both ways and happily take cock too.
Kissing depends on the guy and the mood. If we all liked the same thing, even this site would be boring, let alone the world |
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"Why is it narrow minded to not want to meet someone?
It's like saying people should meet everyone that asks.
That isn't what I said!
It's just narrow minded to presume a bi guy just wants another guy.
The OP asked why men hide the fact they are bi on their profiles, it's because there are to many judgemental p****s in this world!
I wasn't replying to your comment. Sorry. I just read back up. It was more a general comment I was making.
Not sure what you mean by judgemental though. Surely people can choose who they do and don't want to meet? If they don't want to meet a bi guy then they don't. Doesn't matter why not."
Your right it doesn't actually matter what people's reasons are that their choice, now I'll preface this by saying not all do this so it's not taken as a generalisation. it's just funny that if someone met you before they saw your profile, they would not necessarily ask if the male half was Bi before play happened, but have on their profile No Bi males, if someone asks us out right we will tell them, but it's never happened! If you take that and add some of the comments on other threads like this about the generalisation that you don't know where a Bi man has been, then you can see why people make comments about it being Judgmental, when actually a man or a women who always play safe are pretty much as safe as each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it narrow minded to not want to meet someone?
It's like saying people should meet everyone that asks.
That isn't what I said!
It's just narrow minded to presume a bi guy just wants another guy.
The OP asked why men hide the fact they are bi on their profiles, it's because there are to many judgemental p****s in this world!
I wasn't replying to your comment. Sorry. I just read back up. It was more a general comment I was making.
Not sure what you mean by judgemental though. Surely people can choose who they do and don't want to meet? If they don't want to meet a bi guy then they don't. Doesn't matter why not.
Your right it doesn't actually matter what people's reasons are that their choice, now I'll preface this by saying not all do this so it's not taken as a generalisation. it's just funny that if someone met you before they saw your profile, they would not necessarily ask if the male half was Bi before play happened, but have on their profile No Bi males, if someone asks us out right we will tell them, but it's never happened! If you take that and add some of the comments on other threads like this about the generalisation that you don't know where a Bi man has been, then you can see why people make comments about it being Judgmental, when actually a man or a women who always play safe are pretty much as safe as each other"
I see what you mean. It is indeed odd that people don't seem to ask the guy if he's bi when at clubs/ parties etc.
I think most assume the woman is bi and the guy is straight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it narrow minded to not want to meet someone?
It's like saying people should meet everyone that asks.
That isn't what I said!
It's just narrow minded to presume a bi guy just wants another guy.
The OP asked why men hide the fact they are bi on their profiles, it's because there are to many judgemental p****s in this world!
I wasn't replying to your comment. Sorry. I just read back up. It was more a general comment I was making.
Not sure what you mean by judgemental though. Surely people can choose who they do and don't want to meet? If they don't want to meet a bi guy then they don't. Doesn't matter why not.
Your right it doesn't actually matter what people's reasons are that their choice, now I'll preface this by saying not all do this so it's not taken as a generalisation. it's just funny that if someone met you before they saw your profile, they would not necessarily ask if the male half was Bi before play happened, but have on their profile No Bi males, if someone asks us out right we will tell them, but it's never happened! If you take that and add some of the comments on other threads like this about the generalisation that you don't know where a Bi man has been, then you can see why people make comments about it being Judgmental, when actually a man or a women who always play safe are pretty much as safe as each other"
No one ever asked if I, Rich, was bi before play and even when I had a pink belly bar in and then later had my leg tattoo of butterflies and flowers done, it still didn't raise questions or put people off.
If asked I would say 'yes, I am bi' but they don't. If we play in a public area in a club and invite guys to join us we sometimes get a guy who will indicate he wants to touch me. I guess they can tell from the tattoo. The straight guys are too busy feasting their eyes on Nicki.
A few times when we've played with a straight couple it's come up in conversation later, even a few meets later, and they said they hadn't realised. Two of those couples have then admitted their guy is curious and back into the room we went! |
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I would classify the following:
• Heterosexual (engage in sexual activities with opposite sex only)
• Bi-curious (predominantly heterosexual but may consider same sex sexual activities)
• Bi-friendly (predominantly heterosexual but engages in same sex activities at times)
• Bisexual (has sex with both sexes with no preference)
• Homosexual (only engages in same sex sexual activities)
• Asexual (no interest in sexual activities with either sex)
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By (user no longer on site)
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Interesting how everyone has a different view on these labels.
You see I'd say no tolerant to mean you are happy in the company of gay or bi people ( male or female) who may or may not be engaging in some same sex fun. You probably wouldn't be playing too otherwise you'd be bi or at least bi curious in my mind.
Bisexual is often described as happy to play with both sexes without preference but in my experience, I have seen people who are Bi prefer to play straight most of the time and see bi as an extra bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thats very interesting City Slickers and I would agree wholeheartedly with you. I definitely fall into the bisexual category. I will play with both sexes however I would only ever date a female. Maybe that throws me slightly more towards the side but hey who cares its all about having fun and pleasing. |
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we're a bi male straight female couple. P says he is situationally bi curious and becoming less curious. he wouldn't look or touch another man on his own but in an mmf situation is happy for everyone to join in together |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I put bi curious as I'm very happy to play fully bi as part of an mmf or group fun, but have no interest in ever meeting a guy alone. Am also very happy to play straight. Just depends on the people and situation and I always respect everyone's preferences. |
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