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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol |
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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago
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Get the same all the time, we ask questions & either get one word answers or they just repeat what we have written. So fed up with guys thinking they can send you a couple of words & you should be grateful that they want to fuck you that you will not need any answers to any questions. |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol"
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers  |
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I've had that but I don't pursue them. If they can't be arsed to put effort into a conversation they aren't going to be my cup of tea between the sheets. Often they have made the first contact too, you'd expect a bit more enthusiasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can tell whether it has legs by the initial conversations. Even if I'm asking open questions and still not getting much back in terms of insight or even personality then I move on, quickly. |
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Yes, this does my nut in. I understand that there may be occasions when a long reply isn't practical (walking down the street typing on a phone for example). But even then a quick reply indicating they they will get back properly later would be nice.
Also agree with the chap that mentioned his annoyance at people who avoid answering questions. I mean, what's that about.
Of course, dealing with thee people is easy (block or inform them that it's not going to happen).
At the end of the day what we are after here is some horny fun - bit of respect would be nice. If you can't be arsed to string a sentence together then jog on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get annoyed when you ask a question in a message and they completely ignore it in their reply.  "
maybe they don't want to answer it or it's an uncomfortable question, ever thought of that? Guess not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll usually reply with messages that are just as vague...or ask them to let me know when they're free and that usually brings an end to any conversation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers "
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, this does my nut in. I understand that there may be occasions when a long reply isn't practical (walking down the street typing on a phone for example). But even then a quick reply indicating they they will get back properly later would be nice.
Also agree with the chap that mentioned his annoyance at people who avoid answering questions. I mean, what's that about.
Of course, dealing with thee people is easy (block or inform them that it's not going to happen).
At the end of the day what we are after here is some horny fun - bit of respect would be nice. If you can't be arsed to string a sentence together then jog on. "
... Just going for a jog |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick...."
Would have thought that lack of interest a more likely explanation than lack of intellect |
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This thread was looking at people who give single syllable / single word answers to reasonable questions. Now if they can't muster together a few words to reply then it's a reasonable assumption to figure that they don't have a grasp of the basics in human intrtaction and I'm sorry but, that's a bit of a warning sign. Yes, we're here to enjoy some sexy fun - doesn't mean it's a free for all and any retard can get his/ her rocks off by saying something like 'I wnt da fk u'
I mean, honestly.... Make a freekin effort. |
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I don't think one word replies mean the person is unintelligent. It's more likely to mean the person just isn't interested.
Unfortunately I think some people feel they do have to reply even if they're not interested, maybe because of all the moaning forum topics about not getting replies... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers "
whoa that's a tad harsh!
I would suggest they're not that interested instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit im guilty of this..mainly because I start speaking to someone but say I cant meet at the moment but will let u know when I can...then get bombarded day after day with wanna meet to tonite etc etc and thats when I just give one or two word answers..:-/ |
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"This thread was looking at people who give single syllable / single word answers to reasonable questions. Now if they can't muster together a few words to reply then it's a reasonable assumption to figure that they don't have a grasp of the basics in human intrtaction and I'm sorry but, that's a bit of a warning sign. Yes, we're here to enjoy some sexy fun - doesn't mean it's a free for all and any retard can get his/ her rocks off by saying something like 'I wnt da fk u'
I mean, honestly.... Make a freekin effort. "
I find the word retard very offensive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I don't think I'm gonna be given an apology given the posters attitude but hey ho!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm afraid I do this when I'm tired. I don't like turning the question back on them so if I'm too tired to think I just answer the questions. Now and then something might pop into my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say this has happened on a few occasion to me as well. Yeah its frustrating as hell but you have to take the rough with the smooth because when they do have good banter and conversation with you its means it will often work out for the best. I tend to give them a little chance then if no joy move on.. GL OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must admit im guilty of this..mainly because I start speaking to someone but say I cant meet at the moment but will let u know when I can...then get bombarded day after day with wanna meet to tonite etc etc and thats when I just give one or two word answers..:-/"
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try and respond with a few questions and try and initiate conversations even if we get a short 'how are you?' Message.
Alot of men (personal observation) is that they skim through your message just to see if there is a time and date of a meet. If there isn't then all we get is a short message back totally ignoring questions..most just want a shag without the conversation lol |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
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"This thread was looking at people who give single syllable / single word answers to reasonable questions. Now if they can't muster together a few words to reply then it's a reasonable assumption to figure that they don't have a grasp of the basics in human intrtaction and I'm sorry but, that's a bit of a warning sign. Yes, we're here to enjoy some sexy fun - doesn't mean it's a free for all and any retard can get his/ her rocks off by saying something like 'I wnt da fk u'
I mean, honestly.... Make a freekin effort.
I find the word retard very offensive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I don't think I'm gonna be given an apology given the posters attitude but hey ho!)"
“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what." Good old Steven Fry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread was looking at people who give single syllable / single word answers to reasonable questions. Now if they can't muster together a few words to reply then it's a reasonable assumption to figure that they don't have a grasp of the basics in human intrtaction and I'm sorry but, that's a bit of a warning sign. Yes, we're here to enjoy some sexy fun - doesn't mean it's a free for all and any retard can get his/ her rocks off by saying something like 'I wnt da fk u'
I mean, honestly.... Make a freekin effort.
I find the word retard very offensive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I don't think I'm gonna be given an apology given the posters attitude but hey ho!)
“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what." Good old Steven Fry"
so people who have learning difficulties shouldn't feel offended by people who use the word retard? it's a bit like saying someone who hasn't got a physical disability being told they can't sit in a disabled spot on the bus and yes I am classed as disabled |
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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago
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Good old Urban dictionary for those that don't like Steven Fry!
The R-word, retard(ed), was used in the past to describe a person with an intellectual or developmental disability. Since then, it has morphed into a slang word to mean things like “stupid” or “idiotic.” Many people think it is socially acceptable to use the r-word in this way but the truth is, it hurts and dehumanizes those with an intellectual disability and their family and friends. The Spread the Word to End the Word movement was created to end the pejorative use of the R-word and promote dignity and respect for people with intellectual disabilities. Join the movement by pledging to end the r-word at r-word.org and vote this definition to the top.
Person 1: I'm so retarded; I forgot to get milk at the grocery store.
Person 2: Hey, I would appreciate it if you didn’t use that word around me anymore. When you use "retarded" as a synonym for "stupid" or "idiotic," you are saying that all people with intellectual disabilities are stupid, and that’s definitely not true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good old Urban dictionary for those that don't like Steven Fry!
The R-word, retard(ed), was used in the past to describe a person with an intellectual or developmental disability. Since then, it has morphed into a slang word to mean things like “stupid” or “idiotic.” Many people think it is socially acceptable to use the r-word in this way but the truth is, it hurts and dehumanizes those with an intellectual disability and their family and friends. The Spread the Word to End the Word movement was created to end the pejorative use of the R-word and promote dignity and respect for people with intellectual disabilities. Join the movement by pledging to end the r-word at r-word.org and vote this definition to the top.
Person 1: I'm so retarded; I forgot to get milk at the grocery store.
Person 2: Hey, I would appreciate it if you didn’t use that word around me anymore. When you use "retarded" as a synonym for "stupid" or "idiotic," you are saying that all people with intellectual disabilities are stupid, and that’s definitely not true. "
doesn't matter what context it's used in, it's a disgusting word to use and there are more suitable words to use like "stupid" "idiot" rather than that one.
example: would you like it if you had a mental disability and someone used the word retard? I bet not |
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When some people get a ton of messages, it may take some time for you and your mails to stand out from the rest. There may also be quite a lag, if youre not all online at the same time. The secret is to pick those that you are really interested in, and then make yourself stand out. Too many questions to them and it is like an inquisition and possibly intrusive. Pace others, as their interest and speed may not have matched yours. If emails work poorly for you, consider changing your style, media or your rejection criteria. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread was looking at people who give single syllable / single word answers to reasonable questions. Now if they can't muster together a few words to reply then it's a reasonable assumption to figure that they don't have a grasp of the basics in human intrtaction and I'm sorry but"
Really I thought it was just a universally recognised brush off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what." Good old Steven Fry"
Yes however he wasn't really referring to something like this.
And I imagine that Stephan fry being a reasonably decent person like most when told by someone that using a word that slurs their disability makes them uncomfortable would graciously accept that and not use it around them.
Why deliberately do things to upset others? |
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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago
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"This thread was looking at people who give single syllable / single word answers to reasonable questions. Now if they can't muster together a few words to reply then it's a reasonable assumption to figure that they don't have a grasp of the basics in human intrtaction and I'm sorry but, that's a bit of a warning sign. Yes, we're here to enjoy some sexy fun - doesn't mean it's a free for all and any retard can get his/ her rocks off by saying something like 'I wnt da fk u'
I mean, honestly.... Make a freekin effort. "
The kind of. "retard" who cannot spell simple words like interaction ?
Horrible word to use that. |
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When I say retard it's aimed at the type who reply in that "I wnt da fk u" type of manner and let's be brutally honest here. Who in their right mind would find that appealing.
No, we enjoy a bit of fun but that doesn't mean we all need to communicate in Neanderthal grunts.
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick...."
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit "
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude. |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude."
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit "
Really? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude.
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit"
Well as we can't win either way with some blokes I'll just stick to what I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good old Urban dictionary for those that don't like Steven Fry!
The R-word, retard(ed), was used in the past to describe a person with an intellectual or developmental disability. Since then, it has morphed into a slang word to mean things like “stupid” or “idiotic.” Many people think it is socially acceptable to use the r-word in this way but the truth is, it hurts and dehumanizes those with an intellectual disability and their family and friends. The Spread the Word to End the Word movement was created to end the pejorative use of the R-word and promote dignity and respect for people with intellectual disabilities. Join the movement by pledging to end the r-word at r-word.org and vote this definition to the top.
Person 1: I'm so retarded; I forgot to get milk at the grocery store.
Person 2: Hey, I would appreciate it if you didn’t use that word around me anymore. When you use "retarded" as a synonym for "stupid" or "idiotic," you are saying that all people with intellectual disabilities are stupid, and that’s definitely not true.
doesn't matter what context it's used in, it's a disgusting word to use and there are more suitable words to use like "stupid" "idiot" rather than that one.
example: would you like it if you had a mental disability and someone used the word retard? I bet not "
Is it, in what way, do you know it's real meaning?? |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude.
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit
Well as we can't win either way with some blokes I'll just stick to what I do."
What's your point?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes it is sad to say you will get a lot of in on this like this. The ones that make me laugh are the ones that say they want good / intelligent conversions, only to end up grunting at you. That is if they get back to you at all. |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude.
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit"
Why? |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude.
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit
Why?"
Personal preference , |
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"Good old Urban dictionary for those that don't like Steven Fry!
The R-word, retard(ed), was used in the past to describe a person with an intellectual or developmental disability. Since then, it has morphed into a slang word to mean things like “stupid” or “idiotic.” Many people think it is socially acceptable to use the r-word in this way but the truth is, it hurts and dehumanizes those with an intellectual disability and their family and friends. The Spread the Word to End the Word movement was created to end the pejorative use of the R-word and promote dignity and respect for people with intellectual disabilities. Join the movement by pledging to end the r-word at r-word.org and vote this definition to the top.
Person 1: I'm so retarded; I forgot to get milk at the grocery store.
Person 2: Hey, I would appreciate it if you didn’t use that word around me anymore. When you use "retarded" as a synonym for "stupid" or "idiotic," you are saying that all people with intellectual disabilities are stupid, and that’s definitely not true.
doesn't matter what context it's used in, it's a disgusting word to use and there are more suitable words to use like "stupid" "idiot" rather than that one.
example: would you like it if you had a mental disability and someone used the word retard? I bet not
Is it, in what way, do you know it's real meaning??"
Derived from the French retard meaning late or delayed and literally would be "late developer" however it was always simply used to include nearly all developmental disabilities much as spastic was to cover most seizure related ones. Now people use it as a synonym for stupid.
Would you call a person with cerebal palsy a spastic as they once would have been or would you think that rude |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude.
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit"
And yet you've managed to do both.
Would you like like gold star my little over achiever? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I'd rather meet a polite stupid person than a rude intelligent one. I don't like rudeness in a manners/etiquette sort of way. "
I would prefer a stupid one to, less chatting more sex then lol.
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" then you have to continue to ask or there is no replies lol.. do you get the same?. It prob means they are not interested or they dont got so much in their vocabulary lol
It's quite common, it's usually a sign of a limited intellect , block the thick fuckers
they're obviously not interested, doesn't make them thick....
If they are not interested why do they reply with one word answers, they are thick as pig shit
Because if we don't reply at all we are considered rude.
I would rather be considered rude than thick as shit
And yet you've managed to do both.
Would you like like gold star my little over achiever?"
Hilarious, |
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"Good old Urban dictionary for those that don't like Steven Fry!
The R-word, retard(ed), was used in the past to describe a person with an intellectual or developmental disability. Since then, it has morphed into a slang word to mean things like “stupid” or “idiotic.” Many people think it is socially acceptable to use the r-word in this way but the truth is, it hurts and dehumanizes those with an intellectual disability and their family and friends. The Spread the Word to End the Word movement was created to end the pejorative use of the R-word and promote dignity and respect for people with intellectual disabilities. Join the movement by pledging to end the r-word at r-word.org and vote this definition to the top.
Person 1: I'm so retarded; I forgot to get milk at the grocery store.
Person 2: Hey, I would appreciate it if you didn’t use that word around me anymore. When you use "retarded" as a synonym for "stupid" or "idiotic," you are saying that all people with intellectual disabilities are stupid, and that’s definitely not true.
doesn't matter what context it's used in, it's a disgusting word to use and there are more suitable words to use like "stupid" "idiot" rather than that one.
example: would you like it if you had a mental disability and someone used the word retard? I bet not
Is it, in what way, do you know it's real meaning??
Derived from the French retard meaning late or delayed and literally would be "late developer" however it was always simply used to include nearly all developmental disabilities much as spastic was to cover most seizure related ones. Now people use it as a synonym for stupid.
Would you call a person with cerebal palsy a spastic as they once would have been or would you think that rude"
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over a year ago
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If they make first contact and I message back, i try always to put a question in to get the conversation going. If they reply with a one word answer, then I don't bother to reply.
If they can't be arsed to write a few words what's the sex going to be like. |
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok" "
What?..you mean like a text message that took you half an hour to type and they reply with "k".
Yep that boils my piss to bro!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Although we don't expect anyone to write a reply as long as War and Peace  I do find the one-words or a close sentence not very appealing and have taken it to mean that the other person isn't that interested and we move on.
I'm very appalled in this day and age that certain words referenced to people with disabilities, are still being used as derogatory terms as a way to associate the behaviour of some people with them. People who may find speaking and writing challenging,it doesn't mean they are not intelligent. All because someone in the public eye makes a skit about it, doesn't make it ok. 
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Dont you find this odd.. I alwais have to ask the questions and you might write a sentence and all you get as a reply is "yep" or "ok"
What?..you mean like a text message that took you half an hour to type and they reply with "k".
Yep that boils my piss to bro! "
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