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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if we email a Cpl or single then we send a face pic of us both and ok I'm not brad pit and if that's what they want then tough luck , we all know the ladies are main reason this site works. there's nothing worse than not getting a pic of the bloke from the cpls perspective . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by "
Problem solved then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does the bloke go along as a puppet then and what happens if he is not liked once there how embarrassing, silly to themselves.
I send on our face pics, if we are not liked its oh well lol.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by
Problem solved then"
Indeed
Still won't stop me from having a rant tho  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does the bloke go along as a puppet then and what happens if he is not liked once there how embarrassing, silly to themselves.
I send on our face pics, if we are not liked its oh well lol.
Her"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by
Problem solved then
Indeed
Still won't stop me from having a rant tho "
But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by
Problem solved then
Indeed
Still won't stop me from having a rant tho
But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them "
I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pics of us both but the Mrs is far more photogenic than me, hence having more pics
Still I think our pics give a good insight into how we look body-type wise
Obviously face pics are on friends only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by
Problem solved then
Indeed
Still won't stop me from having a rant tho
But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them
I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile "
I did see that,of course I saw that,but at the end of the day,they,as a couple,didn't have what you were looking for,so you passed them by,so why the need to highlight something that didn't suit your needs?
Actually don't answer that,you made your point,I made ours |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by
Problem solved then
Indeed
Still won't stop me from having a rant tho
But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them
I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile
I did see that,of course I saw that,but at the end of the day,they,as a couple,didn't have what you were looking for,so you passed them by,so why the need to highlight something that didn't suit your needs?
Actually don't answer that,you made your point,I made ours"
Think I'll answer that thanks unless you are the forum police? No, ok great well this is a forum where people discuss matters on fab where it's a like or dislike
Hope that's an ok explanation for u xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly some couples don't mind 'taking one for the team' not doing that to my mrs thanks "
Or the profiles with pics of so many different people you can't tell who the heck is supposed to be the couple in the profile.  |
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will I change anything ,,,,, nope ,,, why , because we do our meeting at clubs were folks can get to know us for who we are and not what they think we might be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then pass by the ones that don't have the pics you want to see,it's not rocket science
I don't remember saying we didn't pass them by
Problem solved then
Indeed
Still won't stop me from having a rant tho
But that's my point,why rant about other people's profile.if they aren't what you are looking for,you are unlikely to want to meet them
I don't quite think u read my thread? Maybe a lil too keen to hit the reply button if you noticed I said they messeged US and sent pics to US don't think that's quite the same as ranting about there profile
I did see that,of course I saw that,but at the end of the day,they,as a couple,didn't have what you were looking for,so you passed them by,so why the need to highlight something that didn't suit your needs?
Actually don't answer that,you made your point,I made ours
Think I'll answer that thanks unless you are the forum police? No, ok great well this is a forum where people discuss matters on fab where it's a like or dislike
Hope that's an ok explanation for u xxxx"
I'm too tired,and bored now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"will I change anything ,,,,, nope ,,, why , because we do our meeting at clubs were folks can get to know us for who we are and not what they think we might be "
And that's great and who is anyone to tell you otherwise but our gripe was a couple asked us to meet as a 4sum but only showed us one half so how can we answer there proposal when we have no idea what the other half looks like (and that does matter to us) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right "
After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right
After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy? "
Nope as we know what would of happened |
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"will I change anything ,,,,, nope ,,, why , because we do our meeting at clubs were folks can get to know us for who we are and not what they think we might be
And that's great and who is anyone to tell you otherwise but our gripe was a couple asked us to meet as a 4sum but only showed us one half so how can we answer there proposal when we have no idea what the other half looks like (and that does matter to us) "
and if I was in your situation i would carry on walking by ,,,,, I was just trying to put another angle on it , I know that im not every ones cup of tea and my best chance in this lifestyle is to meet face to face so others can judge me for who I really am ,
but I will say one thing , to succeed in this lifestyle I think you need to have a thick skin , dont believe everything your told and have a sense of humour when things go tits up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right
After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy?
Nope as we know what would of happened "
awwww you never know - we always ask often we get them - if you dont ask you dont get - we say we show them both of us and if they say no thanks we never know which one of us put them off - makes us laugh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is it with couples messeging asking to meet up as a 4sum but then only sending pics of the mrs with the messege?? Yh ok she's hot so don't matter what mr is like right
After they sent just pics of her, did you ask them to send a pic of the guy?
Nope as we know what would of happened
awwww you never know - we always ask often we get them - if you dont ask you dont get - we say we show them both of us and if they say no thanks we never know which one of us put them off - makes us laugh "
I suppose but there's just no point we've asked in the past and from past experience there's a reason they only sent the female half |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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If we started a thread every time someone messaged us and it wasn't what we were looking for or would ideally like in a first message - there'd be more of those threads than the BBW/bareback/kiss, fuck, avoid/why can't I get any meets/why do all these rude people not reply/happy birthday/good morning (you get my drift) threads combined!!
It happens. Always will. Best thing to do is say no thanks, ignore - or if after checking the profile you still feel you may be interested - ask for the missing pics of the other half.
It's the only chance of a positive outcome. Otherwise - just move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!
My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?
I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.
I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.
Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?
The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!
My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?
I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.
I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.
Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?
The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start."
All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'
Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!
My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?
I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.
I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.
Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?
The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.
All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'
Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would! "
Yes & also plenty willing to take one for the team lol
Still like others have said just move on its not worth the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've just added to our profile a little note at the end saying "pics of the guys please" in our experience if there's no guy pics on the profile then there must be a reason for it! "
Great pics btw 
Think we may do the same lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!
My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?
I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.
I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.
Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?
The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.
All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'
Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would! "
my fella would totally agree with you - he has rejected many because he thinks the guy isnt suitable for me , its not a massive issue for us as we play mainly with fems , the couples are really special of which we have one we will meet again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We found it irritating to have to ask for the missing pics but now we've been on here a while we just block & move on!
My question is how does the man feel before a meet knowing that nobody knows what he looks like ?
I'd be feeling worried that the other fem might not be attracted but might be playing anyway just because she's under pressure.
I'd also be worried they'd just get up & leave which could be embarrassing but my own fault for putting myself in that position.
Maybe they don't give a shit or just think there wife is so hot it compensates ?
The other thing is it doesn't feel very honest from the start.
All very good points but the point about the hot wife compensating is so true I can imagine there thoughts 'hey my wife is hot, once the mr see's her he'll make his mrs meet regardless of what I look like'
Well not this mr! The shame is I'm guessing there are ppl who would!
my fella would totally agree with you - he has rejected many because he thinks the guy isnt suitable for me , its not a massive issue for us as we play mainly with fems , the couples are really special of which we have one we will meet again "
I couldn't agree more |
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