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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a real thing, I've know a few ladies that become more than a little damp in the throes of passion
It's like anything it's not a measure of sexiness or a requisite of a good time.
Some ladies do some don't. Some ladies are loud some arnt every one is different, but also there is nothing new sexually under the sun
Being relaxed and enjoying ones self regardless of how messy wet or raucous is the key |
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By (user no longer on site)
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managed to make a few women squirt, usually they say they do it when they're super horny, or once they've had multiple orgasms, so it's real, but few and far between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it! |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!"
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL"
Then you believe wrong ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special"
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt"
That may be your opinion but I'm pleased to say that, based on my own first-hand experience, I do, in fact, know better and, if anyone would like to know more, I'd be happy to help them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt"
the tecknique of 'ramming in and out' will not make a woman squirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake "
There's plenty that would like to try.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I squirt so clearly not just in porn. Some woman dont like the feeling.. its a complete surrender .. different from a clit orgasm. It takes alil bit of know how and the courage to just let go. I love it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt
That may be your opinion but I'm pleased to say that, based on my own first-hand experience, I do, in fact, know better and, if anyone would like to know more, I'd be happy to help them."
No you don't know better!  you're not a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt
the tecknique of 'ramming in and out' will not make a woman squirt"
What I meant was trying to make her squirt when she knows she cant |
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL"
I'm not really into text book sex to be honest. |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt
the tecknique of 'ramming in and out' will not make a woman squirt
What I meant was trying to make her squirt when she knows she cant"
You seem intent on making this into an argument and I really don't know why. You started with an agressive expletive and seem to be continuing in more-or-less the same vein. I'm not arguing with you. If you think you can't do something, you can't. My 10 year old son tells me he can't ride a bike. I tell him that, where there's a will, there's a way but, unless he changes his mind, he'll never know the joy of riding with the wind in his hair on a summer's day. His loss. Not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bollocks
Not all women can ( hormones )
And for me it is not enjoyable just a fucking wet mess
So you men stop boasting about your "skills" as it's absolutely nothing special
Exactly!!
No point in ramming fingers in and out if she knows she can't squirt
the tecknique of 'ramming in and out' will not make a woman squirt
What I meant was trying to make her squirt when she knows she cant
You seem intent on making this into an argument and I really don't know why. You started with an agressive expletive and seem to be continuing in more-or-less the same vein. I'm not arguing with you. If you think you can't do something, you can't. My 10 year old son tells me he can't ride a bike. I tell him that, where there's a will, there's a way but, unless he changes his mind, he'll never know the joy of riding with the wind in his hair on a summer's day. His loss. Not mine. "
Like I said. Not all women can squirt as much as she or the partner tries. But some are different, some can through clitoral stimulation, oral or vaginal stimulation. I for one only squirt from clitoral stimulation |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL
I'm not really into text book sex to be honest. "
LOL! Sorry. Didn't mean to make it sound like a text book. That said, a great many people have found out a whole lot of stuff before we came along. I for one am rather glad that some of them wrote some of it down or else we would always be finding out stuff that had already been discovered. Not sure we'd ever have made it this far if that were the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately porn and men's willingness to believe everything they see has ruined sexual intercourse for women. It's very sad that men are forgetting the joy of sex for accolades in the so called art of making a woman squirt |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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OK. Before his gets blown out of all proportion I have an apology to make. I'm sorry that I said that I believe ALL women can have these orgasms. Clearly there are some who don't believe they can and therefore they can't. There may be some physiological reason but, whatever the case, I'm prepared to concede that only a large majority are able to do so. |
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By *denlouWoman
over a year ago
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"I squirt so clearly not just in porn. Some woman dont like the feeling.. its a complete surrender .. different from a clit orgasm. It takes alil bit of know how and the courage to just let go. I love it.
I second this...!! Absolutely amazing feeling, love it!!.  "
I 3rd this... Love it !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK. Before his gets blown out of all proportion I have an apology to make. I'm sorry that I said that I believe ALL women can have these orgasms. Clearly there are some who don't believe they can and therefore they can't. There may be some physiological reason but, whatever the case, I'm prepared to concede that only a large majority are able to do so."
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately porn and men's willingness to believe everything they see has ruined sexual intercourse for women. It's very sad that men are forgetting the joy of sex for accolades in the so called art of making a woman squirt "
Sad to say I have some sympathy with that point of _iew but I'm glad to say I haven't forgotten the joys of making love and don't hope for accolades any more than a lady who prides herself in her oral skills would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake
There's plenty that would like to try.
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Hope U mean to get my body shaking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met a few men who have that knack, including my best bud. I absolutely bloody love it! It's not an orgasm, but for me, very intense. However, I've only once done it spontaneously. I was very proud of myself lol. |
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By *lPulpoCouple
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"I've met a few men who have that knack, including my best bud. I absolutely bloody love it! It's not an orgasm, but for me, very intense. However, I've only once done it spontaneously. I was very proud of myself lol. "
LOL! Nice one, Princess! |
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"OK. Before his gets blown out of all proportion I have an apology to make. I'm sorry that I said that I believe ALL women can have these orgasms. Clearly there are some who don't believe they can and therefore they can't. There may be some physiological reason but, whatever the case, I'm prepared to concede that only a large majority are able to do so."
But squirting doesn't = orgasm  that much I do know. |
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"Unfortunately porn and men's willingness to believe everything they see has ruined sexual intercourse for women. It's very sad that men are forgetting the joy of sex for accolades in the so called art of making a woman squirt "
Got to agree ,, can't beat the art of foreplay not the pressure to squirt |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know."
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal. |
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By *lPulpoCouple
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"I've experienced mild gushing but never squirting ... I must be the only man who has never made a woman squirt! I know ... call myself a man? "
Ahh. To some, these things come naturally. But the rest of us need to learn. Not aware of anyone picking up tantric sex instinctively though. |
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Apparently I did it once. But I didnt notice. I have no ambition to do it again. I think it's overrated. None of my friends do it. Just seems to be half the women in here. Funny that!
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"So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake
There's plenty that would like to try.
Hope U mean to get my body shaking "
NO
I meant - treat you as an individual (because different women gets turned on in different ways) and then make your body shake. |
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"So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake
There's plenty that would like to try.
Hope U mean to get my body shaking
NO
I meant - treat you as an individual (because different women gets turned on in different ways) and then make your body shake. "
You have learnt well thats what i like to hear,rather than ' i can make you squirt' brigade |
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal."
where did you read this? |
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"So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake
There's plenty that would like to try.
Hope U mean to get my body shaking
NO
I meant - treat you as an individual (because different women gets turned on in different ways) and then make your body shake.
You have learnt well thats what i like to hear,rather than ' i can make you squirt' brigade "
It's a shame I'm not your type.  |
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"So called experts have tried and there attempts bore me,much prefer a man that treats me as an indivual and finds what turns me on,what makes my body shake
There's plenty that would like to try.
Hope U mean to get my body shaking
NO
I meant - treat you as an individual (because different women gets turned on in different ways) and then make your body shake.
You have learnt well thats what i like to hear,rather than ' i can make you squirt' brigade
It's a shame I'm not your type. "
Your not missing anything i dont squirt |
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I'm pretty sure all women have the capacity to do it. But it does involve a lot of mental flexibility, there has to be total Trust and a sense of completely giving yourself to the other person.
I've managed to make a fair amount of women do it but it only works if they want to. Mindset is everything |
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"Is this something any sexually aroused woman can do or is it just for porn movies?
Your thought?
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I used to be a squirter , I then had lazor treatment for pre cancerous cells and it stopped. I had a meet yesterday and omg after 3 years I was squirrting again. I now think it can happen if your enjoying the person your with. X |
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To all th squirters, Can you hold it in the squirting sensation I mean. I have never done it but I feel like I have had the sensation but just not let go. I got it through being just very very horny and touching myself without letting myself get to orgasm so it's lasting longer but after I go to the toilet and the liquid comes out really hard like I had a full bladder although I had been to the toilet before. And it was pretty clear, would you say this was squirting? Or was it just another pee lol. There was a lot of liquid. |
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"I'm pretty sure all women have the capacity to do it. But it does involve a lot of mental flexibility, there has to be total Trust and a sense of completely giving yourself to the other person.
I've managed to make a fair amount of women do it but it only works if they want to. Mindset is everything "
Mindset has a lot to do with sex but I have yet to see anyone quote sound biological evidence that this is something achievable by all women. In the meantime I think it would be good to let those who want to try and let those who don't want to not try. |
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Never happened here either not to say that I have got extreamly wet with the right guy. Gushing/ squirting is there a difference maybe a flood compared to a shower who knows I just like cumming |
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"Never happened here either not to say that I have got extreamly wet with the right guy. Gushing/ squirting is there a difference maybe a flood compared to a shower who knows I just like cumming "
This is a healthy attitude to sex. |
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"Couldn't really care less if it happens or not to be honest and fortunately my Partner would never treat me like a performing seal and try to make it happen.
The thought of stripping off the bed sheets and ruining the mattress far outweighs the pleasure surely? "
and if you both/all have had a great time, what does it matter |
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"Couldn't really care less if it happens or not to be honest and fortunately my Partner would never treat me like a performing seal and try to make it happen.
The thought of stripping off the bed sheets and ruining the mattress far outweighs the pleasure surely?
and if you both/all have had a great time, what does it matter "
Exactly..too much pressure in life as it is without the added competition of who can squirt the most in one evening |
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"To all th squirters, Can you hold it in the squirting sensation I mean. I have never done it but I feel like I have had the sensation but just not let go. I got it through being just very very horny and touching myself without letting myself get to orgasm so it's lasting longer but after I go to the toilet and the liquid comes out really hard like I had a full bladder although I had been to the toilet before. And it was pretty clear, would you say this was squirting? Or was it just another pee lol. There was a lot of liquid."
You can to a certain extent. In the bdsm world it can be a form of punishment/play/denial etc.
The longer you can hold it, the more satisfying the end result. Some like it, some don't, I love it! Over the years I have learnt the technique well and the simplest of touches can open the flood gates these days!! |
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!"
i dont think your coming across as arrogant. |
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lol some do some dont at the end of the day all said and done its the release of urine through stimulation of the urether and the skeens glsnd g spot area some skeen fluid is released but normaly the wet stuff is urine so watersports is what you got i personally love gushers plenty of drinking before you start but theniam on the dark side as well as swinging just be happy with what you got its all fun
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An awful lot of men on here who want to go on about how to to it, and about how clever they are if they can...
And a very noticeable absence of any interest in what women would actually like.....
Says it all really...!!!
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I really can't see the obsession with this. Surely its just something that happens if it happens. I'd much rather just explore and enjoy with someone on every level rather than try to win some kind of imaginary competition with myself. |
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"To all th squirters, Can you hold it in the squirting sensation I mean. I have never done it but I feel like I have had the sensation but just not let go. I got it through being just very very horny and touching myself without letting myself get to orgasm so it's lasting longer but after I go to the toilet and the liquid comes out really hard like I had a full bladder although I had been to the toilet before. And it was pretty clear, would you say this was squirting? Or was it just another pee lol. There was a lot of liquid.
You can to a certain extent. In the bdsm world it can be a form of punishment/play/denial etc.
The longer you can hold it, the more satisfying the end result. Some like it, some don't, I love it! Over the years I have learnt the technique well and the simplest of touches can open the flood gates these days!! "
It does feel satisfying wen it happens sometimes I just want to hold onto the feeling for ages because if I let go and let myself squirt of that's what it is the feeling goes. I feel nervous to do that whilst having sex though as I'm concerned if it feels the same as u need a pee, will it or will it not be pee lol. If u do make sure u go to the toilet beforehand will it for sure not be urine? And also if what I did was squirt it's guna get very wet on the bed lol, but like pee I can make it come out little by little just a power squirt here and there lol. |
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It's certainly feels good, a release...the fluid is not pee...it's very slippery , more like lube..I absolutely soak beds thro too the matress every time I have sex, this is why it's fair to put this on our profile...lol |
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"Is this something any sexually aroused woman can do or is it just for porn movies?
Your thought?
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I squirt almost every time its something I can control to a certain extent but only as a man could control his ejaculation xx |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"An awful lot of men on here who want to go on about how to to it, and about how clever they are if they can...
And a very noticeable absence of any interest in what women would actually like.....
Says it all really...!!!
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Hope you're not lumping me in with the "awful lot of men" that you refer to, but I suspect you are. Don't remember saying how clever I am, or otherwise. Nor do I feel I've been "going on". I think that nearly all men have an interest in what women actually like, but since that's not the subject of this thread I'm not sure how relevant the subject is in this context. My posts on this thread have been intended to inform and clarify. No more. However, it seems that this is an emotive subject to some extent and some posters have been quick to judge. To my mind, that says more about them than it does about me. |
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In my opinion there isn't enough evidence or research about the Skenes gland to justify the amount of fluid ejected during gushing. Possibly squirting a little but I'm still out on that indicates. It has not been scientifically proven yet so I will use my own experiences and try to enlighten men that want me to do it. When stimulated properly the feeling of a small squirt is quite nice, if somewhat of a shock , as I've never had a warning its coming-unlike male ejaculation. Gushing feels like waters breaking during childbirth and too much fluid for my liking and can leave my insides feeling uncomfortable |
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I never squirted until I hit 40..and then it was only once . until I met a certain young man who knew just where to touch and had me gushing, squirting and then having multiple orgasms when he was inside of me..I think it may be about technique as he had me gushing within minutes of touching me and no, I was not expecting it at all! |
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By *lPulpoCouple
over a year ago
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"In my opinion there isn't enough evidence or research about the Skenes gland to justify the amount of fluid ejected during gushing. Possibly squirting a little but I'm still out on that indicates. It has not been scientifically proven yet so I will use my own experiences and try to enlighten men that want me to do it. When stimulated properly the feeling of a small squirt is quite nice, if somewhat of a shock , as I've never had a warning its coming-unlike male ejaculation. Gushing feels like waters breaking during childbirth and too much fluid for my liking and can leave my insides feeling uncomfortable "
Absolutely agree with you that the jury is out on the actual mechanics involved. It's very much a subject of contention. TBH, I'm not sure that's really important though. So long as it doesn't do someone any harm and they enjoy it, I'll leave the research and definition to other folk. |
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Hi guy's my partner after 25 years started squirting a bit when we started swinging now she can actually ejaculate it out but it leaves her very weak and dehydrated for some reason our fb can really make her squirt lol it is quite a lot of juice that comes out as well and its not piss |
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I have met quite a few who squirt, including my partner, so it is real. Some ladies do it more than others of course. I have had to buy waterproof covers for the beds for parties! |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"In my opinion there isn't enough evidence or research about the Skenes gland to justify the amount of fluid ejected during gushing. Possibly squirting a little but I'm still out on that indicates. It has not been scientifically proven yet so I will use my own experiences and try to enlighten men that want me to do it. When stimulated properly the feeling of a small squirt is quite nice, if somewhat of a shock , as I've never had a warning its coming-unlike male ejaculation. Gushing feels like waters breaking during childbirth and too much fluid for my liking and can leave my insides feeling uncomfortable "
I agree and as my job entails knowing the anatomy the research profoundly shows there is no storage for the amount of fluid from any gland or the ability to ejaculate. There r many ways for a woman to orgasm and how much fluid produced to does not prove it to be a more intense orgasm. Too many search for the squirt/gush rather than focus on how the orgasm feels for the woman. But lastly to all know all it isnt pee ppl... guess what it is but with cum mixed in. Relax and accept this and many ppl may actually enjoy this alternative way to orgasm. |
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL"
Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results. |
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL
Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results."
Agreed. Squirting is not an orgasm. I have had the two combined but that rarely happens.
For me it isn't about seeing results. Its the intensity of the feeling from the stimulation I get which leads to the squirt or gush. I love a good orgasm but the stimulation that leads to squirting or gushing is a totally different feeling for me that consumes me more so than anything else I've experienced.
But that's me.
And if I could have that feeling minus the soaking mess...I would love it.
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL
Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results.
Agreed. Squirting is not an orgasm. I have had the two combined but that rarely happens.
For me it isn't about seeing results. Its the intensity of the feeling from the stimulation I get which leads to the squirt or gush. I love a good orgasm but the stimulation that leads to squirting or gushing is a totally different feeling for me that consumes me more so than anything else I've experienced.
But that's me.
And if I could have that feeling minus the soaking mess...I would love it.
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL
Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results.
Agreed. Squirting is not an orgasm. I have had the two combined but that rarely happens.
For me it isn't about seeing results. Its the intensity of the feeling from the stimulation I get which leads to the squirt or gush. I love a good orgasm but the stimulation that leads to squirting or gushing is a totally different feeling for me that consumes me more so than anything else I've experienced.
But that's me.
And if I could have that feeling minus the soaking mess...I would love it.
Result from the male _iewpoint not the female."
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"the guys who only use their fingers to do this are charlatans, as I've said many times before, learn to do it properly "
Am I a charlatan then I can achieve squirting by clitoral stimulation alone , have to be really horned up in the mind tho ..
Normally I can achieve it with clitoral stimulation and penetration , with a dildo . I cant achieve it by fingering myself , guys can achieve it when fingering me if im stimulating my clit ..
Ive always said sex starts with the mind , first ... Relax ... Theres no rush |
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"Hi,
Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL
Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results.
Agreed. Squirting is not an orgasm. I have had the two combined but that rarely happens.
For me it isn't about seeing results. Its the intensity of the feeling from the stimulation I get which leads to the squirt or gush. I love a good orgasm but the stimulation that leads to squirting or gushing is a totally different feeling for me that consumes me more so than anything else I've experienced.
But that's me.
And if I could have that feeling minus the soaking mess...I would love it.
Result from the male _iewpoint not the female."
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"the guys who only use their fingers to do this are charlatans, as I've said many times before, learn to do it properly
Am I a charlatan then I can achieve squirting by clitoral stimulation alone , have to be really horned up in the mind tho ..
Normally I can achieve it with clitoral stimulation and penetration , with a dildo . I cant achieve it by fingering myself , guys can achieve it when fingering me if im stimulating my clit ..
Ive always said sex starts with the mind , first ... Relax ... Theres no rush "
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"the guys who only use their fingers to do this are charlatans, as I've said many times before, learn to do it properly
Am I a charlatan then I can achieve squirting by clitoral stimulation alone , have to be really horned up in the mind tho ..
Normally I can achieve it with clitoral stimulation and penetration , with a dildo . I cant achieve it by fingering myself , guys can achieve it when fingering me if im stimulating my clit ..
Ive always said sex starts with the mind , first ... Relax ... Theres no rush "
why are you a bloke, I said the guys are charalatans, you know how to do it |
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Just the word. The word "squirt" alone. Sounds gross to me. The guy that has a mission to "make" me squirt puts me off also. And if I ever went with a woman and she done what felt like a piss in my mouth, I think I would be sick. |
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"the guys who only use their fingers to do this are charlatans, as I've said many times before, learn to do it properly "
I'm sorry, but I just find that attitude incredibly silly. The notion that there's a wrong and a right way or a particular body part to stimulate one's sexual parter just leaves me speechless with wonder. Surely, the whole ethos of swinging is to be open-minded. To experience freedom and release oneself from inhibition. This dogmatic and judgemental position is laughable. |
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal."
Really!? My goodness I thought it was referred to as squirting typically...at least on these fora. Read any of the other numerous squirting threads and you will find that women say it is not an orgasm and I believe they are best qualified to say regardless of semantics. |
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal."
When did you last personally have a female ejaculatory orgasm? Assuming this is how you know.
I would never, never, never swap my (fairly easily achieved) full body, sweaty, wet and awesome orgasms for some bloke fiddling around near my 'g-spot' determined to produce a geyser cos he likes the results. I think it feels horrible. |
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"the guys who only use their fingers to do this are charlatans, as I've said many times before, learn to do it properly
I'm sorry, but I just find that attitude incredibly silly. The notion that there's a wrong and a right way or a particular body part to stimulate one's sexual parter just leaves me speechless with wonder. Surely, the whole ethos of swinging is to be open-minded. To experience freedom and release oneself from inhibition. This dogmatic and judgemental position is laughable."
believe me,when you're talking about making a woman squirt there is a wrong and right way. It isn't caused by sexual stimulation,it's a physical reaction caused by pressure and nerve stimulation |
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal.
When did you last personally have a female ejaculatory orgasm? Assuming this is how you know.
I would never, never, never swap my (fairly easily achieved) full body, sweaty, wet and awesome orgasms for some bloke fiddling around near my 'g-spot' determined to produce a geyser cos he likes the results. I think it feels horrible."
well said. For the ladies who squirt or enjoy female ejaculatory orgasms I think it's great and I hope it continues to be so for those if us who don't I feel the same way. It really doesn't matter and when it becomes a point scoring exercise with some men assuming that women need to be told what is and is not an orgasm is when it becomes risible. Enjoy sex in any legal, consensual way you want to, call it what you like as long as it feels good and don't let anyone else tell you what or how you should be doing it. |
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"Just the word. The word "squirt" alone. Sounds gross to me. The guy that has a mission to "make" me squirt puts me off also. And if I ever went with a woman and she done what felt like a piss in my mouth, I think I would be sick. "
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal.
When did you last personally have a female ejaculatory orgasm? Assuming this is how you know.
I would never, never, never swap my (fairly easily achieved) full body, sweaty, wet and awesome orgasms for some bloke fiddling around near my 'g-spot' determined to produce a geyser cos he likes the results. I think it feels horrible.
well said. For the ladies who squirt or enjoy female ejaculatory orgasms I think it's great and I hope it continues to be so for those if us who don't I feel the same way. It really doesn't matter and when it becomes a point scoring exercise with some men assuming that women need to be told what is and is not an orgasm is when it becomes risible. Enjoy sex in any legal, consensual way you want to, call it what you like as long as it feels good and don't let anyone else tell you what or how you should be doing it."
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"Just the word. The word "squirt" alone. Sounds gross to me. The guy that has a mission to "make" me squirt puts me off also. And if I ever went with a woman and she done what felt like a piss in my mouth, I think I would be sick.
Agree. I would hope a woman would warn me first. "
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And please, stop assuming that women don't do this because they're not turned on enough, or haven't yet experienced your technique. That's as tiresome as the "you'd come from my blowjob" comments.
It's not necessarily about relaxation or enough arousal, for some of us who know our bodies better than a casual meet could ever do, it simply feels unpleasant when the area is stimulated. And for many ladies it happens but there is no pleasure.
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"An awful lot of men on here who want to go on about how to to it, and about how clever they are if they can...
And a very noticeable absence of any interest in what women would actually like.....
Says it all really...!!!
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Why has it all become sex by numbers?
The first thing I learnt was that no woman is ever the same. You cannot learn a technique that works on all women - its just not possable.
If men approached all women like a strange but new island and explored it properly, instead of charging in with no clue. I dare say there would be a lot more satisfied ladies on Fab.
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal.
When did you last personally have a female ejaculatory orgasm? Assuming this is how you know.
I would never, never, never swap my (fairly easily achieved) full body, sweaty, wet and awesome orgasms for some bloke fiddling around near my 'g-spot' determined to produce a geyser cos he likes the results. I think it feels horrible.
well said. For the ladies who squirt or enjoy female ejaculatory orgasms I think it's great and I hope it continues to be so for those if us who don't I feel the same way. It really doesn't matter and when it becomes a point scoring exercise with some men assuming that women need to be told what is and is not an orgasm is when it becomes risible. Enjoy sex in any legal, consensual way you want to, call it what you like as long as it feels good and don't let anyone else tell you what or how you should be doing it."
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"Why has it all become sex by numbers?
The first thing I learnt was that no woman is ever the same. You cannot learn a technique that works on all women - its just not possable.
If men approached all women like a strange but new island and explored it properly, instead of charging in with no clue. I dare say there would be a lot more satisfied ladies on Fab.
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sorry about all the thumbs, but you all are saying everything I am thinking as I am reading this thread. |
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Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results."
So very true. An orgasm is a full body and head rush, squirting is an involuntary release of pressure, no full body and head rush (unless on a very very rare occasion the 2 happen at the same time.)
Too many men are too goal-orientated, and it really is a turn off. |
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sometimes i wonder im not looking like a shrivelled up prune i lose so much fluid - he knows my body so well he can, does and loves to make me squirt, it is a lot about overcoming that need to pee feeling and once done it is a completely different sensation altogether - its more horny because he loves it - but it is messy  |
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"Why has it all become sex by numbers?
The first thing I learnt was that no woman is ever the same. You cannot learn a technique that works on all women - its just not possable.
If men approached all women like a strange but new island and explored it properly, instead of charging in with no clue. I dare say there would be a lot more satisfied ladies on Fab.
sorry about all the thumbs, but you all are saying everything I am thinking as I am reading this thread."
No that's fine. Thumbs is good. I'm glad you agree. It does amuse me when I watch other men try to make my wife orgasm and they all do the same thing. They hammer away like jack hammers - making themselves exhausted and hurting her in the process.
I mean, why don't they just ask? Its not difficult? Its only 4 words "what makes you cum?"
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"sometimes i wonder im not looking like a shrivelled up prune i lose so much fluid - he knows my body so well he can, does and loves to make me squirt, it is a lot about overcoming that need to pee feeling and once done it is a completely different sensation altogether - its more horny because he loves it - but it is messy "
Haha, shrivelled up prune, I just about managed not to snort tea. |
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"sometimes i wonder im not looking like a shrivelled up prune i lose so much fluid - he knows my body so well he can, does and loves to make me squirt, it is a lot about overcoming that need to pee feeling and once done it is a completely different sensation altogether - its more horny because he loves it - but it is messy
Haha, shrivelled up prune, I just about managed not to snort tea."
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"Why has it all become sex by numbers?
The first thing I learnt was that no woman is ever the same. You cannot learn a technique that works on all women - its just not possable.
If men approached all women like a strange but new island and explored it properly, instead of charging in with no clue. I dare say there would be a lot more satisfied ladies on Fab.
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I'd prefer my outer flesh stimulated more than my inner. The skin is the biggest organ on your body has millions of nerve endings. You can lick,suck,bite,blow and many other things to stimulate |
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Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results.
So very true. An orgasm is a full body and head rush, squirting is an involuntary release of pressure, no full body and head rush (unless on a very very rare occasion the 2 happen at the same time.)
Too many men are too goal-orientated, and it really is a turn off. "
Totally agree ,,, guys should be respectful and attentive to a woman's needs ,,, ((( jumps up in air and says pick me pick me lol ))) |
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Personally I find squirting quite off putting. The first time it happened to me I was totally aghast. I honestly thought the woman was seeing on me. When you have your mouth open and tongue sticking out and suddenly it's being filled with an unknown liquid from an unknown reservoir !!!!
I have to say it's not for me. Moist ( a favorite word of mine) and wet is more than enough for me. |
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Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results.
So very true. An orgasm is a full body and head rush, squirting is an involuntary release of pressure, no full body and head rush (unless on a very very rare occasion the 2 happen at the same time.)
Too many men are too goal-orientated, and it really is a turn off.
Totally agree ,,, guys should be respectful and attentive to a woman's needs ,,, ((( jumps up in air and says pick me pick me lol )))"
Haha!
To be fair it's not most guys, just some.
But it's a bit bloody annoying when someone tries to infer they understand how something feels for a woman when they will never know.
Every man does not come from a blowjob, neither would I expect them to or assume I cam make them come, and I may yet meet a man who doesn't enjoy it. If they cover my face and mouth in spunk though from enjoying oral, glorious! |
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Squirting is not orgasm. Orgasm is orgasm. And if a guy was fixated on trying to make me squirt it would be a total turn-off for me. There is nothing better than climax, squirting is a fad that isn't actually about pleasure but about seeing results.
So very true. An orgasm is a full body and head rush, squirting is an involuntary release of pressure, no full body and head rush (unless on a very very rare occasion the 2 happen at the same time.)
Too many men are too goal-orientated, and it really is a turn off.
Totally agree ,,, guys should be respectful and attentive to a woman's needs ,,, ((( jumps up in air and says pick me pick me lol )))
Haha!
To be fair it's not most guys, just some.
But it's a bit bloody annoying when someone tries to infer they understand how something feels for a woman when they will never know.
Every man does not come from a blowjob, neither would I expect them to or assume I cam make them come, and I may yet meet a man who doesn't enjoy it. If they cover my face and mouth in spunk though from enjoying oral, glorious!"
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"We would welcome any tips or advice "
If you google "how to make a woman squirt" there are Youtube videos on g-spot stimulation!!
I gush and squirt! I definitely agree though that not every man can achieve this. In my experience I need to be relaxed with the guy, very turned on and then...the flood gates open! Just shoving fingers up will have no affect other than a possible kick in his bollocks!!
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Firstly I am not being arrogant or big headed but with the right finger technique you can make any lady squirt, as long as they are relaxed, its simply technique and experience, its an amazing connection, I love it!
I agree. I believe that any woman can have these orgasms. Some find it easier and some find it more difficult but often I think this will depend on circumstances rather than biology. The secrets are relaxation, stimulation and willingness.
Firstly, the squirtee needs to believe that it will happen and that the person who's stimulating her knows what they're doing. She needs to be as relaxed as possible, and especially the stomach muscles, which, quite often means as little clitoral stimulation as possible. A nice long massage often helps.
The G-spot needs to be stimulated in the right way and you need to be looking for specific tell-tale signals. Also, a certain amount of pressure on the lower belly, usually with the flat of the hand, can improve stimulation.
I say willingness but really what I mean is that the woman in question needs to overcome the feeling that she's about to pee, since the sensation of an impending ejaculatory orgasm is rather similar ( so I'm told! ) and allow her partner to continue the stimulation. It may be helpful to have a pee in advance so that you know it's not going to happen. Oh! And in case anyone brings this up, it's not, I repeat, NOT urine.
Once a woman has experienced it, she'll be able to recognise the sensations much more easily in future and have these orgasms much more easily. One last point is that, so long as her partner maintains the stimulation, these orgasms will come in waves, one after the other, at maybe 20-30 second intervals. Once a partner and I experimented and she managed to keep this up for over 10 minutes.
Yeah. I'm sorry it sounds a bit clinical. In reality it's incredibly exciting for all concerned. 10 minutes of rolling orgasms? Yeah. Nufiin' special!! LOL"
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Personally I find squirting quite off putting. The first time it happened to me I was totally aghast. I honestly thought the woman was seeing on me. When you have your mouth open and tongue sticking out and suddenly it's being filled with an unknown liquid from an unknown reservoir !!!!
I have to say it's not for me. Moist ( a favorite word of mine) and wet is more than enough for me. "
Eewwww. I would feel the same. I hope all these squirty types warn people beforehand. In my book it's as bad as a guy coming in your mouth unexpectedly.
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"But squirting doesn't = orgasm that much I do know.
Think we're probably getting into semantics here but, when compared to the usual definitions for "Orgasm", a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm, which is how it's typically described, it tends to fit the definition pretty well. I certainly can't think of a better name for it. Certainly not "Squirting", which I consider to be rather banal.
When did you last personally have a female ejaculatory orgasm? Assuming this is how you know.
I would never, never, never swap my (fairly easily achieved) full body, sweaty, wet and awesome orgasms for some bloke fiddling around near my 'g-spot' determined to produce a geyser cos he likes the results. I think it feels horrible."
Not sure who you're addressing there. I was not responsible for the first line of your quote and don't claim to "know" any more than anyone else about the subject. Certainly not more than any women who have experienced this phenomenon herself. As for whether a man tries to elicit this reaction solely because of the result, this is an assumption. Personally, if I were to be looking for a result at all, other than the pleasure of my partner, it would be the look of joy on her face at having found a new response in her body that she had not experienced before. I would take no satisfaction at having caused my partner to ejaculate, per se, unless she had enjoyed it. |
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I've been lucky enough to make every woman I've had sex with squirt some more powerful then others but they have all ended up squirting in my mouth most of the time and it would of been rude of me if I didnt swallow every last drop after all us men expect women to swallow our cum so why cant we swallow theirs?  |
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"I've been lucky enough to make every woman I've had sex with squirt some more powerful then others but they have all ended up squirting in my mouth most of the time and it would of been rude of me if I didnt swallow every last drop after all us men expect women to swallow our cum so why cant we swallow theirs? "
i dont think men EXPECT us to swallow |
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