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100 messages; 10 replies; 1 meet. What's your ratio
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Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Have never kept a count of how messages we send out.
But would guess that we probably get around 50% replied to and that includes the thanks but no thanks replies.
We do ok and it doesn't stop us trying...  |
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"Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets"
This was a wet finger in the air type guessestimate and not specific count. Wouldn't it be super sad if I actually counted lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bloody hell. Where do you get the time to send all those messages. Maybe that's where i'm going wrong; not by bulk messaging haha.
..unless it's someone i know i barely get a reply back. Then again, i'm not really sending out 100 messages so the chances are bound to be low.
Everyone i want live miles away though!!
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"Bloody hell. Where do you get the time to send all those messages. Maybe that's where i'm going wrong; not by bulk messaging haha.
..unless it's someone i know i barely get a reply back. Then again, i'm not really sending out 100 messages so the chances are bound to be low.
Everyone i want live miles away though!!
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I'm guessing my ratio used to be similar to OP but these days I send less get more replies and meet people I've got to know. |
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"Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets
This was a wet finger in the air type guessestimate and not specific count. Wouldn't it be super sad if I actually counted lol"
Indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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20ish messages sent
Most replied
5 meets
Wouldn't know how to work the ratio out, to be fair I don't message that much mind...I like the independent woman they know what they're looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets
All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one  "
But your male and looking for Cock, so yes It will, but for guys seeking Ladies hats a whole different ball game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My message/reply ratio is more like 50%, largely due to the fact that I send so few (my last mail I sent two days ago). I think many guys on here would have a greater success rate if they were more picky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss. "
I have no idea how many messages I send, but not as many as that, but I do more than OK for meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets
All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one
But your male and looking for Cock, so yes It will, but for guys seeking Ladies hats a whole different ball game "
A no-ball game?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never send any messages asking for a meet  but I answer all (sensible) messages. No meets yet, one planned in a couple of weeks, but I live in quite a remote area so that's to be expected. |
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I haven't been on here for ages but I remember that my reply ratio was 1:12... of those then the meet ratio was 1:6 ish...
so working that backwards... if I messaged 72 women, I'd end up bagging one!
however, I have always been picky.
My chances are increased substantially by going to a club where its easy. The question is, do I spend £35 or just meet off here? |
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"My message/reply ratio is more like 50%, largely due to the fact that I send so few (my last mail I sent two days ago). I think many guys on here would have a greater success rate if they were more picky."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge |
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"I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge"
I tried that, it didn't work for me lol. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Out of 100 messages I receive:
50% are from friends on here and are on-going conversations and very nice they are, too.
Of the other 50, 30 are probably saying I look nice and if they were closer...
The remaining 20, 15 are frim people totally unsuitable, ie, no pics, too old, only want to meet on a Tuesday afternoon in Asda car park and so on.
This leaves me 5 plausible messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss. "
Do people actually count? Wouldn't have a clue. Many messages are to friends etc anyway. Certainly don't go short of meets - one meet ain't a good return for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never bothered counting.
All I need to know is I've sent many messages out. Rarely get anything back and have zero meets; often weighing up the merits of perseverance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge
I tried that, it didn't work for me lol. "
Tried this an was a disaster.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss. "
Take heart. In direct marketing a 1 to 2% response rate to a mailshot is often regarded as normal, so actually you're doing OK  |
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"Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss.
Take heart. In direct marketing a 1 to 2% response rate to a mailshot is often regarded as normal, so actually you're doing OK "
Thanks interruptus. Your statistics means I can smile again and walk with my head high, or even better with my cock high lol. |
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"Out of 100 messages I receive:
50% are from friends on here and are on-going conversations and very nice they are, too.
Of the other 50, 30 are probably saying I look nice and if they were closer...
The remaining 20, 15 are frim people totally unsuitable, ie, no pics, too old, only want to meet on a Tuesday afternoon in Asda car park and so on.
This leaves me 5 plausible messages.
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That reminds me I had better message you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are you sending these ladies..
not being funny at all but ive had a great response whenever I've messaged people, please tell me you're not just asking for a fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got all my filters on at the moment as I
I'm lazy and don't reply to everyone,I prefer to send initial messages out if I like the look of someone,the response rate is high but that doesn't always mean it will end up with a meet once I've been chatting with someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will sound cocky but I tend to very rarely message first nowadays... and still manage to get meets!
So my ratio for the past month would be 0-5-5, or something like that |
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"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets
All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one "
You're meeting blokes so can not in all fairness be compared to the OP as gay/bi men will always find it easy to find other guys to fuck. |
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"Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets"
As a single female you will generally get a meet when you want one. The same cannot be said of a single bloke so yours is not a fair comparison to the OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge"
Women are deluged with crap messages. Honestly, it's not difficult to stand out from the crowd! Bother to write something decent and I'll always reply, even if it's a thanks but no thanks. |
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"What are you sending these ladies..
not being funny at all but ive had a great response whenever I've messaged people, please tell me you're not just asking for a fuck "
Is that not the right approach??? Oh bugger!!!! |
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