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Do Your friends know you swing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we recently had a normal friend who thought we we're swingers of course we had to deny this but the problem was they went and told all their friends which I thought was out of order this is our private life and what we do in it is our business and I have a best friend who is female and she knows we swing and she makes no judgement on that whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No,I don't have any interest in their sex life so wouldn't feel the need to tell them about mine and I wouldn't fuck a friend either,I make friends out of swingers,not swingers out of friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually no two friends know i swing, i forgot about my mate from school who is on here and also my aunties best friend who i have known for years was on here before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The adverts without face pictures on would say that most people like to keep it private I think most people would be shocked knowing but also a little jealous that there not or dare not join |
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We def don't tell our friends as people judge to quickly , but we def made friends out of swinging that's why we have no face pics as we find people to judgemental but on the other hand if people looking on swingers sites they must be curious ?  |
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4 of our friends know we swing. We decided to tell them as we knew they wasn't going to be judgemental.
We don't like telling porkies to those who don't know when they ask us what we have been up to/where have we been this weekend etc... but we think its best some don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't hide it we don't Advertise it either. My Daughter knows and my son knows and i would say 99% of my friends know. My female partners Family etc don't but again she would not hide it or lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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suckable that was the shame with us and they didn't even know for def if we did . our thoughts are tho they can't be real friends if they can accept what you are |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"No,I don't have any interest in their sex life so wouldn't feel the need to tell them about mine and I wouldn't fuck a friend either,I make friends out of swingers,not swingers out of friends"
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"No,I don't have any interest in their sex life so wouldn't feel the need to tell them about mine and I wouldn't fuck a friend either,I make friends out of swingers,not swingers out of friends
This "
and this again
some of our best friends we have now made form this lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah my friends know about me doing this and they're a little jealous haha, my parents know too, but hey they know i stay safe."
my daughter's know. I tell one of them where I'm going and with who |
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Some do and some don't. However ig anyone puts it to us we tell them the truth.
A fem friend of ours put it to us a couple of weeks ago when a big group of us were out on the town. When we confirmed her suspicions,she said we went up in her estimation and she's been badgering us now to take her to a club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"4 of our friends know we swing. We decided to tell them as we knew they wasn't going to be judgemental.
We don't like telling porkies to those who don't know when they ask us what we have been up to/where have we been this weekend etc... but we think its best some don't know. "
When you told them, did they think that you were fair game after that. I can imagine some people thinking that. |
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"4 of our friends know we swing. We decided to tell them as we knew they wasn't going to be judgemental.
We don't like telling porkies to those who don't know when they ask us what we have been up to/where have we been this weekend etc... but we think its best some don't know.
When you told them, did they think that you were fair game after that. I can imagine some people thinking that."
Fair game? Do you mean easy or "good on you" by that? |
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"4 of our friends know we swing. We decided to tell them as we knew they wasn't going to be judgemental.
We don't like telling porkies to those who don't know when they ask us what we have been up to/where have we been this weekend etc... but we think its best some don't know.
When you told them, did they think that you were fair game after that. I can imagine some people thinking that."
The 4 friends we chose to tell have been extremely supportive of our lifestyle.
One even came to a club with me and loved it! Even had fun themselves...
The main thing that has been said by all of them is they wish they had the guts. Also that we are only doing what most would love to do and wouldn't dare to do. They agree with our outlook on life which is...lifes too short. Enjoy it to the max. Have fun..etc etc...  |
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"No,I don't have any interest in their sex life so wouldn't feel the need to tell them about mine and I wouldn't fuck a friend either,I make friends out of swingers,not swingers out of friends"
Simply: this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend (a he) knows but he's the only one.
I don't talk about it unless questions are asked, and then he sometimes winces at the answers.
I love the prude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My brother in law does as he contacted us saying sorry you are out if our age range as he wanted us to meet. We strung him along for hours until we invited him as a friend then he saw the face pics lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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things is we don't advertise we swing nor gives signs we do around Quote normal friends so we don't know why they have jumped to conclusions , maybe it's a case they want to but daren't lol but since then they have stopped talking to us , no worries on that score |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My brother in law does as he contacted us saying sorry you are out if our age range as he wanted us to meet. We strung him along for hours until we invited him as a friend then he saw the face pics lol "
that would have been as funny as fuck lol bet it left him gobsmacked too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex friend knew and when I told her she stopped talking to me"
You'd like to think a true friend wouldn't be so judgmental. I have a friend who I'm sure would react the exact same way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex friend knew and when I told her she stopped talking to me
You'd like to think a true friend wouldn't be so judgmental. I have a friend who I'm sure would react the exact same way!"
exactly right true friends would accept you for whatever you are or do |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
My close circle of friends know, one of them is my safety text bud, a couple of other friends know and my work colleague came right out and asked me so I told him yes I was - not particularly bothered who knows, but don't discuss it in anything other than vague detail when I've been asked about clubs and parties. My parents think I "date" a lot and are aware it's folk I meet off t'interweb, I'm not gonna disabuse them of the fact that it's a swingers site rather than match dot com |
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"The adverts without face pictures on would say that most people like to keep it private I think most people would be shocked knowing but also a little jealous that there not or dare not join"
Don't get the jealous bit. The site is open to all. I think because we're promiscuous every one else should be too. Believe it or not this type of site turns the stomachs of some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"4 of our friends know we swing. We decided to tell them as we knew they wasn't going to be judgemental.
We don't like telling porkies to those who don't know when they ask us what we have been up to/where have we been this weekend etc... but we think its best some don't know.
When you told them, did they think that you were fair game after that. I can imagine some people thinking that.
Fair game? Do you mean easy or "good on you" by that? "
Some of my male friends would probably think my wife was fair game if they knew. They would likely think "if you fuck strangers, why not me." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No,I don't have any interest in their sex life so wouldn't feel the need to tell them about mine and I wouldn't fuck a friend either,I make friends out of swingers,not swingers out of friends
This "
Perfectly put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just have a friend who knows I'm a swinger. He'll never be a swinger, has no desire to even think about it and I have no desire to make him one.
I think I'll permit myself a friend I can tell everything to, even though we're opposite genders. |
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"4 of our friends know we swing. We decided to tell them as we knew they wasn't going to be judgemental.
We don't like telling porkies to those who don't know when they ask us what we have been up to/where have we been this weekend etc... but we think its best some don't know.
When you told them, did they think that you were fair game after that. I can imagine some people thinking that.
Fair game? Do you mean easy or "good on you" by that?
Some of my male friends would probably think my wife was fair game if they knew. They would likely think "if you fuck strangers, why not me.""
Our 2 male friends that we told are a gay couple so no chance of that.
The people we chose to tell are not judgemental. We wouldn't have told them if we thought for one minute they would have had made any issues about it. Its all good and works for us.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My close circle knows I swing, they enjoy the stories. I wouldn't tell anyone outside of that close circle. I have some friends who are into bdsm fetish and they seem to make it public knowledge, that I don't understand! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The adverts without face pictures on would say that most people like to keep it private I think most people would be shocked knowing but also a little jealous that there not or dare not join
Don't get the jealous bit. The site is open to all. I think because we're promiscuous every one else should be too. Believe it or not this type of site turns the stomachs of some. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few vanilla friends do,and my ex does x but otherwise im just a normal single mum havent got im a swinger tatoo x "
What a brilliant idea lets all get tattoo's with the phrase I'm a swinger lmao it would be like having the plague haha |
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A few of the guys I work with have started making comments about me being a swinger, but I neither confirm or deny it.
It's much more fun just stringing them on and letting their imagination do the rest.
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I have two female friends who know, one of whom has been to Chams with me.
My other vertical (copyright: Femme Fatale) friends know I have a healthy sex life with friends. It's no shock to them at all as they know I have been single for 26 years and most are a little envious. |
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By *issLissCouple
over a year ago
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Everyone who knows me knows what I'm like... My family, friends, work colleagues know I don't think sex should be a taboo subject and talk about it freely. Saying that when it comes to the swinging world I'm pretty tame so there isn't that much to tell!! Lol
Id say the only people I don't talk about it with is my kids, their dad and his family but again they know what I'm like we just don't mention it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"things is we don't advertise we swing nor gives signs we do around Quote normal friends so we don't know why they have jumped to conclusions , maybe it's a case they want to but daren't lol but since then they have stopped talking to us , no worries on that score "
Perhaps they have/had a profile on here? Saw you and had a panic attack!!! Deflecting is often a sign of guilt!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any of them who cared to ask we'd tell, we were never ashamed of what we did.
If any were judgemental about it or badmouthed us because of it then they weren't the friends we thought them to be, however none of them have proved to be so.
For the most part they're very interested and inquisitive about it.....especially the women.
Swingers often remain clandestine because they say that swinging isn't seen as acceptable by society, well neither was being gay until people started to be honest, open and stand up for the lifestyle they believed in.
Perhaps swingers should take the same attitude! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any of them who cared to ask we'd tell, we were never ashamed of what we did.
If any were judgemental about it or badmouthed us because of it then they weren't the friends we thought them to be, however none of them have proved to be so.
For the most part they're very interested and inquisitive about it.....especially the women.
Swingers often remain clandestine because they say that swinging isn't seen as acceptable by society, well neither was being gay until people started to be honest, open and stand up for the lifestyle they believed in.
Perhaps swingers should take the same attitude!
XXXX"
I'd wear that badge,, my life is not shameful, I'm just free spirited & horny as a bag of horny things, what my friends are pleased to know that I'm not endangering my health or others,x, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of my freinds no ....I have made a few freinds in this 'life' ...but on a monday morning it a bit depressing as noone to tell about the awesome fun I got upto over the weekend ) ...that is the only flaw :/
Everyone thinks I stay home doing notalot !! Lol |
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they'd have a blue fit. One of my closest friends calls me the naughty sexy one 
