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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depending on opening comments, I do the same. Also will wind up if I get a stupid message. Sorry if anyone thinks that is wrong but if people think they can send or say whatever they like, I can too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, we've never ever ever done this

crystal

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"Depending on opening comments, I do the same. Also will wind up if I get a stupid message. Sorry if anyone thinks that is wrong but if people think they can send or say whatever they like, I can too

for sure, i have had some great wind ups this morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no ."

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet."

It clearly states on our profile that we dont meet single men at all so its fair game as far as i am concerned.

If they cant be bothered to read or ignore and try anyway. i will give them the run around just for fun

I am aloud to have fun arnt i

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet."

If somebody isn't bright enough to figure out a couple's profile that is active in chat could be either the male half or the female half sat at the other side of the Internet and addresses their message to the female only then they're fair game in my opinion.

For example, if 2wheels is perving in the chat rooms and somebody comments 'nice ass, I would love to rim it', is he not entitled to politely say 'thank you, I work hard to keep it looking this lovely. Tell me, whilst your rimming my ass, would you mind nibbling my balls and stroking my cock?!!!'

crystal

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

A guy messaged me this morning asking if he could fuck me hard.

I told him i was a bit of a size queen and i would need to see what he had.

Once he was wanking away and telling me how he was going to ruin me.

I told him i was the male, i was working at a taxi firm and 11 drivers were watching him wanking and pissing themselves laughing.

I've never seen a cock disappear so fast.In my _iew a deserved wind up

That was funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

It clearly states on our profile that we dont meet single men at all so its fair game as far as i am concerned.

If they cant be bothered to read or ignore and try anyway. i will give them the run around just for fun

I am aloud to have fun arnt i"

You're allowed to have fun.

Just I'd think you'd have better things to do while on site, that's all.

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

It clearly states on our profile that we dont meet single men at all so its fair game as far as i am concerned.

If they cant be bothered to read or ignore and try anyway. i will give them the run around just for fun

I am aloud to have fun arnt i

You're allowed to have fun.

Just I'd think you'd have better things to do while on site, that's all.

I have to say that it is my business how i spend my time on the site, as long as i am breaking no rules it my choice.

Perhaps you would like to apply for a forum police job

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet."

Oh come on, these people that send the stupid etc messages are not going to get a meet.they are getting a reply and it might make them realise what they are doing wrong and eventually help. So, I'm doing a service really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

It clearly states on our profile that we dont meet single men at all so its fair game as far as i am concerned.

If they cant be bothered to read or ignore and try anyway. i will give them the run around just for fun

I am aloud to have fun arnt i

You're allowed to have fun.

Just I'd think you'd have better things to do while on site, that's all.

I have to say that it is my business how i spend my time on the site, as long as i am breaking no rules it my choice.

Perhaps you would like to apply for a forum police job"

I didn't ask you to stop nor would I try stopping you. You asked the question, I gave my opinion. Apologies if my statement offended but I'm not breaking rules by making it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

Hehe. Keep telling yourself that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do profile pics show in the chat rooms? As most couples have a pic of the woman as their pp I wouldn't be surprised men are confused

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"Do profile pics show in the chat rooms? As most couples have a pic of the woman as their pp I wouldn't be surprised men are confused "

Its not rocket science is it, if a single bloke messages and asks who is chatting i will tell them, if they assume its the female thet will get the wind up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A guy messaged me this morning asking if he could fuck me hard.

I told him i was a bit of a size queen and i would need to see what he had.

Once he was wanking away and telling me how he was going to ruin me.

I told him i was the male, i was working at a taxi firm and 11 drivers were watching him wanking and pissing themselves laughing.

I've never seen a cock disappear so fast.In my _iew a deserved wind up

That was funny"

Actually have to say i think thats a pretty meant thing to do ! How do you know he isnt a nice guy etc and you have now scared him of cam or fab for that matter ??

Having a bit of fun or banter is one thing but being mean and winding people up on the basis of sexual gratification is just mean IMO.

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"A guy messaged me this morning asking if he could fuck me hard.

I told him i was a bit of a size queen and i would need to see what he had.

Once he was wanking away and telling me how he was going to ruin me.

I told him i was the male, i was working at a taxi firm and 11 drivers were watching him wanking and pissing themselves laughing.

I've never seen a cock disappear so fast.In my _iew a deserved wind up

That was funny

Actually have to say i think thats a pretty meant thing to do ! How do you know he isnt a nice guy etc and you have now scared him of cam or fab for that matter ??

Having a bit of fun or banter is one thing but being mean and winding people up on the basis of sexual gratification is just mean IMO. "

Its certainly not for my sexual gratification, its not my problem that he was letting his balls rule his brains

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to say that if someone has read or understood your profile (no single men) then they deserve it.

If you did see single guys and they haven't directed their question to the lady - then, again, they deserve it.

Sorry if this offends anyone - just my own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

Hehe. Keep telling yourself that!

I listen to the voices in my head all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So to get this straight, because a guy may or may not of read the profile they are fair game to wind up , take the piss out of etc ??

Nice ethos and outlook !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no .

I don't see the point wasting your time and theirs. Both parties could be talking to people they genuinely want to meet.

Hehe. Keep telling yourself that!

I listen to the voices in my head all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So to get this straight, because a guy may or may not of read the profile they are fair game to wind up , take the piss out of etc ??

Nice ethos and outlook !

NO, the ones that send stupid messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So to get this straight, because a guy may or may not of read the profile they are fair game to wind up , take the piss out of etc ??

Nice ethos and outlook !

NO, the ones that send stupid messages

So just delete , block move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So to get this straight, because a guy may or may not of read the profile they are fair game to wind up , take the piss out of etc ??

Nice ethos and outlook !

NO, the ones that send stupid messages

So just delete , block move on

Nope, rather have some fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If Some one else had posted this thread they would have got a huge flogging

Still think it's very wrong and childish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If Some one else had posted this thread they would have got a huge flogging

Still think it's very wrong and childish "

Might be a bit childish but can't see how it's wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't really think that's very fair to be honest no ."

I concur....it sounds quite sad.

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"If Some one else had posted this thread they would have got a huge flogging

Still think it's very wrong and childish "

Not sure what you mean by if someone else had posted, please explain.

I'm not childish, just in touch with my inner child

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If Some one else had posted this thread they would have got a huge flogging

Still think it's very wrong and childish

Not sure what you mean by if someone else had posted, please explain.

I'm not childish, just in touch with my inner child"

Fair enough

But don't do it at the expense of others

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone "

choice, if i want to chat i can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If Some one else had posted this thread they would have got a huge flogging

Still think it's very wrong and childish

Not sure what you mean by if someone else had posted, please explain.

I'm not childish, just in touch with my inner child"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a single woman did the same thing would the reaction be the same?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can"

Well I certainly hope the people reported you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you "

+1 this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a single woman did the same thing would the reaction be the same? "

? ? ?

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you "

excuse me mod, i have just offered to ruin someones mrs thinking it was her without bothering to ask, there profile does say no single men but i didn't bother to read it before i preceded to offer my suggestions on how i was going to do her good style. then after i got my willy out and started to play with it

the she turned out to be a he.

please help me as i feel very embarrassed by my lack of respect and clarity.

Grow up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you

the she turned out to be a he.

please help me as i feel very embarrassed by my lack of respect and clarity.

Grow up

If you dont meet or chat to single men why did you not just close the chat window ??

Because instead you thought it would be funny to wind the guy up ! Perhaps secretly you wanted to see him playing with himself ??

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

"Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

I would do exactly the same, if they can't be bothered to ask and always assume that the female of a couple is online, their mistake…… I bet you have a great laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you

the she turned out to be a he.

please help me as i feel very embarrassed by my lack of respect and clarity.

Grow up

Wow...

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple over a year ago

Bloxham

Think the trouble is single men's opening line is can I fuck you meaning the woman of the couple as everyone says not many people read profiles ? Would you walk up to someone In the street with that line ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

Why not name them so we all know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think the trouble is single men's opening line is can I fuck you meaning the woman of the couple as everyone says not many people read profiles ? Would you walk up to someone In the street with that line ? "

The wife must be out shopping

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you

the she turned out to be a he.

please help me as i feel very embarrassed by my lack of respect and clarity.

Grow up

If you dont meet or chat to single men why did you not just close the chat window ??

Because instead you thought it would be funny to wind the guy up ! Perhaps secretly you wanted to see him playing with himself ??"

Yep you got me, i just want to watch men wanking. if you visit the chat rooms you will know they are full of wankers.

In response to wanting to wind him up, bang on and i will continue to do so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

Why would they think your single if your on a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you

the she turned out to be a he.

please help me as i feel very embarrassed by my lack of respect and clarity.

Grow up

Wow..."

Wow indeed love immature online bullying don't you

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

The wife must be out shopping "

Why have you come home and shes not there.

As for my wife, she is now sat laughing at this thread with me.

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"I wouldn't do it. But if I was on here as a couple I wouldn't be in the chat room alone

choice, if i want to chat i can

Well I certainly hope the people reported you

the she turned out to be a he.

please help me as i feel very embarrassed by my lack of respect and clarity.

Grow up

Wow...

Wow indeed love immature online bullying don't you"

wow indeed, i did feel bullied by this man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't walk about in lingerie or my tits hanging out in public but I do on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A guy messaged me this morning asking if he could fuck me hard.

I told him i was a bit of a size queen and i would need to see what he had.

Once he was wanking away and telling me how he was going to ruin me.

I told him i was the male, i was working at a taxi firm and 11 drivers were watching him wanking and pissing themselves laughing.

I've never seen a cock disappear so fast.In my _iew a deserved wind up

That was funny"

I wonder how everyone would feel if a single guy did that to a woman ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think someone needs to grow up and get out more

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"I think someone needs to grow up and get out more

Well done, good input

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A guy messaged me this morning asking if he could fuck me hard.

I told him i was a bit of a size queen and i would need to see what he had.

Once he was wanking away and telling me how he was going to ruin me.

I told him i was the male, i was working at a taxi firm and 11 drivers were watching him wanking and pissing themselves laughing.

I've never seen a cock disappear so fast.In my _iew a deserved wind up

That was funny

I wonder how everyone would feel if a single guy did that to a woman ?

that's what I said. But it would be the female of the couple doing it not the male. If I saw a pic of a cock on a pp I'd comment on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

You sound like one of those blokes who is not allowed his own facebook page

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

You sound like one of those blokes who is not allowed his own facebook page"

Sorry, dont get it, what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So to get this straight, because a guy may or may not of read the profile they are fair game to wind up , take the piss out of etc ??

Nice ethos and outlook !

NO, the ones that send stupid messages

So just delete , block move on

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By *lPulpoCouple over a year ago

St Albans

In general, I'd like to think that people on fabswingers would treat other users with respect, regardless of their behaviour.

to me, the whole ethos of swinging is for people to explore themselves and their potential, without the pressures of society's mores. Therefore, it is acceptable to point out to someone that you do not appreciate the way he, or she is messaging you, in a constructive and sensitive way.

It should not be acceptable to ridicule someone, just because the opportunity presents itself. To use the "He was asking for it!" excuse does not stand up to even the most cursory scrutiny.

In short. Be goo to people and we'll have a good community. Be shitty to people and we'll have a shitty community. Which one do you want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In general, I'd like to think that people on fabswingers would treat other users with respect, regardless of their behaviour.

It should not be acceptable to ridicule someone, just because the opportunity presents itself. To use the "He was asking for it!" excuse does not stand up to even the most cursory scrutiny.

In short. Be goo to people and we'll have a good community. Be shitty to people and we'll have a shitty community. Which one do you want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In general, I'd like to think that people on fabswingers would treat other users with respect, regardless of their behaviour.

It should not be acceptable to ridicule someone, just because the opportunity presents itself. To use the "He was asking for it!" excuse does not stand up to even the most cursory scrutiny.

In short. Be goo to people and we'll have a good community. Be shitty to people and we'll have a shitty community. Which one do you want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg x lifes too short for all this angst x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Life's to short to be taken to seriously

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

I think you know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I just don't see the point in winding people up just to laugh at them, complete waste of time & energy

It's true that people don't read profiles which is a tad annoying, I know all about that as a single female, just delete.

Looking at it from another way on an MF profile the majority of the time it's a picture of the F which probably leads to the assumption that's it's the female online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Every time i am in chat and perving around, i get bombarded with private messages from single men assuming i am the female on my own.

I just have to wind them up, am i wrong to to this?

they are so gullible and it is fun

"
..Love it

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By *randmrsfreaky OP Couple over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"Life's to short to be taken to seriously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

our profile asks for all messages to be addressed to us both & adds if addressed to just one of us the message will be deleted. We almost always sign which one of us replying. That said yes it is bloody annoying when messages come through like that & you have a funny way of dealing with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In general, I'd like to think that people on fabswingers would treat other users with respect, regardless of their behaviour.

It should not be acceptable to ridicule someone, just because the opportunity presents itself. To use the "He was asking for it!" excuse does not stand up to even the most cursory scrutiny.

In short. Be goo to people and we'll have a good community. Be shitty to people and we'll have a shitty community. Which one do you want?

+1 this

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By *uslaffMan over a year ago

manchester

"our profile asks for all messages to be addressed to us both & adds if addressed to just one of us the message will be deleted. We almost always sign which one of us replying. That said yes it is bloody annoying when messages come through like that & you have a funny way of dealing with them"

Who wrote that ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In general, I'd like to think that people on fabswingers would treat other users with respect, regardless of their behaviour.

It should not be acceptable to ridicule someone, just because the opportunity presents itself. To use the "He was asking for it!" excuse does not stand up to even the most cursory scrutiny.

In short. Be goo to people and we'll have a good community. Be shitty to people and we'll have a shitty community. Which one do you wan

Well said

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