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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight 
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved "
These guys in particular are called "Strays" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get looked at a lot by bi and bi-curious guy's but they don't message me. Mind you nor do the straight ones
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Ok maybe one or two but just friends recently who message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved "
Glittery Pink !!!! That's very stereotypical isn't it ??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved
Glittery Pink !!!! That's very stereotypical isn't it ???"
Yes and ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved
Glittery Pink !!!! That's very stereotypical isn't it ???
Yes and ? "
I'm sure gay guys like other colours too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do a Google search for 'klein grid bisexuality' Really interesting read.(sorry serious head on lol) Goes into depth about bi sexuality and the different 'types'. My money is on 'latent bisexual' (though doubt they would label themselves that) |
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved
Glittery Pink !!!! That's very stereotypical isn't it ???
Yes and ?
I'm sure gay guys like other colours too "
Now this is a strange one...
A straight guy appearing to take umbrage at what the overly sensitive may perceive as a homophobic remark but obviously made with tongue firmly in cheek by a couple where the male half is bi.
Is this irony?
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my personal experience the definitions on here are a bit skewed. The people who have contacted me and say they are bisexual are I'd say are mainly homosexual in that they predominately sleep with men. The people who define themselves as bicurious are what you might consider bisexual and the 'straight' guys you mention are a bit 'bicurious'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved
Glittery Pink !!!! That's very stereotypical isn't it ???
Yes and ?
I'm sure gay guys like other colours too
Now this is a strange one...
A straight guy appearing to take umbrage at what the overly sensitive may perceive as a homophobic remark but obviously made with tongue firmly in cheek by a couple where the male half is bi.
Is this irony?
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Is irony like 'silvery' and 'goldy' but iron coloured? |
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved
Glittery Pink !!!! That's very stereotypical isn't it ???
Yes and ?
I'm sure gay guys like other colours too
Now this is a strange one...
A straight guy appearing to take umbrage at what the overly sensitive may perceive as a homophobic remark but obviously made with tongue firmly in cheek by a couple where the male half is bi.
Is this irony?
Is irony like 'silvery' and 'goldy' but iron coloured? "
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"In my personal experience the definitions on here are a bit skewed. The people who have contacted me and say they are bisexual are I'd say are mainly homosexual in that they predominately sleep with men. The people who define themselves as bicurious are what you might consider bisexual and the 'straight' guys you mention are a bit 'bicurious'."
That probably sums up a lot of the people alright. J
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I don't mind guys being in denial or confused if they are really bi or not it's the guys that say I only put straight because I get loads of messages off guys I mean come on really?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about having 'straight' in all of the colours of the rainbow?
Or rather than 'straight' it says:
'acquaintance of Dorothy.'
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I think this is another good solution  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"See I don't mind guys being in denial or confused if they are really bi or not it's the guys that say I only put straight because I get loads of messages off guys I mean come on really?? "
I agree. But the worst are the ones that put bi or bi cur on profile to try attract bi cpls and then say they are straight!! Wasting everyone's time in the process. I have chatted to a few cpls who have had this experience. J x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I don't mind guys being in denial or confused if they are really bi or not it's the guys that say I only put straight because I get loads of messages off guys I mean come on really?? "
I get that one all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like to experiment and see what it's like. Don't know what category that makes me fall into but I have straight on my profile as I have meet people on this that I've known since school and I just don't have the confidence to put up curious on my profile for fear it would be seen and be spread around. Not that there is anything wrong with that at all anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it would be better if they just put bi on there profile rather than straight in a stereotypical colour.Or maybe when you click on there profile it should play the YMCA tune. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I don't mind guys being in denial or confused if they are really bi or not it's the guys that say I only put straight because I get loads of messages off guys I mean come on really?? "
that could be true actual i get a twat load of messages from blokes
mines loud n proud on my profile infact i'm thinking of changing it to full bi, when does bi experimenting become full bi? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heard some people say they are Bi-Sensual or Bi-Playful as in they would never date same sex or have a relationship with another Guy just a female as dont find guys attractive but enjoy in the moment having sex with them.
Just to balance it out there are as many women on here in couples who claim to be bi who are just doing it for their partners and not really into girls so works both ways. Pillow Princesses they are known as
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One issue I have noticed is a LOT of couples have in their profile something along the lines of "NO BI MEN!!!!"
Clearly the guy in those couples has a deep seated fear that even if he allows a bi guy in his house he is going to have to suck cock or something.
This plus the fact that when I joined I was constantly messaged by other guys are the reasons I changed mine to straight.(If I want a guy they are easy to pick up, joined this site for the women lol)
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By (user no longer on site)
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This plus the fact that when I joined I was constantly messaged by other guys are the reasons I changed mine to straight.(If I want a guy they are easy to pick up, joined this site for the women lol)
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I thought this would be a problem too but since I changed my profile from straight to bi, actually I have seen no increase in amount of guys who message me. Its not many, maybe 2 or 3 per week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One issue I have noticed is a LOT of couples have in their profile something along the lines of "NO BI MEN!!!!"
Clearly the guy in those couples has a deep seated fear that even if he allows a bi guy in his house he is going to have to suck cock or something.
This plus the fact that when I joined I was constantly messaged by other guys are the reasons I changed mine to straight.(If I want a guy they are easy to pick up, joined this site for the women lol)
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Maybe it's the female saying 'No Bi Men'?
And as for guys messaging you? They're easy to filter out or just ignore.
I've always laughed at those that say no bi men assuming they're all camp, cock fixated individuals - when the term 'bi' signifies they're happy to play with both, and I've met many a bi guy at clubs, parties and in couples we've met that's far butcher and straight acting than most straight guys! But assuming it's the guy saying no is wrong. |
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"One issue I have noticed is a LOT of couples have in their profile something along the lines of "NO BI MEN!!!!"
Clearly the guy in those couples has a deep seated fear that even if he allows a bi guy in his house he is going to have to suck cock or something.
This plus the fact that when I joined I was constantly messaged by other guys are the reasons I changed mine to straight.(If I want a guy they are easy to pick up, joined this site for the women lol)
Maybe it's the female saying 'No Bi Men'?
And as for guys messaging you? They're easy to filter out or just ignore.
I've always laughed at those that say no bi men assuming they're all camp, cock fixated individuals - when the term 'bi' signifies they're happy to play with both, and I've met many a bi guy at clubs, parties and in couples we've met that's far butcher and straight acting than most straight guys! But assuming it's the guy saying no is wrong."
Fair enough, I have met women who refuse to sleep with bi men but I really can't think of any reason why.
My issue is I'm not exactly a model so I get pretty much ignored on here anyway, by putting myself down as bi I would then also cut off all those who refuse to meet with bi guys, even though I am looking for straight sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following on from an actual straight guys thread, querying why he gets messages from other guys.
So as a bi couple most of our messages are from straight guys!! Like a recent message exchange which started off with a guy who was curious to try bi who then went onto say he had had a few experiences including Anal with other guys. Not sure at which point he would consider he was actually no longer straight
So how about a new system on fab for all these "straight" guys in denial. Why don't Fab create a new word for them.
I propose they still can call themselves straight but the word is written in glittery pink and in italic. Problem solved "
They're not straight, just a bit bent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One issue I have noticed is a LOT of couples have in their profile something along the lines of "NO BI MEN!!!!"
Clearly the guy in those couples has a deep seated fear that even if he allows a bi guy in his house he is going to have to suck cock or something.
This plus the fact that when I joined I was constantly messaged by other guys are the reasons I changed mine to straight.(If I want a guy they are easy to pick up, joined this site for the women lol)
Maybe it's the female saying 'No Bi Men'?
And as for guys messaging you? They're easy to filter out or just ignore.
I've always laughed at those that say no bi men assuming they're all camp, cock fixated individuals - when the term 'bi' signifies they're happy to play with both, and I've met many a bi guy at clubs, parties and in couples we've met that's far butcher and straight acting than most straight guys! But assuming it's the guy saying no is wrong.
Fair enough, I have met women who refuse to sleep with bi men but I really can't think of any reason why.
My issue is I'm not exactly a model so I get pretty much ignored on here anyway, by putting myself down as bi I would then also cut off all those who refuse to meet with bi guys, even though I am looking for straight sex."
If you only looking for straight sex. Just keep it as 'straight'. No need to shout out whether you bi or anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In the name of equality this also applies to women.
Bi Selfish, you can do things to me, but I won't do it back.
Bi Playful, only when playing in a 3sum or more.
Bi Social, do a little touching.
Bi phobic, won't be in the same room, in case I catch it.
BI sexual, happy to play with men or women one a 1 to 1.
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It took a long time to change my profile to Bi mostly due to the negative attitudes of others and not just on this site, so I can understand some people wanting to keep it under wraps but its a bit hypocritical to then go messaging Bi couples and men. |
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