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Meets , how often
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can we ask over a period of a year how many times people meet others for sex be interesting to know just how many times people choose to meet others for sex as I suppose everyone is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not an exact science but we meet maybe once a month,sometimes could be more if theres lots of exciting things going on at the same time,sometimes less if we're busy with real life  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have met but not for play as yet just social and wondering how much people use this site to meet others over a year interesting to hear everyone's different opinions and how often they meet others as we're learning lots asking questions and hearing other people's ideas couples and singles , we also think guys who are married and cheating on here are the lowest scum because we have met and chatted to loads of really nice people too |
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We go to a club most weekends, not with the expectations of playing, we quite often don't, but to see our friends, chat with other swingers and just generally have a night out. Some times we don't play with anyone, other times we may play with a few people. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We don't have a set quota that we try and fill. It can vary from 1 a month to 1 or 2 meets in a year. Just depends on how much free time we have and if there is anyone that we want to meet.
At the moment it's quiet for us as we just don't seem to have any spare free time. Which is typical as there are a few people that we want to meet....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My years on here have been different. If I'm in the mood I will meet as many men per week as I have offers. Assuming we have a mutual attraction. Sometimes I don't want anyone and have a break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Twice a week , so just over 100 times a year  "
Although we are currently on a two week break , which we do every few months , so make that 80 times a year .
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When ever it takes our fancy .when we first started it was every week but as time went buy we got more picky and real life got in the way, it was then down to once a month .but we have only played once since xmas .family and work take priority .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When ever it takes our fancy .when we first started it was every week but as time went buy we got more picky and real life got in the way, it was then down to once a month .but we have only played once since xmas .family and work take priority . "
We are very picky that's what we're still virgins  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once or twice a year. We're rubbish swingers, but it suits us  "
no youre not - you do what you want - we could meet more but like our time together - weve not had many meets in 18 months and find they happen in waves - then nothing for a while - but it doesnt matter - its an extra bit of fun for us thats all xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once or twice a year. We're rubbish swingers, but it suits us
no youre not - you do what you want - we could meet more but like our time together - weve not had many meets in 18 months and find they happen in waves - then nothing for a while - but it doesnt matter - its an extra bit of fun for us thats all xxx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It varies on how busy our work/home life is but as a average I guess maybe once a fortnight, although some months none others maybe twice in a week. "
Same here |
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"We have met but not for play as yet just social and wondering how much people use this site to meet others over a year interesting to hear everyone's different opinions and how often they meet others as we're learning lots asking questions and hearing other people's ideas couples and singles , we also think guys who are married and cheating on here are the lowest scum because we have met and chatted to loads of really nice people too "
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and the married cheating women?
They are .... ????? Ok ?
The marrieds may be really nice people but they may be very unhappy in a relationship.
Many have very different sex drives.
If in a relationship where sex only happens once every 6 months but everything else is great how would you feel?
I have been there done that , never cheated and left first but think anyone that has climbed the walls in frustration would understand why some people do. Are they all scum for wanting some adult fun and sexual fulfilment? No.
Wanting to meet and getting a meet are also very different lol.
My last fab meet was nearly 8 months ago .
I have many regular online chat friends here but the geography often means they remain just that.
Have a great day everyone . All here for different reasons. Love to you all however you decide to use fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have met but not for play as yet just social and wondering how much people use this site to meet others over a year interesting to hear everyone's different opinions and how often they meet others as we're learning lots asking questions and hearing other people's ideas couples and singles , we also think guys who are married and cheating on here are the lowest scum because we have met and chatted to loads of really nice people too
OP
and the married cheating women?
They are .... ????? Ok ?
The marrieds may be really nice people but they may be very unhappy in a relationship.
Many have very different sex drives.
If in a relationship where sex only happens once every 6 months but everything else is great how would you feel?
I have been there done that , never cheated and left first but think anyone that has climbed the walls in frustration would understand why some people do. Are they all scum for wanting some adult fun and sexual fulfilment? No.
Wanting to meet and getting a meet are also very different lol.
My last fab meet was nearly 8 months ago .
I have many regular online chat friends here but the geography often means they remain just that.
Have a great day everyone . All here for different reasons. Love to you all however you decide to use fab.
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can agree with your sentiment, and kudos to you for not going the way of the arsehole lol, but lets be honest.
if you are married and 'climbing the walls with frustration' and register on a site looking to have illicit liasons with strangers, then arguably, your discussion falls short |
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"We have met but not for play as yet just social and wondering how much people use this site to meet others over a year interesting to hear everyone's different opinions and how often they meet others as we're learning lots asking questions and hearing other people's ideas couples and singles , we also think guys who are married and cheating on here are the lowest scum because we have met and chatted to loads of really nice people too
OP
and the married cheating women?
They are .... ????? Ok ?
The marrieds may be really nice people but they may be very unhappy in a relationship.
Many have very different sex drives.
If in a relationship where sex only happens once every 6 months but everything else is great how would you feel?
I have been there done that , never cheated and left first but think anyone that has climbed the walls in frustration would understand why some people do. Are they all scum for wanting some adult fun and sexual fulfilment? No.
Wanting to meet and getting a meet are also very different lol.
My last fab meet was nearly 8 months ago .
I have many regular online chat friends here but the geography often means they remain just that.
Have a great day everyone . All here for different reasons. Love to you all however you decide to use fab.
can agree with your sentiment, and kudos to you for not going the way of the arsehole lol, but lets be honest.
if you are married and 'climbing the walls with frustration' and register on a site looking to have illicit liasons with strangers, then arguably, your discussion falls short"
I wouldnt know . I never did that
All I know is that I wanted it to work but sometimes even the dead horse flogger fails lol.
I am not married.
However in the situation I was in I wonder how many would accept the wife or husband saying twice a year is getting a bit too regular ??
Soldiers and games spring to mind......
I left many dont as they have kids etc. I didnt ( obviously lol).
No she wasnt b4 u ask just a low libido.
Lovely person though.
Anyhow I guess moving on is the right thing .
I guess OP has possibly suffered directly or indirectly a cheating guy and have to agree thats shitty but its life.
Cheats play away for a reason.
Perhaps its because they havent asked their wife or gf if they want to join fab for fun together which many of us love to do
Whilst I am now single ive been here on fab as a couple too .
I guess your reply was general and im not really trying to justify myself lol. Im very happy with my situation and as always love to you all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We look for every other weekend to play on a Friday and Saturday , and social the other Saturday.
Doesn't always work out that way seems most people stay in at weekend. With their wives |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for that seems we are all different and want different things at different times and have different desires which is what makes the world go round , be very boring if we were all the same though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0 meets so far lol 
You've been on 2 weeks!  this isn't instashag or dial-a-shag you know  "
thank you so much for clarifying that to me.... Fuking hell who let you off ya lead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0 meets so far lol
You've been on 2 weeks! this isn't instashag or dial-a-shag you know
thank you so much for clarifying that to me.... Fuking hell who let you off ya lead!"
not a problem, but no need to swear at me!!!!!!!!!!!!  you do know it can be ages till you get a veri/meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went a bit silly when I first arrived at the site and suffered a sort of 'burn out'.
Lately I haven't had a lot of meets and am now suffering 'withdrawal' and missing the playing.
There is a happy medium to be found! I just need to find it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My years on here have been different. If I'm in the mood I will meet as many men per week as I have offers. Assuming we have a mutual attraction. Sometimes I don't want anyone and have a break "
same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0 meets so far lol
You've been on 2 weeks! this isn't instashag or dial-a-shag you know
thank you so much for clarifying that to me.... Fuking hell who let you off ya lead!
not a problem, but no need to swear at me!!!!!!!!!!!! you do know it can be ages till you get a veri/meet?"
Sorry thought you was taking the piss.. but yeah ino I'm enjoying the banter at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When ever I feel the need.
Generally I get far more offers of meets than I actually want or can meet.
Sometimes I may meet 3 or 4 times a month or I can go 3 or 4 months with no meets, depends how real life allows |
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