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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet.  "
Could be that they are not all single , and can't get away on a Saturday evening .
They prefer a vanilla night out with their mates .
Saturday night may be their night to seek a partner rather than a shag .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet.
Could be that they are not all single , and can't get away on a Saturday evening .
They prefer a vanilla night out with their mates .
Saturday night may be their night to seek a partner rather than a shag .
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Yep, all of those |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
the popular ones are probably out and about on meets, at clubs and socials, and generally having a good time.....
if you want someones attention give them a good reason as to why it should be you over anyone else... (not just talking about pictures...)
make them say "wow I have to meet those people!!!"
sometimes its a mindset thing.... rather than you waiting on them to come to you just because you are a couple, if you know what you want why dont you go after them.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
straight and that can accomodate,couldnt agree with you more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine are usually either working or sleeping. Couldn't say about men on here but I'd hazard a guess at out with friends as I get a lot of late night messages after pubs and clubs shut. The older men could be tucked up in bed with a book and cocoa after a hard week at work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet.
the popular ones are probably out and about on meets, at clubs and socials, and generally having a good time.....
if you want someones attention give them a good reason as to why it should be you over anyone else... (not just talking about pictures...)
make them say "wow I have to meet those people!!!"
sometimes its a mindset thing.... rather than you waiting on them to come to you just because you are a couple, if you know what you want why dont you go after them...."
Thanks Fab. We do go after them, which is where the hard work comes in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a single guy who doesn't go out Saturday nights, but I'm too busy watching The Voice  "
Exactly, our theory is that the telly is just too good on a Sat |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a single guy and I tend to have to work Friday and Saturday evenings. Can't vouch for the rest if them. "
don't have to justify yourself...
if you know you are single and life means you work... then you have nothing to hide or fear...
I have to work friday and saturdays to get by at the moment.... I decided not to accomodate new couples on the first few meets just because I suffered a burglary and decided this would be my own "safe" space.... but some people will never understand that....
this turned into a "bash single men" session rather quick... with all the usual generalisations attached.....
fact is.. popular ones are popular and dont have to be at the beck and call of couples and single women.... they will have real lives just like everyone else!
you want to get into their lives... you are probably going to have to work at it..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this post a joke or something fab is full of single guys just waiting to be got at its the single fems and couples that are looking for single guys that are at a minimum  (just my opinion counts for nothing really) lol |
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I would say the same about persons weekdays/ evenings and early hours of the morning. Shift work means that these times are preferred on a rotary basis but not many people are available when meet requests or messages are posted. People's preference I suppose so we obviously don't all get what we want! |
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"Is this post a joke or something fab is full of single guys just waiting to be got at its the single fems and couples that are looking for single guys that are at a minimum (just my opinion counts for nothing really) lol"
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have my son, we alternate Friday and Sat evenings, when I drop him off on a Sat night at 7.30 said goodbyes it sometime puts people off that I can't get to them until later...........just how life goes! |
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"Is this post a joke or something fab is full of single guys just waiting to be got at its the single fems and couples that are looking for single guys that are at a minimum (just my opinion counts for nothing really) lol
Agreed "
Tbh ive given up trying fri sat nights. The disappointment isnt worth getting depressed about. Better to go out with mates and have fun!
So where are the single ladies and couple's on Monday Tuesday wednesday Thurs fri sat nights? We guys might add lol.
OP Perhaps this is why you struggle if thats a serious post as us single guys get messed about so much!
Typically couples arrange a meet putting you unwittingly in a pool of available guys. Then on the night you think the meet is definitely happening but said couple throw a silent one . Of course next day the veri says you're a second best fool again.
Sat night pint lads ?
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I don't think it's a single guy thing.
I used to meet on Saturday nights (and any other day), go to clubs, parties and socials - as well as the occasional vanilla night out.
Now I'm half of a couple my circumstances have changed. We now have to plan nights out (and clubs, meets etc.) around childcare - much like any other couple.
And - believe it or not - single guys and women all over the country.
It's as likely that singles will be looking after kids, working, or simply choosing to do ordinary things as much as it is they're not really single.
You never see threads saying 'why can't I find a couple on a Saturday night' prompting the responses that you see above - why should singles be treated any differently?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well most people are doing something on a Saturday night. That said there are probably 000's of single guys who would make themselves available for someone genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
I am free and find it hard to find a couple to have good times with. How ironic!
With a fit sexy body like yours and now after this thread i am sure you will get many offers. |
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"I'm a single guy who doesn't go out Saturday nights, but I'm too busy watching The Voice
Exactly, our theory is that the telly is just too good on a Sat "
Saturday night tv is shit, apart from match of the day. I am often free on a Saturday night & would love to have meets but I'm not everyone's cuppa I guess |
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"I don't think it's a single guy thing.
I used to meet on Saturday nights (and any other day), go to clubs, parties and socials - as well as the occasional vanilla night out.
Now I'm half of a couple my circumstances have changed. We now have to plan nights out (and clubs, meets etc.) around childcare - much like any other couple.
And - believe it or not - single guys and women all over the country.
It's as likely that singles will be looking after kids, working, or simply choosing to do ordinary things as much as it is they're not really single.
You never see threads saying 'why can't I find a couple on a Saturday night' prompting the responses that you see above - why should singles be treated any differently?
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ive been on fab both single and as a couple and agree sat night meets arent as easy as you might think. ( unless you are not fussy) .
Although as a couple meeting single guys is far far easier than other couples!
As Elton John said Saturday nights alright for fighting lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No-one should take this post too seriously, it's not a complaint and we're certainly not bashing single guys (we love em!). We just wish more were able to meet on Saturdays
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No-one should take this post too seriously, it's not a complaint and we're certainly not bashing single guys (we love em!). We just wish more were able to meet on Saturdays
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Well im free this Saturday... |
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"No-one should take this post too seriously, it's not a complaint and we're certainly not bashing single guys (we love em!). We just wish more were able to meet on Saturdays
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We dont feel bashed Anyhow now you have a little list of available guys. Shame im an old bugger out your age range as Sasha is one hot and very attractive looking lady. Good luck guys xx |
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Maybe us guys who want to meet midweek etc are targeting ladies who want meet weekends when there partner is out doing what most guys do. It should not always be assumed that the guys are in relationships and are cheating hence not meeting weekends. Just a thought!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
Suitable, and local which can narrow down options on both counts. |
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We not all got some one at home some do some dont. But for us gen ones like me send messages not dirty ones just normal to try to chat and 90 percent just delet them they dont read your profile or any thing so some of us just give up |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Meet me meet me, just not this Saturday, I ve two ladies visiting and they tire me out 
cooking and clearing up after them, daughters tsk,,!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single guy who's free most weekends, but likewise find the younger age doesn't suit lots of couples and women.
Though I'm always keen to get to know people so fire away if you're interested sacha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this post a joke or something fab is full of single guys just waiting to be got at its the single fems and couples that are looking for single guys that are at a minimum (just my opinion counts for nothing really) lol"
Some single fems (and couples maybe), not that I'm speaking for anyone else, but we are looking just being a bit choosy |
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"Is this post a joke or something fab is full of single guys just waiting to be got at its the single fems and couples that are looking for single guys that are at a minimum (just my opinion counts for nothing really) lol
Agreed
Tbh ive given up trying fri sat nights. The disappointment isnt worth getting depressed about. Better to go out with mates and have fun!
So where are the single ladies and couple's on Monday Tuesday wednesday Thurs fri sat nights? We guys might add lol.
OP Perhaps this is why you struggle if thats a serious post as us single guys get messed about so much!
Typically couples arrange a meet putting you unwittingly in a pool of available guys. Then on the night you think the meet is definitely happening but said couple throw a silent one . Of course next day the veri says you're a second best fool again.
Sat night pint lads ?
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Totally agree.
First pints on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one is 59, 5' 7" tall, average to slightly overweight, not well endowed, bald and not considered hot or fit then one is usually _iewed but passed-by. I am usually free on Friday and Saturday and would certainly answer the call of this couple if it ever came my way.
I am however happy when visiting clubs as ladies and couples I meet I get on with sociably and then things happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
(Tongue firmly in cheek)
Well for you, suitable is a single 30-45 year old with a flat stomach.
All 37 of us lead quite busy lives - Saturdays can be difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a single guy that's free evenings an weekends,but find age puts most women off.Thank god for some ladies who enjoy the much older guy or else I would have to become a monk "
this I have the same problem (well age problem being 21) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single guy and I tend to have to work Friday and Saturday evenings. Can't vouch for the rest if them.
don't have to justify yourself...
if you know you are single and life means you work... then you have nothing to hide or fear...
I have to work friday and saturdays to get by at the moment.... I decided not to accomodate new couples on the first few meets just because I suffered a burglary and decided this would be my own "safe" space.... but some people will never understand that....
this turned into a "bash single men" session rather quick... with all the usual generalisations attached.....
fact is.. popular ones are popular and dont have to be at the beck and call of couples and single women.... they will have real lives just like everyone else!
you want to get into their lives... you are probably going to have to work at it....."
People can bash all they want.
Single guys read these threads...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
WOW Sasha. I'm always free on a Saturday night all you have to do us say the word and I'd be there in a flash xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer friday or saturday nights but only so much chasing us single blokes want to do...sometimes we get fed up and think sod it too...."
have to agree... after 60 or more ignored messages a week you do get a little pee'd off and wonder why you bother... so MoTD it is then...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No-one should take this post too seriously, it's not a complaint and we're certainly not bashing single guys (we love em!). We just wish more were able to meet on Saturdays
Well im free this Saturday... "
me too I'm free most saturdays |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
We arrange 95% of our meets in advance and very rarely have a problem with finding a single man to join us. Find that Saturday evenings are often easier to arrange than Fridays or daytime.
Perhaps most of them already have meets or are out at parties/clubs.
Last minute meets we have never been very successful with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
Well I'll be free any Saturday in April if your interested!  |
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet.
We arrange 95% of our meets in advance and very rarely have a problem with finding a single man to join us. Find that Saturday evenings are often easier to arrange than Fridays or daytime.
Perhaps most of them already have meets or are out at parties/clubs.
Last minute meets we have never been very successful with. "
I would say most of my arranged weekend meets have cancelled on me (see my previous posts) and that the last minute no messing ones have been less complicated and the best.
You can find me down the pub sat night come whisk me away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... on Saturday nights?
It's bloody hard work finding a suitable single guy for a Sat evening meet. "
Not all of us are. Me I am free most Saturday nights. But then it does depend on what your looking for as suitable, does it not. |
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