my parents were swingers, though i never really cared what they thought about anything anyway. I also dont hide any porn in my house tho its not deliberately on show. If you looked through my dvd's and books you would find some  |
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How would friends family found maybe looking on a swingers site ? So they are either interested In lifestyle or being nosey ? It's not something to be ashamed of just we are private people anyway so do keep. Things quiet , |
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It’s amazing how much interest is created when the subject of swinging comes up around the dinner table, but I’ve yet to hear someone actually say yes we are into that or we fancy trying that. |
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my parents would be upset and worried so I wouldn't want them to know even though our sex life is none of their affair. I don't know how our kids would react but I have no intention of telling them |
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I'm not ashamed of being a swinger either but being of an older generation than most on here my family and friends would probably be shocked. I enjoy my secret side and prefer to be totally discrete xx Jim |
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"I'm not ashamed of being a swinger either but being of an older generation than most on here my family and friends would probably be shocked. I enjoy my secret side and prefer to be totally discrete xx Jim"
Yes that's why I wouldn't want my parents to know we're the same generation as you  |
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"It’s amazing how much interest is created when the subject of swinging comes up around the dinner table, but I’ve yet to hear someone actually say yes we are into that or we fancy trying that."
. I always remember my dad saying if I bought a woman home he would 'take part' don't think family or friends would be surprised
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I'd be mortified, not because I'm ashamed but I value my privacy and what I get up to is my business and no one else.
My parents and a few friends would probably disown me! |
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"You make yourselves sound like fossils  "
I'm not offended by your comment at all and as you well know sex often gets better and better with age. Although I must say I don't look as young as I feel when I look in the mirror xxxxx |
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"I'm not ashamed of being a swinger either but being of an older generation than most on here my family and friends would probably be shocked. I enjoy my secret side and prefer to be totally discrete xx Jim
Yes that's why I wouldn't want my parents to know we're the same generation as you "
Your profile is a great advert for the pleasures of swinging and growing older disgracefully. The youngsters have much to look forward too xx |
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"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.
Mortified or not bothered?
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If they looked down at me I'd swing for them.
What we do is up to us.
As mentioned before I'm not a swinger so Im guessing really. |
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I wouldnt want anyone to know as i like to keep my sex life private from family, i dont wish to know about their sex life and vice versa
Someone at work found out thou, via a swinging site ! Bit scary at first but was ok when we met |
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i wouldn't be too bothered about peeps knowing , but alas swinging is still taboo in some peoples eyes so whilst we wouldn't mind, we thinks it's best some of our family and friends don't know |
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"i wouldn't be too bothered about peeps knowing , but alas swinging is still taboo in some peoples eyes so whilst we wouldn't mind, we thinks it's best some of our family and friends don't know"
Yes i agree but on couple of occasion a friend or two did guess and it led to some fun also |
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Met my new partner on here and have been skirting round the truth when people asked how we met. his family would be ok with it but not mine. Easier not to mention it!! |
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"No, this is your generation."
Are you answering me? I don't think of myself as as fossil and we used the word generation as a way of showing how old our families would be and what their attitudes might be. |
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"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.
Mortified or not bothered?
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They're unlikely to find out as I don't feel the need to discuss my private life: operative word "private" I'd be more mortified if they found out my bank balance. |
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I have recently told friends of mine, two were shocked but soon got over it and the couple I told were so blasé about it. I feel much closer to them now, not having to lie about what I am doing or who!! The couple are now my phone buddies which is fantastic
My family though is a whole different kettle of fish, I wouldn't tell them purely for the fact they wouldn't understand. |
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"My mum knows as do my 2 best mates. I hate secrets and lies. I'm single and hurting no one so what does it matter"
I don't think of it as being secretive or lying, none of my family know the details of any aspect of our sex life I suppose they assume that we have one and leave it at that just as we do with them. If you're open about your sex life with your family good and if you're not that's good too but not really lying in my opinion. |
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I dont go out of my way to publicise it, but I really couldn't give a fuck if my family found out. They're the biggest hypocrites going in any case, so why should I feel guilty? |
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"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.
Mortified or not bothered?
..Mortified.. Discrete all the way.   "
Oh holy shit!! I love your ass... off topic I know but just had to blurt that out. Soz  |
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they wouldnt be too surprised as i was a naughty girl when i was a teenager.
my son found out i was a bit embarased, but he knows my partner is ok with it because he asked him, we get on ok as we all live together, hes always thought i was different from his mates mums anyway.  |
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wouldnt care about my parents, they are very openminded and easy going.
V would be mortified if her mother found out, so we no longer do anything where there is a chance she could. |
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