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over a year ago
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We are looking to arrange a meet with a female. It's our first meet, we can accommodate whilst the other people are on holiday that live here. We just need to ask a few questions,,
1) Is it safe to bring someone back to your house that's genuine?
2) Do you buy the female a gift? And if not is it rude?
3) how do you plan on starting (do the 2 females start whilst the males out the room/maybe watching?) or how?....
4) any tips etc.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are looking to arrange a meet with a female. It's our first meet, we can accommodate whilst the other people are on holiday that live here. We just need to ask a few questions,,
1) Is it safe to bring someone back to your house that's genuine?
2) Do you buy the female a gift? And if not is it rude?
3) how do you plan on starting (do the 2 females start whilst the males out the room/maybe watching?) or how?....
4) any tips etc.."
1. Meet her at the nearest pub first . There may be no connection , and until you actually meet face to face you won't know .
2. Find out what she likes to drink , other than that , no gifts .
3. Depends how it goes , someone will know when the time is right to make the first move .
4. Don't have too many expectations .
Have a flirty game to try out .
Dont get pissed ( or her )
Read the evening and act accordingly , don't push it or try and force the play .
Enjoy yourselves , and make sure you and she are comfortable .
Have fun !
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"We are looking to arrange a meet with a female. It's our first meet, we can accommodate whilst the other people are on holiday that live here. We just need to ask a few questions,,
1) Is it safe to bring someone back to your house that's genuine?
2) Do you buy the female a gift? And if not is it rude?
3) how do you plan on starting (do the 2 females start whilst the males out the room/maybe watching?) or how?....
4) any tips etc..
1. Meet her at the nearest pub first . There may be no connection , and until you actually meet face to face you won't know .
2. Find out what she likes to drink , other than that , no gifts .
3. Depends how it goes , someone will know when the time is right to make the first move .
4. Don't have too many expectations .
Have a flirty game to try out .
Dont get pissed ( or her )
Read the evening and act accordingly , don't push it or try and force the play .
Enjoy yourselves , and make sure you and she are comfortable .
Have fun !
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that about sums it up, there are no set rules ,each meet is different just bd respectful ,relax and have fun .good luck x |
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Can't fault the first two responses. This may be swinging, but it's still like a first date, so neutral territory to start, definitely.
Decent people then have no problems playing things by ear from then on and frankly a few minutes over coffee, or in a bar first are usually enough to spot the "walk away now" types.
Finally, if anyone turns up wearing an ice hockey keeper's mask.......run. |
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