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Site behaviour vs Outside world.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've been a member of fab for about 5 months and I've noticed that due to the ratios of men vs women , it appears that women are able to "punch well above there weight" on here versus who they normally could attract in the outside world .

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

some men, some women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So all the unfortunate looking women on here are getting to Shag good looking guys. WTF are the guys that desperate then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where's tina with her forum insurance x

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet men who message me and interest me. If they are hot then all the better, and I really hope they're not just throwing one in me to empty their balls. Saying that, as long as we are both happy, who cares?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i wouldnt sleep with anyone on here that i wouldnt if i meet them on a night out, my standards most deffinatly havent lowered, i'm premiscuous not desperate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I meet men who message me and interest me. If they are hot then all the better, and I really hope they're not just throwing one in me to empty their balls. Saying that, as long as we are both happy, who cares?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who cares not us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been a member of fab for about 5 months and I've noticed that due to the ratios of men vs women , it appears that women are able to "punch well above there weight" on here versus who they normally could attract in the outside world .

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

I agree, get ready for the onslaught mate

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

And your point is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men, some women."

Posts like this give me the impression the posters are arrogant or jealous.

I punch here as I do in the real world, so to speak.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"some men, some women.

Posts like this give me the impression the posters are arrogant or jealous.

I punch here as I do in the real world, so to speak."

Quick jab or uppercut?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Brave post. Like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

I agree, get ready for the onslaught mate "

What is it I just posted?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

wish i knew where all these good looking desperate men were that i keep hearing about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men, some women.

Posts like this give me the impression the posters are arrogant or jealous.

I punch here as I do in the real world, so to speak.

Quick jab or uppercut?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"wish i knew where all these good looking desperate men were that i keep hearing about.

Me too. They're not stampeding towards me anyway. Perhaps they've lowered their standards just a bit below me.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

WTF !!! How can you possibly make such a statement without knowing who people have dated on the outside .people generally need to be physically attracted to each other to say someone is punching above or below their weight is just pain daft !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

I agree, get ready for the onslaught mate

What is it I just posted?

I don't know, I cba reading it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my punches here are exactly equal to those outside of fab. sometimes there is mutual attraction, sometimes there isn't. i don't only go on looks/body size, but take the person as a whole. if there is something there that makes me attracted to them, then i will get wet and it's game on. if there is no attraction, i can't get wet. i refuse to resort to lube, so no play. it's very simple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get a lot of attention from men and women on this site, more so than outside, but I think this is due to the increase in my confidence, which only increases as a direct result of the masses of male attention...welcome or not...its all confidence bulding!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

FYI in my generic dating experience, men (no matter what league they're in) have the confidence or mere gumption to approach any woman they want, for whatever reason they want and that includes full balls (and fur balls, as I initially read it

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"wish i knew where all these good looking desperate men were that i keep hearing about.

Me too. They're not stampeding towards me anyway. Perhaps they've lowered their standards just a bit below me.

Or maybe they live too far away

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By *r mrs pCouple over a year ago

taunton

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

First time we have agreed with you lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I get a lot of attention from men and women on this site, more so than outside, but I think this is due to the increase in my confidence, which only increases as a direct result of the masses of male attention...welcome or not...its all confidence bulding!

I'm not surprised you get lots of attention. I fabbed a pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"wish i knew where all these good looking desperate men were that i keep hearing about.

Me too. They're not stampeding towards me anyway. Perhaps they've lowered their standards just a bit below me.

Me too.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen"

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well in that case I'm extremely grateful to all those guys that are lowering their standards to fuck me. Seriously. Thank you fab!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'Supply and demand' as many people parrot. There is truth in the OP's statement, it might not be comfortable for people to read of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course."

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

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By *affy72Woman over a year ago

Herefordshire

That is so true... I'm sure some men look in the mirror and see Brad Pitt!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That is so true... I'm sure some men look in the mirror and see Brad Pitt!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"'Supply and demand' as many people parrot. There is truth in the OP's statement, it might not be comfortable for people to read of course.

I agree I think its a fair comment and well done for having the balls to post it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I punch higher than in real world , but that the internet not just fabs . In a club I wouldn't have the guts to walk up to a fit guy and start chatting . On here it's easyer . I don't know if it's punching above my wight as I don't know if I had the guy to talk to guys in clubs they would turn me down or not

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Funnily enough I get the same gorgeous young men on here as I do on dating sites - and sometimes EXACTLY the same ones - even guys I have met before approach me without realising it's me, which is a scream!

I think a lot of men just find more women sexually attractive than they would care to admit down the pub maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact "

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men, some women.

Posts like this give me the impression the posters are arrogant or jealous.

I punch here as I do in the real world, so to speak."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact "

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?"

It sounds to me like he begrudges some women on here having fun, only the ones he deems beneath him of course lolol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

I think you are generalising too far. Of course this happens in a few cases but not in general. Generally both parties want to find the other person attractive, physically as well as socially. Personally I don't believe I have approached anyone out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I only fuck people I'm attracted to, inside or outside of fab.

What one finds attractive, another will disagree with.

I think it's true that due to the ratio that women simply have more choice but who they find attractive is down to personal choice.

I've been approached by men who want to fuck me and don't even know what I look like. I'll happily chat but I ain't dropping my trollies just because someone has the horn and needs a hole!

I've never yet met a woman who didn't want to discover if there was mutual attraction first.

If there is no attraction, then I'm leaving my coat on sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Goes to show what most of us know, SOME men are just desperate for a Shag and obviously don't look at the mantlepiece while stoking the fire. And SOME women like a desperate man

Knock yourself out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always thought that.

This actually wasn't what I was expecting when I clicked on the thread title. I thought you were going to say what I've been thinking for quite some time now - that if people behaved towards each other in real life (i.e. face to face) as they treat each other on here, then there would be all out WARFARE.

I'm also afraid to say that due to the extremely skewed gender distribution, the overwhelming number of single guys on here would annihilate seventy-seven shades of shit out of the couples/fems of Fab and then burn the dismembered remains. Quite possibly then doing some very phallocentric, homoerotic victory dance with each other, before proceeding to bugger each other around the campfire, having previously lost the option of female flesh.

Just saying.....

Treat each other nicely people. Good manners, politeness, playing nice and observing all the rules of social engagement as you would in real life. Otherwise you could end up as pre-sodomy BBQ!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in that case I'm extremely grateful to all those guys that are lowering their standards to fuck me. Seriously. Thank you fab!"

Bless they might be lowering theirs but I'm certainly not lowering mine so thank you fab for a great big selection box

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By *affy72Woman over a year ago

Herefordshire

"You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?"

I find myself agreeing with you again!

People should not be so precious and dictate what everyone should or shouldn't find attractive. Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?"

very well put .at the end of the day could give a flying fart if the op thinks im punching above or below my weight .one has to wonder why its concerning him anyway .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i wouldnt sleep with anyone on here that i wouldnt if i meet them on a night out, my standards most deffinatly havent lowered, i'm premiscuous not desperate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

very well put .at the end of the day could give a flying fart if the op thinks im punching above or below my weight .one has to wonder why its concerning him anyway ."

He must have had a knockback or two lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen"

Of course it happens.

But I always wonder the motive of bemoaning it. Seems to me bitterness that women that men consider beneath them still knock them back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet"
who cares if you dont care if I care that you care etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP has every right to voice his opinion weather people agree with him or not is entirely up to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet who cares if you dont care if I care that you care etc etc

Exactly my point, why do people enter a debate with 'who cares' it's lazy and adds nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs."

Fucking A.

Amen to that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet who cares if you dont care if I care that you care etc etc

Exactly my point, why do people enter a debate with 'who cares' it's lazy and adds nothing"

Only if it is a debate worth having.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

Of course it happens.

But I always wonder the motive of bemoaning it. Seems to me bitterness that women that men consider beneath them still knock them back"

Maybe it is, I can't speak for the OP, his motives are irrelevant though, he was expressing an opinion, those who are getting offended should ask themselves why.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That is so true... I'm sure some men look in the mirror and see Brad Pitt!

I don't like Brad Pitt. Now if there are any Daniel Craig types around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet who cares if you dont care if I care that you care etc etc

Exactly my point, why do people enter a debate with 'who cares' it's lazy and adds nothing

Only if it is a debate worth having."

Well if it's a debate that's not worth having why waste your time commenting , especially with ' who cares'

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Of course it happens.

But I always wonder the motive of bemoaning it. Seems to me bitterness that women that men consider beneath them still knock them back"

Exactly how it appears to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

We can question who we like

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

very well put .at the end of the day could give a flying fart if the op thinks im punching above or below my weight .one has to wonder why its concerning him anyway .

He must have had a knockback or two lol

lol that green eyed monster is a bitch init

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

very well put .at the end of the day could give a flying fart if the op thinks im punching above or below my weight .one has to wonder why its concerning him anyway .

He must have had a knockback or two lol

lol that green eyed monster is a bitch init

Maybe he has had a knock back from someone who looks like an extra from Lord of the rings, who knows, he can still express his opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet who cares if you dont care if I care that you care etc etc

Exactly my point, why do people enter a debate with 'who cares' it's lazy and adds nothing

Only if it is a debate worth having.

Well if it's a debate that's not worth having why waste your time commenting , especially with ' who cares' "

To point out the stupidity of what is being implied.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

very well put .at the end of the day could give a flying fart if the op thinks im punching above or below my weight .one has to wonder why its concerning him anyway .

He must have had a knockback or two lol

lol that green eyed monster is a bitch init

Maybe he has had a knock back from someone who looks like an extra from Lord of the rings, who knows, he can still express his opinion "

No-one said he couldn't, it's a forum that's what it's used for, sheesh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

So basically you just wanted to put us fab women in our place with your post is that it? Well thanks for the reminder I'll be sure to give a rat's ass next time I'm having fun on a meet

Not at all, I didn't write the OP, who cares if you don't care, and who cares if your having fun on your next meet who cares if you dont care if I care that you care etc etc

Exactly my point, why do people enter a debate with 'who cares' it's lazy and adds nothing

Only if it is a debate worth having.

Well if it's a debate that's not worth having why waste your time commenting , especially with ' who cares'

To point out the stupidity of what is being implied."

Are you suggesting that what the OP has implied is stupid, if you are you are making a stupid statement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

very well put .at the end of the day could give a flying fart if the op thinks im punching above or below my weight .one has to wonder why its concerning him anyway .

He must have had a knockback or two lol

lol that green eyed monster is a bitch init

Maybe he has had a knock back from someone who looks like an extra from Lord of the rings, who knows, he can still express his opinion

No-one said he couldn't, it's a forum that's what it's used for, sheesh!"

Well add something constructive, shesh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

Excellent post , brave and saying what lots of us know already .

We have met many couples , single women and single guys who are , to put it bluntly , way out of our league .

But wow ! It boosts ones confidence , and never once has our perception been highlighted by our meets , before , during or after .

So much so , that we no longer have a negative perception of ourselves . We feel comfortable playing with the hottest imaginable people on here , and don't feel they are doing us a favour .

We also love playing with other demographs just as much , again on the same level .

And who knows , one day we may even 'take one for the team' and play with the op .... Assuming his balls are full

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

We want to fuck not form lifelong committed relationships ....

The two are not comparable.

ALWAYS this spurious argument comes up....

If a bloke pulls a fuck that's 'his weight' for that fuck.

If a woman pulls a fuck that's 'her weight' for that fuck.

No one is above or below anyone else in the fuckability stakes....

People take what's on offer when the hormones are high and the hardons at the point of pain......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if you are approaching ladies with less than honourable intentions their fathers will not let you court their daughters you silly man

Ooops should have said pop back in time to the 19th century as women have the choice to sleep with who they want in this one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We want to fuck not form lifelong committed relationships ....

The two are not comparable.

ALWAYS this spurious argument comes up....

If a bloke pulls a fuck that's 'his weight' for that fuck.

If a woman pulls a fuck that's 'her weight' for that fuck.

No one is above or below anyone else in the fuckability stakes....

People take what's on offer when the hormones are high and the hardons at the point of pain......"

Brilliant !

Wise words

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By *extoysareusCouple over a year ago

kinky heaven

As with most sites,hobbies etc people come our of their shell to be a different persona.

This is a sex site so it would be in their favour to become more with it.

Yes they are in more control and you can leave the vanilla world to become whatever you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs."

I love a debate I can get my teeth into. Sour grapes over women going into a sweet shop and having more to choose from than her male counterpart is such a debate, especially when it involves subjectivity

Wouldn't it be awful if the shop owner was to come along and state "those on the top shelf are out of your league lady, the bottom shelf only".

Obviously the analogy falls short because in a sweet shop, the sweets don't get to state "sorry but I don't want you" and therefore jump off the shelf

So this time my point is about reciprocation between TWO (or more people)... not just one doing the choosing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men, some women."

Definitely happens, and I'm sure that's the reason behind 90% of the nasty messages I've had...they think they're doing me a favour by offering me a shag but don't realise so are some very hot 20 odd year olds! I'm sure I have been the ticket to a few getting that all important green tick, but none have ever made it obvious...those that do make it obvious they're just after any hole to get verified so they can move onto to those 'in their league' don't get near.

Having said that, I have also met (and have continue to meet regularly) a number of guys I would have never had the balls to approach in the real world as I would have never thought I was ther type. My fb is very sporty, and I have two other regular meets who are very keen gym members and I have no doubt they continue to meet me because they, for some reason, find my fat ass attractive. Guess if we all liked the same things though life would be boring...and I'd have a much bigger collection of toys than I already do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs.

Wouldn't it be awful if the shop owner was to come along and state "those on the top shelf are out of your league lady, the bottom shelf only".

Obviously the analogy falls short because in a sweet shop, the sweets don't get to state "sorry but I don't want you" and therefore jump off the shelf

So this time my point is about reciprocation between TWO (or more people)... not just one doing the choosing."

Was that worth reading??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs.

Wouldn't it be awful if the shop owner was to come along and state "those on the top shelf are out of your league lady, the bottom shelf only".

Obviously the analogy falls short because in a sweet shop, the sweets don't get to state "sorry but I don't want you" and therefore jump off the shelf

So this time my point is about reciprocation between TWO (or more people)... not just one doing the choosing.

Was that worth reading??"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs.

Wouldn't it be awful if the shop owner was to come along and state "those on the top shelf are out of your league lady, the bottom shelf only".

Obviously the analogy falls short because in a sweet shop, the sweets don't get to state "sorry but I don't want you" and therefore jump off the shelf

So this time my point is about reciprocation between TWO (or more people)... not just one doing the choosing.

Was that worth reading??"

Who cares

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But what is on offer is 30 guys for every woman/couple.

It's naiive to think that the stat doesn't dramatically affects how people behave (as is evident from the attitudes and conversely moaning on the forum and the awful way some profiles are written)

It's the ugly truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs.

Wouldn't it be awful if the shop owner was to come along and state "those on the top shelf are out of your league lady, the bottom shelf only".

Obviously the analogy falls short because in a sweet shop, the sweets don't get to state "sorry but I don't want you" and therefore jump off the shelf

So this time my point is about reciprocation between TWO (or more people)... not just one doing the choosing.

Was that worth reading??

Who cares

Not me , again I cba reading it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

We can question who we like"

I concede to the fact you are, in this case right.

Feel free to question and make a fool of yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

I agree, get ready for the onslaught mate "

Got to say I do, my wife is a looker, but we get messages from 20 year olds. When I was 20 my wife to me, would have looked like a pensioner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men, some women.

Posts like this give me the impression the posters are arrogant or jealous.

I punch here as I do in the real world, so to speak.

Quick jab or uppercut?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The OP is stating his personal observations and judgements, just as everyone else does, often. He's not less entitled to do so merely because the majority of other posters disagree.

Collective thinking isn't terribly healthy, a lively debate is though.

It'd be awfully boring if we were all nodding dogs.

Wouldn't it be awful if the shop owner was to come along and state "those on the top shelf are out of your league lady, the bottom shelf only".

Obviously the analogy falls short because in a sweet shop, the sweets don't get to state "sorry but I don't want you" and therefore jump off the shelf

So this time my point is about reciprocation between TWO (or more people)... not just one doing the choosing.

Was that worth reading??

Who cares

I do N.V.C.......... it was worth reading and not a bad analogy but it sounds like the prettiest sweets go to the person with the most money .......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

We can question who we like

I concede to the fact you are, in this case right.

Feel free to question and make a fool of yourself

Did you say something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

We can question who we like

I concede to the fact you are, in this case right.

Feel free to question and make a fool of yourself

Did you say something "

No, I wrote it. Mind you I can forgive someone not of my league to make that very basic mistake.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

""We want to fuck not form lifelong committed relationships ....

The two are not comparable.

ALWAYS this spurious argument comes up....

No one is above or below anyone else in the fuckability stakes...."

And also from another post:

"So much so , that we no longer have a negative perception of ourselves . We feel comfortable playing with the hottest imaginable people on here , and don't feel they are doing us a favour ."

Both make the same rather good point - that 'fuckability' may not be on exactly the same sliding scale as conventional 'league tables' anyway!! Some of the sexiest most successful people on here are not the ones you would expect to be so on the street, and I have had great meets with people I would not look twice at, or even dare I say consider a relationship with. I am sure I am not alone - different criteria.

It's NOT just about looks on here, and LACK of looks are not the only reason men get rejected - some might want to think a bit deeper about that!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

We can question who we like

I concede to the fact you are, in this case right.

Feel free to question and make a fool of yourself

Did you say something

No, I wrote it. Mind you I can forgive someone not of my league to make that very basic mistake.

I decided to read that one, not a bad effort, don't put yourself down though , btw do you ever contribute anything to he thread or do you just attack the OP and the other posters??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

True, but who cares if it does? Apart from the men not getting meets because uggos like me are meeting smoking hot men of course.

Who cares if nobody cares, it's a fact

You talk such rubbish.

Since looks are subjective I may find you resemble Shrek's ugly uncle whereas some else may _iew you as Adonis.

If I was to see you with a pretty girl I'd think you were punching above your weight big time and again the person who _iewed you differently, may feel you're lowering your standards.

So as long as people are happy with their prospective meets, who the hell are you or the OP or any other bystander, to question the choices made?

We can question who we like

I concede to the fact you are, in this case right.

Feel free to question and make a fool of yourself

Did you say something

No, I wrote it. Mind you I can forgive someone not of my league to make that very basic mistake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""We want to fuck not form lifelong committed relationships ....

The two are not comparable.

ALWAYS this spurious argument comes up....

No one is above or below anyone else in the fuckability stakes...."

And also from another post:

"So much so , that we no longer have a negative perception of ourselves . We feel comfortable playing with the hottest imaginable people on here , and don't feel they are doing us a favour ."

It's NOT just about looks on here, and LACK of looks are not the only reason men get rejected - some might want to think a bit deeper about that!!"

You're absolutely right. Attraction may start with the looks (facial and physique), but it doesn't stop there. I find a high intellect highly arousing. Add to that some witty banter and I'm creaming my knickers

Whatever the reason is that we choose to meet other members, and they us, can be pretty simple (hormones as Granny stated) or pretty complex and involve many aspects of personality and character as well as attraction through our senses. Whatever it is, the reason is no-one's business but those who meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a little lost here. If you meet someone and she's 'below your weight', then why not just walk away? I've done this on numerous occasions. Then again, I've fucked not so good looking blokes who've made me laugh and come across as fun.

I may meet men off here that I wouldn't normally meet, but in the main that's because the many men lack confidence when approaching women and it's easier on here to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm having a déjà vu moment!

Like I've said in the past..... if people think others are punching above their weight then don't have sex with them ~ just play the waiting game until someone you really fancy comes along....simples

It's the OP's observation after all which he's entitled like everyone else to make.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

""We want to fuck not form lifelong committed relationships ....

The two are not comparable.

ALWAYS this spurious argument comes up....

No one is above or below anyone else in the fuckability stakes...."

And also from another post:

"So much so , that we no longer have a negative perception of ourselves . We feel comfortable playing with the hottest imaginable people on here , and don't feel they are doing us a favour ."

It's NOT just about looks on here, and LACK of looks are not the only reason men get rejected - some might want to think a bit deeper about that!!

Its attitude for me too. I may find someone physically attractive, but as soon as I see a moany profile, whinging status update, or bad-natured post on the forums I back off. I don't need to meet that sort of guy.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Just because a person is beautiful doesn't make them a beautiful person. Ie personality is often more atractive than looks alone.men tend to be more visual , women are visual but need a little more of an emotional attraction as well .just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"'Supply and demand' as many people parrot. There is truth in the OP's statement, it might not be comfortable for people to read of course.

The disgruntled posts are amusing though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I notice it. Men approach me despite my completely bare profile, and some incredibly attractive men request meets on their copy&paste intro messages.

For me, a base level of attraction is required but my standards are lower on here when compared to my "real" dating life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Is it, I think it's naive to suggest it doesn't happen

Of course it happens.

But I always wonder the motive of bemoaning it. Seems to me bitterness that women that men consider beneath them still knock them back

Maybe it is, I can't speak for the OP, his motives are irrelevant though, he was expressing an opinion, those who are getting offended should ask themselves why."

Great point!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I notice it. Men approach me despite my completely bare profile, and some incredibly attractive men request meets on their copy&paste intro messages.

For me, a base level of attraction is required but my standards are lower on here when compared to my "real" dating life. "

Perhaps I should also add that even those incredibly attractive men get rejected. For me, intelligence is most important otherwise I know I'll be bored by the conversation during a meet.

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By *icklepinkWoman over a year ago

london

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

I believe the OP is basing opinion on simply looks, it's absolutely fine for the OP to have their opinion. This is a forum and it's where people are able to post opinions and have discussions, people shouldn't be so negative just because they dont agree.

However my opinion is looks wise sometimes I do t get it either but then I don't see who other people meet is any of my business to be honest, I feel people have meets for many different reasons on here, lots of people have various fantasies or types of people they want to meet with for example lots of young men want the older woman a lot or some people like skinny girls / guys or larger girls / guys. It isn't for us as an individual to dictate who anyone should be with. Attraction is subjective. Some woman only want really muscular men, that's not something I'm attracted to I prefer an average look but a dirty mind lol. But that's just me.

Anyway I hope you are not annoyed about the issues in your post and instead just focus on people who you enjoy being with and who enjoy being with you.

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By *extoysareusCouple over a year ago

kinky heaven

A lot of intelligent people lack common sense, do people have to have an IQ test before they meet??

if someone presses our button then that's enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men, some women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Anyway I hope you are not annoyed about the issues in your post and instead just focus on people who you enjoy being with and who enjoy being with you.

And you have a well-rounded opinion on this malarkey and it's not made you into someone you're not in real life. Sadly that's not the case for everyone, some people get an inflated sense of self from the attention which they would not get in real life. You can read the mind set clearly in posts and profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of intelligent people lack common sense, do people have to have an IQ test before they meet??

if someone presses our button then that's enough."

I wouldn't say an IQ test, however if we can't discuss topics that we both have a similar interest in, it's just not enjoyable for me. Intelligence is key for me (and despite what you've said, intelligent men can be, and typically are, charming meets).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Anyway I hope you are not annoyed about the issues in your post and instead just focus on people who you enjoy being with and who enjoy being with you.

Spot on, once people start believing their own hype they become more demanding and delusional, which is a shame but for those not used to the adulation , it's inevitable

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well , I wasn't quite expecting that level of heated posting ! Just to clarify I was only posting an observation and NOT my opinion . There is a difference, and its good to see that the intelligent and level headed members can see that . Interesting to see the same old faces trying to suggest otherwise!!! LOL !!

The observation is based on my experience of reading profiles , but also looking at the people they have had meets with. I haven't read every profile on here. So my observation is based on my limited time on here .

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"i wouldnt sleep with anyone on here that i wouldnt if i meet them on a night out, my standards most deffinatly havent lowered, i'm premiscuous not desperate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well , I wasn't quite expecting that level of heated posting ! Just to clarify I was only posting an observation and NOT my opinion . There is a difference, and its good to see that the intelligent and level headed members can see that . Interesting to see the same old faces trying to suggest otherwise!!! LOL !!

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in that case I'm extremely grateful to all those guys that are lowering their standards to fuck me. Seriously. Thank you fab!

Bless they might be lowering theirs but I'm certainly not lowering mine so thank you fab for a great big selection box

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards."

OK , if you say so , because your opinion is alway right isn't it .

LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You were always going to get stick for it but fair play to you.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Stop the presses......some men will do anything to get their dick wet and some women will let them for an ego boost...hardly front page news is it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards."

I've got to do one of my fun analogies to explain further

If I go to the park and see some ducks and swans with their little ducklings and cygnets respectively, and I count them and note their colour, then I am making an observation. I could be wrong as there maybe other little ones out of sight, but it is a declaration of what I can actually see.

However if I state something like the cutie little fluffy yellow ducklings outnumber the grotty grey cygnets, all of a sudden I am being subjective. The numbers in total will tally but alas it has become so much more than an observation. It has become emotive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really; Just be picky ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry, but in the outside world my men are still well above my punching weight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards.

OK , if you say so , because your opinion is alway right isn't it .

LOL"

I've clarified my thoughts with an analogy. Enjoy the fluffy wuffy lickle chicks

BTW I am pretty level-headed enough to know that I am not always right, and I'm happy to state as such. In fact if someone teaches me new stuff and my opinion changes as a result, then they go up in my estimation. I love to learn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry, but in the outside world my men are still well above my punching weight"

Oh behave woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards.

I've got to do one of my fun analogies to explain further

Yes dear ! I'm off to watch the match in the pub now ok !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards.

I've got to do one of my fun analogies to explain further

Yes dear ! I'm off to watch the match in the pub now ok !

You do that... but no picking up any women and punching above your weight. Wait until you get back here and punch below it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards.

I've got to do one of my fun analogies to explain further

Yes dear ! I'm off to watch the match in the pub now ok !

You do that... but no picking up any women and punching above your weight. Wait until you get back here and punch below it

Bye !! Don't wait up pet !

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By *uriouscouple34Couple over a year ago

sunderland

Sexual attraction isn't always about physical attraction. I agree it helps the process along but give me a funny guy over a drop dead gorgeous moron any day x

Mrs Curious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your observation IS your opinion though. Why do I say that? Because you've made assessments based on your own subjective standards.

I've got to do one of my fun analogies to explain further

Yes dear ! I'm off to watch the match in the pub now ok !

You do that... but no picking up any women and punching above your weight. Wait until you get back here and punch below it

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

if any hot fellas want to drop there standards due to full balls so that i fuck someone out of my league then feel free to do so ..i certainly wont complain ..it a 'win win !!' situation the way i see it !

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I stepped away from the keyboard hours ago!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if any hot fellas want to drop there standards due to full balls so that i fuck someone out of my league then feel free to do so ..i certainly wont complain ..it a 'win win !!' situation the way i see it !

Yes me too please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know what I like and I am not any different here compared to the outside world.

But these guys that go with women who are sub standard for them, can I just say. Nobody is dragging you kicking and screaming and then raping you. You want to go and you do go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!! "

Sorry to say ....

But I agree

But maybe people are getting to know each other a bit more on here attraction lies within

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd like to get to know a few more people off the forums

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"i wouldnt sleep with anyone on here that i wouldnt if i meet them on a night out, my standards most deffinatly havent lowered, i'm premiscuous not desperate

Well said, nice to see a guy that isnt just a perv in a dirty mac!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Sorry to say ....

But I agree

But maybe people are getting to know each other a bit more on here attraction lies within "

I think your right,some people just don't like the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Sorry to say ....

But I agree

But maybe people are getting to know each other a bit more on here attraction lies within

I think your right,some people just don't like the truth."

The truth according to who?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Sorry to say ....

But I agree

But maybe people are getting to know each other a bit more on here attraction lies within

I think your right,some people just don't like the truth.

The truth according to who?

Just the truth in general not just this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Conversly it also seems that men are prepared to "punch well below their weight " to find sex as opposed to who they could attract normally off site.

Someone said on here " guys shouldn't go on fab with full balls ". !!!!!

Sorry to say ....

But I agree

But maybe people are getting to know each other a bit more on here attraction lies within

I think your right,some people just don't like the truth.

The truth according to who?

Just the truth in general not just this thread."

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