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9 months no veri.???. Never worth the effort???!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do wonder about that too. People that's been here for over a year and has no verification... can you really take them serious when they say they want to meet? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.  "
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
I will approach such people with utmost scepticism and never really take their word for it until I find my cock in that pussy I would buy it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
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no
maybe fairer to say they haven't been in contact with the right people.as fabian said,if it bothers you that much,use the filters and don't waste your time contacting these people,and in time they will find their own swinging friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
wise words as always Fabio. I've been here three months and not met yet. My verification is from someone I met on my previous profile. Don't see why I should delete my profile. I enjoy the Forums and chatting to various people. I'm not breaking the rules or misleading anyone  |
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
Not necessary i have had only chosen to show one veri but doesnt mean i have only had one meet. Suppose my point is they may have decided not to show them . Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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... but understanding how other's use the site will in turn help us to use the site and understand others using it better.
It could be a case... there are some genuine couples who do not want to be verified...
I think it's a lazy man's thinking to write "mind your own" when ever other people's behaviour is question.
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
Well I don't want to filter people still shopping around. Perhaps a month or two is long enough to make a secession either way. More so u can't filter by how long they ve been here and have no veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Not necessary i have had only chosen to show one veri but doesnt mean i have only had one meet. Suppose my point is they may have decided not to show them . Xx "
Even when they don't show what's written you can still how many times they have been verified. |
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Not necessary i have had only chosen to show one veri but doesnt mean i have only had one meet. Suppose my point is they may have decided not to show them . Xx "
You don't have to show any even if u have 100. That's why you get a tick, more than sufficient |
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Not necessary i have had only chosen to show one veri but doesnt mean i have only had one meet. Suppose my point is they may have decided not to show them . Xx
Even when they don't show what's written you can still how many times they have been verified. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?.
no
maybe fairer to say they haven't been in contact with the right people.as fabian said,if it bothers you that much,use the filters and don't waste your time contacting these people,and in time they will find their own swinging friends"
we do use the filters after giving newbies and people who don't have veris after 3 or 4 mths a chance who then in turn out to be fakes an timewasters and has for meeting the right people it doesnt take anyone that long to get a meet either by means of a club or a face to face meet , so to sound blunt on this matter. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I think it's a lazy man's thinking to write "mind your own" when ever other people's behaviour is question.
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but you have no control over have others use the site.. so why question it, or whinge..
the site gives people a solution to this issue... if you don't like the fact people are unvarified.. you can filter those people out!
simple as... one click of a button.. less ulcers induced.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't look to see how long someone has been on site or at verifications to decide who I meet. Anyone can waste your time by talking,arranging a meet then not turning up. Even verified people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
Exactly |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it....
Well I don't want to filter people still shopping around. Perhaps a month or two is long enough to make a secession either way. More so u can't filter by how long they ve been here and have no veri. "
well if you dont want to use a solution the site has given you to a perceived problem in your mind... the issue isn't then one with the site... its with something/one a lot closer to home!
or you can be radical and go with something I like to call "basic common sense"... mix that with a healthy does of "sketicism" and if it looks too good to be true.. it normally is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
Assuming they are using the site to meet, and not just look at cams or something else of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a lazy man's thinking to write "mind your own" when ever other people's behaviour is question.
but you have no control over have others use the site.. so why question it, or whinge..
the site gives people a solution to this issue... if you don't like the fact people are unvarified.. you can filter those people out!
simple as... one click of a button.. less ulcers induced...."
I doubt the OP just as myself here are actually bothered whether they are verified or not.... their lost 
However it makes for a good discussion... as to why they might not be.
Thought this was a forum after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a lazy man's thinking to write "mind your own" when ever other people's behaviour is question.
but you have no control over have others use the site.. so why question it, or whinge..
the site gives people a solution to this issue... if you don't like the fact people are unvarified.. you can filter those people out!
simple as... one click of a button.. less ulcers induced....
I doubt the OP just as myself here are actually bothered whether they are verified or not.... their lost
However it makes for a good discussion... as to why they might not be.
Thought this was a forum after all "
so you don't mind wasting your time with potential fakes and timewasters that's fairer enough each to their own i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a lazy man's thinking to write "mind your own" when ever other people's behaviour is question.
but you have no control over have others use the site.. so why question it, or whinge..
the site gives people a solution to this issue... if you don't like the fact people are unvarified.. you can filter those people out!
simple as... one click of a button.. less ulcers induced....
I doubt the OP just as myself here are actually bothered whether they are verified or not.... their lost
However it makes for a good discussion... as to why they might not be.
Thought this was a forum after all
so you don't mind wasting your time with potential fakes and timewasters that's fairer enough each to their own i guess "
I don't get it. I miss how you linked what I wrote to what you said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so you don't mind wasting your time with potential fakes and timewasters that's fairer enough each to their own i guess "
I think you are missing the point. If you feel the only way to eliminate that problem is to only meet verified people, you can filter unverified people when you search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not necessarily. I signed up to the site ages ago on the recommendation of a friend.
I've only recently started to use the sight on a regular basis and the veris are starting to appear.
I never considered deleting and starting again.Just thought I would use the site when I was ready. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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so you don't mind wasting your time with potential fakes and timewasters that's fairer enough each to their own i guess "
If that was aimed at me... I have my own "checks and balances" in place... plus I tend to find that if I am not 110% comfortable, I don't let my nether regions rule my brain.... if I am not happy, I'll keep talking to people until I am...
has it cost me meets... probably
been here best part of 5/6 years...... can count the times i have had my "time wasted" on the fingers of one hand.....
not saying it is not fallproof.... but that system works for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not necessarily. I signed up to the site ages ago on the recommendation of a friend.
I've only recently started to use the sight on a regular basis and the veris are starting to appear.
I never considered deleting and starting again.Just thought I would use the site when I was ready."
See that explanation makes sense.
You didn't even get emotional about giving an answer... like some people  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
What if they can't find anyone that they want to meet in that time? Or that wants to meet them?
What if they are having fun meeting half the site. They just don't advertise it with verifications.
What if they had their first meet within a 3 month period but then didn't anyone for a year. Do they have to leave and then come back?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am very genuine and always wanted to meet somebody of fab. But every time I went to speak to somebody they told me to come back when your verified or words to that affect. I didn't meet anybody on here for months, Its not that I wasn't ready its the fact it takes one person to help you break your fab virginity so you can enjoy the rest of your experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have blocked unverified users but I don't think they should leave the site. I just get a lot of silly messages from newly opened accounts so it's not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
No it doesn't as verified people can be timewasters too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
No it doesn't as verified people can be timewasters too "
This is very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not necessarily. I signed up to the site ages ago on the recommendation of a friend.
I've only recently started to use the sight on a regular basis and the veris are starting to appear.
I never considered deleting and starting again.Just thought I would use the site when I was ready.
See that explanation makes sense.
You didn't even get emotional about giving an answer... like some people "
Just call me Capt. Sensible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on the specifics
im after women with certain attributes that wouldnt be classed as common(not chicks with dicks )
im after specific sexual acts and scenarios
i have to find the lady attractive
she has to find me attractive
she has to share the same sexual interests
i only do local`ish
tis isnt where i look for sex of any description. im just trying to indulge a lil fetish i have
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Not necessary i have had only chosen to show one veri but doesnt mean i have only had one meet. Suppose my point is they may have decided not to show them . Xx
You don't have to show any even if u have 100. That's why you get a tick, more than sufficient"
I have just one veri showing which about 1 year old hence the tick.I could show the others but choose not as you say one is sufficient, in my eyes too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of just don't get any luck 
It is not luck you have a very basic profile effort will take you a lot further than luck."
I know I'm not too good at selling myself need a profile rethink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
Or maybe they just use the forum or like the club Reviews and the news. Unless they're messaging people to meet them not turning up they're not wasting anyone's time by not meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am very genuine and always wanted to meet somebody of fab. But every time I went to speak to somebody they told me to come back when your verified or words to that affect. I didn't meet anybody on here for months, Its not that I wasn't ready its the fact it takes one person to help you break your fab virginity so you can enjoy the rest of your experience. "
That's what the numerous socials are for really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like meeting newbies , so filtering out unverified would spoil our fun .
However , if after 6 months someone isn't verified , we agree it's a waste of time being on here .
Said this before and got it in the ear , much like the op on here .
But like any community , I guess there's not much you can do about it . Dreamers , fakes , time wasters and posers exist everywhere .
Some are here to swing , play , meet and use the site for what it's here for .
Others not .... And so it is .
I guess as long as the people not seeking meets make it clear on their profile that would help .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have unverified and newbies blocked
Obviously photoveried can pass through that block
I have verified many people who have been here months or even over a year as invited them to get there arse up party,social or club im at,i never arrange private meets with them,but some people do make the effort if they really want to meet.i have no problem chatting to photo verified,i just make it clear i meet first at partys and clubs,everybody deserves a chance and no show dosent bother me when at these events |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others I am sceptical of people who have been here over a year and haven't been verified (not that they haven't published any, but they have no verification tick). I always ask why - the answer has always been I joined up and but never used it .
Rightly or wrongly no veri tick causes one to ponder the intent of the person. I am happy to give a photo verified person who has been here for a few months a chance, if they tick certain boxes  .
Do I worry about it (how others use the site)? No I'm only concerned about it in relationship to me directly. |
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"Like others I am sceptical of people who have been here over a year and haven't been verified (not that they haven't published any, but they have no verification tick). I always ask why - the answer has always been I joined up and but never used it .
Rightly or wrongly no veri tick causes one to ponder the intent of the person. I am happy to give a photo verified person who has been here for a few months a chance, if they tick certain boxes .
Do I worry about it (how others use the site)? No I'm only concerned about it in relationship to me directly."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, verifications don't mean much to me. My interaction with that person will vary. Just because they meet doesn't mean they'll meet me and vice versa.
As said earlier, if it bugs you that much, use the options provided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
No it doesn't as verified people can be timewasters too "
been let down by no shows a couple of times....both were verified. |
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i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
For real! |
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"I don't look to see how long someone has been on site or at verifications to decide who I meet. Anyone can waste your time by talking,arranging a meet then not turning up. Even verified people "
Agreed. The day I have to rely on the views of total strangers to decide whether I meet another total stranger will be the day I'd have lost leave of my senses!
Contact, talk, social meet, play: hardly rocket science, if you can't find playmates yourself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost none of my encounters we've had are verified on here as we've been meeting for 14 years via other means. Lots of people meet in clubs and might not be asking everyone else if they're on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well here is one for you....any single person esp men on this site should leave and only return once they have a partner.. "
and the site would be dead in a month given most couples seem to be looking for a single female lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile has been set up for over a year but I only started using it properly before Christmas. Should I leave? "
Please yourself , up to you , do whatever you like , no one else's business what you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile has been set up for over a year but I only started using it properly before Christmas. Should I leave?
Please yourself , up to you , do whatever you like , no one else's business what you do "
Well yes clearly, hence why I'm still here.
What others have said - it's down to the person how they use their profile and how often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
but if you use such an arbitrary criteria and cut off, would you also then include the people who have gone that length if time between meets? Do they then suddenly become fake?
Not forgetting that some people make a deliberate decision to not have verifications...they could be meeting left right and centre and not feel any need to publicise it to you or anyone else... |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
What other people do is none of your business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
What other people do is none of your business."
Quite right x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
What other people do is none of your business."
So why get involved with the OPs post then. If you don't like it don't reply . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
I totally agree this site is an outlet for so many people
Let them use it as they see fit (within the rules of conduct that is).
And what next? Anyone that hasn't had their pictures fab'd should remove them? |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
What other people do is none of your business.
So why get involved with the OPs post then. If you don't like it don't reply . "
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I have my filters set to not be contacted by unverified profiles but that doesnt include people who are only photo verified and not by actually meeting
Maybe admin could do something whereby the filters could include people who havent actually met anyone as yet ?
And being verified on a cam in the chatrooms could also be included in this as again all that proves is you have a cam. xx |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
What other people do is none of your business.
So why get involved with the OPs post then. If you don't like it don't reply . "
they want to oppress others whilst they keep their freedom of speech. Shame they didn't apply the lazy man's "mind your own business" to theirselves. |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
Why ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
Total rubbish, and very unfair. |
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over a year ago
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The only reason I asked a social meet to verify me was so I could take part in the forums.
I'm really not fussed about how many ticks I have against my name. But I do like to meet fairly quickly for a social meet if I feel we get on.
People either turn up or they don't - having a tick next to your name isn't going to solve that! |
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over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am beginning to wonder why I bother coming on the forums .... It seems the majority of posters are here to justify their presence on fab despite not wishing to meet .
And those who do , want to defend the right of those who don't meet !
So what's the point of a swinging site if you don't swing ?
And save the crap about how it's nice to keep up with old friends etc..... Or that the forums are fun ... There's other better sites for that surely ?
Oh and the free cams ?
Well yeah , they can be good for those not ready for the real world I guess .
So anyway , there's my Thursday rant over with ....fire away
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its normal for single gues to not get a meet for a year, if u manage to shag one before the second year is up well done lol."
But in your case it's not for the want if trying is it ? |
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over a year ago
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"I am beginning to wonder why I bother coming on the forums .... It seems the majority of posters are here to justify their presence on fab despite not wishing to meet .
And those who do , want to defend the right of those who don't meet !
So what's the point of a swinging site if you don't swing ?
And save the crap about how it's nice to keep up with old friends etc..... Or that the forums are fun ... There's other better sites for that surely ?
Oh and the free cams ?
Well yeah , they can be good for those not ready for the real world I guess .
So anyway , there's my Thursday rant over with ....fire away
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are you suggesting that people should not be allowed to take their time in choosing potential sexual partners? That if the fabulous world of fab is unable to chuck up anyone that you fancy fucking, you should be forced to leave?
or that people should be made to display verifications to prove that they are indeed "real" swingers? |
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over a year ago
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"Its normal for single gues to not get a meet for a year, if u manage to shag one before the second year is up well done lol."
You speak for yourself mate lol . If I had not got a meet in a year I would of given up
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its normal for single gues to not get a meet for a year, if u manage to shag one before the second year is up well done lol.
But in your case it's not for the want if trying is it ? "
lol I dont try as much here, I might check out 2 or so profiles aday, u alwais know u will get a no anyway lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its normal for single gues to not get a meet for a year, if u manage to shag one before the second year is up well done lol. You speak for yourself mate lol . If I had not got a meet in a year I would of given up "
lol ur right there to, gues one year is a good limit to |
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over a year ago
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"I am beginning to wonder why I bother coming on the forums .... It seems the majority of posters are here to justify their presence on fab despite not wishing to meet .
And those who do , want to defend the right of those who don't meet !
So what's the point of a swinging site if you don't swing ?
And save the crap about how it's nice to keep up with old friends etc..... Or that the forums are fun ... There's other better sites for that surely ?
Oh and the free cams ?
Well yeah , they can be good for those not ready for the real world I guess .
So anyway , there's my Thursday rant over with ....fire away
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We swing, vigorously! However me (Mrs D) is the devils spawn so nobody would come near me anyway. I love cock,cum, men, pussy and promiscuous sex with a variety of partners.
Oh and im a gobby shit.
It's not big, it's not clever and it sure ain't classy.
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over a year ago
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"I am beginning to wonder why I bother coming on the forums .... It seems the majority of posters are here to justify their presence on fab despite not wishing to meet .
And those who do , want to defend the right of those who don't meet !
So what's the point of a swinging site if you don't swing ?
And save the crap about how it's nice to keep up with old friends etc..... Or that the forums are fun ... There's other better sites for that surely ?
Oh and the free cams ?
Well yeah , they can be good for those not ready for the real world I guess .
So anyway , there's my Thursday rant over with ....fire away
are you suggesting that people should not be allowed to take their time in choosing potential sexual partners? That if the fabulous world of fab is unable to chuck up anyone that you fancy fucking, you should be forced to leave?
or that people should be made to display verifications to prove that they are indeed
"real" swingers? "
On your first point , if you are so selective that in 6 months no one meets your criteria , it's probably not the place for you .
On the second point , you don't have to display verifications , nor indeed have any as my post points out |
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over a year ago
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"I am beginning to wonder why I bother coming on the forums .... It seems the majority of posters are here to justify their presence on fab despite not wishing to meet .
And those who do , want to defend the right of those who don't meet !
So what's the point of a swinging site if you don't swing ?
And save the crap about how it's nice to keep up with old friends etc..... Or that the forums are fun ... There's other better sites for that surely ?
Oh and the free cams ?
Well yeah , they can be good for those not ready for the real world I guess .
So anyway , there's my Thursday rant over with ....fire away
are you suggesting that people should not be allowed to take their time in choosing potential sexual partners? That if the fabulous world of fab is unable to chuck up anyone that you fancy fucking, you should be forced to leave?
or that people should be made to display verifications to prove that they are indeed
"real" swingers?
On your first point , if you are so selective that in 6 months no one meets your criteria , it's probably not the place for you .
On the second point , you don't have to display verifications , nor indeed have any as my post points out "
Take into acount to the ratio is 90 men to 1 woman to lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I choose to hide my verifications and also the summary. The details involving what happened during my meets are private between me and the other people involved.
I have the verified tick on my page but it doesn't really mean a lot, it could be 1 web can veri!
I think we have to take everything with a pinch of salt.
Yes there are timewasters on here but just coz they haven't been verified yet doesn't mean they are one of them. |
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over a year ago
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"I am beginning to wonder why I bother coming on the forums .... It seems the majority of posters are here to justify their presence on fab despite not wishing to meet .
And those who do , want to defend the right of those who don't meet !
So what's the point of a swinging site if you don't swing ?
And save the crap about how it's nice to keep up with old friends etc..... Or that the forums are fun ... There's other better sites for that surely ?
Oh and the free cams ?
Well yeah , they can be good for those not ready for the real world I guess .
So anyway , there's my Thursday rant over with ....fire away
We swing, vigorously! However me (Mrs D) is the devils spawn so nobody would come near me anyway. I love cock,cum, men, pussy and promiscuous sex with a variety of partners.
Oh and im a gobby shit.
It's not big, it's not clever and it sure ain't classy.
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Apart from the gobby shit , sounds like my wife lol
And I wasn't trying to suggest we should be shagging everyone and bragging |
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over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
What other people do is none of your business."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Total rubbish, and very unfair."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?"
Why?
We met a guy on our old profile, he had been on here for over a year, no veris...
We met and had a great time, when asked why he hadn't been verified he said longer you been on here longer to get a meet, as people class you as fake or timewasters.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Total rubbish, and very unfair.
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My last veri is from last July, that doesn't mean I haven't met. I only play with a select few and don't feel the need for veri's all the time. People can see that I have met and played but who needs a never ending list. xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes you laugh really , show all your veris and your a slapper, hide your veris and your hiding something, don't get verified and your a time wasting fake, just no pleasing some lol x |
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over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications prove very little or nothing, in terms of someone's integrity, genuineness and reliability and are a waste of time, effort and status-consciousness.
On the same hand, too many people (mainly couples) let just one verification go to their head, and see it as a badge of honour. Some of them use it as a weapon (excuse) to insult and bully others who don't (yet) have a verification, which is sad, pathetic, and shows insecurity.
I'm a member of another site that doesn't bother with all this verification crap, and I've had far better luck there for over 10 years. Yes, I am verified, but I don't shout about it, unlike many others who treat verifications like a matter of life or death. |
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over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
I think it's a stupid idea..
People can use their profiles for whatever they want to get out of the site and not how others think they should run their profiles.
I think it's pathetic how some people are so obsessive over how others use their account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes you laugh really , show all your veris and your a slapper, hide your veris and your hiding something, don't get verified and your a time wasting fake, just no pleasing some lol x"
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
I think it's a stupid idea..
People can use their profiles for whatever they want to get out of the site and not how others think they should run their profiles.
I think it's pathetic how some people are so obsessive over how others use their account. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
I think it's a stupid idea..
People can use their profiles for whatever they want to get out of the site and not how others think they should run their profiles.
I think it's pathetic how some people are so obsessive over how others use their account. "
Totally agree. Now, please remove those squiggly lines from your profile, they're giving me a migraine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was here for about 4 years before I had the inclination to meet anyone.
Does it make me a time-waster?
No.
If I say I'll meet you, I'll meet you. "
No , it just means you wasted 4 years |
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over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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I remember when I first started I had no verifications and the chances of me getting a meet where zilch. I wasn't anybodys cup of tea. But, if someone did take me up on the offer of meeting. Then, I would have met them - I wouldn't have wasted their time and I would have shown how genuine I am.
....i mean, the first thing I did was get photo verified and then soon after a while got my first webcam verification. I'm not going to ask someone to verify me. I don't need them to verify me - if they take the chance to get to know me. Then, they'd know if i'm genuine or not.
I used to hate those profiles (which did tickle my fancy) but they'd say something along the lines of 'if you have not got a meet veri, then this site aint for you and you are not genuine'. I mean..don't be silly. |
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"I remember when I first started I had no verifications and the chances of me getting a meet where zilch. I wasn't anybodys cup of tea. But, if someone did take me up on the offer of meeting. Then, I would have met them - I wouldn't have wasted their time and I would have shown how genuine I am.
....i mean, the first thing I did was get photo verified and then soon after a while got my first webcam verification. I'm not going to ask someone to verify me. I don't need them to verify me - if they take the chance to get to know me. Then, they'd know if i'm genuine or not.
I used to hate those profiles (which did tickle my fancy) but they'd say something along the lines of 'if you have not got a meet veri, then this site aint for you and you are not genuine'. I mean..don't be silly."
Popeye , you were actively seeking meets .
It's the ones who don't , and never will , that are a waste of time in our opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People should be allowed to use the site for what they want from it, not be dictated to by others. If they don't want to meet then surely that is their business not yours. Maybe they are just a bit lonely and want to chat or just want to use the cams. Just move on and forget about them. |
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"People should be allowed to use the site for what they want from it, not be dictated to by others. If they don't want to meet then surely that is their business not yours. Maybe they are just a bit lonely and want to chat or just want to use the cams. Just move on and forget about them."
To use your words , we are using the site for what we want from it .
We are not dictating to anyone , ee are expressing our thoughts , just as you are .
Just move on , and forget about us |
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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too
much time concentrating on how
others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
why - they might have a list of friends they chat to - might just come in here or chatrooms - loads dont meet - let people alone |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
i think people spend way too much time concentrating on how others use the site as opposed to working on what they can do better.....
the site gives you the oppotunity to filter out people who have no varifications if it means that much to you... i suggest you use it...."
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"I don't bother asking for any more veris as can't see the point. In my experience those with veris are no more reliable than those without."
that can be true, we've never had a no show verified or not and the amount of people who suddenly stop answering messages when you mention meeting is about the same verified or not. |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think.
What if they can't find anyone that they want to meet in that time? Or that wants to meet them?
What if they are having fun meeting half the site. They just don't advertise it with verifications.
What if they had their first meet within a 3 month period but then didn't anyone for a year. Do they have to leave and then come back. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well here is one for you....any single person esp men on this site should leave and only return once they have a partner.. "
Aw thank you for telling me how to use the site! I'll get my coat .........not!  |
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"Any lady or couple or man yet to be verified for more than a few months 3 to 4 should delete profile and come back when ready.
Let's start discussion. Would like to see what people think. "
Why????
A few years ago we had a meet up had plenty of guys reply saying they wanted to meet the 2 guys who were I verified and been on here for over a year who also replied said they wanted to meet...
Out of all replies the only 2 guys unverified turned up, when we asked them why hadn't they been verified they both said longer you are on here and not been verified people think you are times wasters or pic collectors, those 2 guys turned out to be one of our best meets. |
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"well would it not be fair to say tha if a cpl, woman or man has been not been verified after 3 or 4 mths that these are fakes/timewasters ?
Not necessary i have had only chosen to show one veri but doesnt mean i have only had one meet. Suppose my point is they may have decided not to show them . Xx "
Yep.
There's no rule saying you have to show veris and no rule that you have to write one for someone. Like it was mentioned, people obsess too much about what others do here. |
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