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By *uckyman1992 OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Street

To trust or not to trust.

If someone has had an account for a year but has no photo verification or meet verification displayed..

How can you trust them?

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple  over a year ago

North Wales


"To trust or not to trust.

If someone has had an account for a year but has no photo verification or meet verification displayed..

How can you trust them?"

We wouldn't!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

By chatting to them,speaking on the phone or on cam,something about them has sparked your interest so find out more and then make a judgment

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By *uckyman1992 OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Street

I'm not sure I'd even trust them with a number now. Heard some horror stories from single women I've met from this website.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not sure what there is to trust or not trust?

Would we meet them? No way. But each to their own, I certainly wouldn't label them fake which appears to be the insinuation by asking whether they can be trusted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

initial reaction would be unsure but a lot of people here for different reasons - and just because they havent met etc doesnt make them untrustable - talk to them - meet neutral grounds etc to make sure -

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not sure I'd even trust them with a number now. Heard some horror stories from single women I've met from this website."

Then you have answered your own question,you don't trust them,you move on,doesn't mean theyr'e not genuine though,it means you don't trust that they are

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By *uckyman1992 OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Street

Obviously this is an issue for first time meeters. But judging on the length the account has been active it's suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

make arrangements on site to meet socially first at a pub or coffee shop,, ive done this with single men that have been around for ages with no veris etc ,, works for me ,,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure what there is to trust or not trust?

Would we meet them? No way. But each to their own, I certainly wouldn't label them fake which appears to be the insinuation by asking whether they can be trusted. "

how did you come to that conclusion? He didn't mention anything about being fake. As you said yourself,you wouldn't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure what there is to trust or not trust?

Would we meet them? No way. But each to their own, I certainly wouldn't label them fake which appears to be the insinuation by asking whether they can be trusted.

how did you come to that conclusion? He didn't mention anything about being fake. As you said yourself,you wouldn't meet them"

What conclusion? I would have thought my post is fairly self explanatory in that I'm not sure what the op is implying by trust due to the vagueness of his post.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We would'nt trust them, unless they were newbies and even then would build trust by messages and talking to them.

That's not to say we think all of such profiles are untrustworthy, it's just we have our rules and you have to draw a line somewhere,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To trust or not to trust.

If someone has had an account for a year but has no photo verification or meet verification displayed..

How can you trust them?"

Its no different from someone having a profile for a week but you could try chatting on cam or moving on to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To trust or not to trust.

If someone has had an account for a year but has no photo verification or meet verification displayed..

How can you trust them?"

Why would you trust anyone on the internet?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

i dont think i have ever looked to see how long a person has been on the site to decide wether to meet them or not and verifications dont really mea much to me either, i make my own decisions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To trust or not to trust.

If someone has had an account for a year but has no photo verification or meet verification displayed..

How can you trust them?

We wouldn't!"

We would...

Years ago we had a dogging meet up arranged to meet 2 unverified guys that had been on here for over a year... The 2 guys turned up and it turned out to be a fantastic meet.

When we asked why they hadn't been verified they both said the longer they been on here without being verified was harder to get a meet...

So yes we would

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To be honest no! There is no excuse for some kind of pic.

As for the verification it seems a bit long to not have one, somethings not right.

Pic collecting springs to mind too.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ask them to display their veri's. If they are not willing move on x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm pretty new to this, but that sounds wrong to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not sure what there is to trust or not trust?

Would we meet them? No way. But each to their own, I certainly wouldn't label them fake which appears to be the insinuation by asking whether they can be trusted.

how did you come to that conclusion? He didn't mention anything about being fake. As you said yourself,you wouldn't meet them

What conclusion? I would have thought my post is fairly self explanatory in that I'm not sure what the op is implying by trust due to the vagueness of his post.

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read your own post again and you might get clarification on mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To trust or not to trust.

If someone has had an account for a year but has no photo verification or meet verification displayed..

How can you trust them?"

Trust in what way ?

I wouldnt give them my NI number or bank account details.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

kind of depends on your own verification process I think.

chat to them, meet them for a social and then decide.

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By *ral.steveMan  over a year ago

LEEDS

If they can't get a meet then they can't get veri don't mean they are fake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i dont think i have ever looked to see how long a person has been on the site to decide wether to meet them or not and verifications dont really mea much to me either, i make my own decisions"

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i dont think i have ever looked to see how long a person has been on the site to decide wether to meet them or not and verifications dont really mea much to me either, i make my own decisions

This "

This is so true x I've been on site on n off for 4 yrs x n never felt the need for pics or verifications x but it all works for me x

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