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Full swap in open room !

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had a conversation yesterday with someone telling me 2 couples met and had full swap at a club with open door ,, one of the women ended up being fisted by a bloke who just joined in , she asked him to stop because he was hurting her but he continued anyway causing her damage ,, My question was why didn't her husband or swap partner stop this bloke ??? The answer I got was hubby was on another planet enjoying him self with swap partner and her male swap partner thought she was ok ,, ?? Resulting her to be physically and emotionally damaged ,,,, how can a bloke be that far indulged and not know what's going on next to him on the bed with his wife ,,,,,,,, fact or fiction ??? I'm not sure ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Either he is a prick or it's bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So she wasnt capable of getting up and stopping it herself???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Good point , x

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By *atasha_DavidCouple over a year ago

Slough

Shall I break out the pitchforks and flaming torches?

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"So she wasnt capable of getting up and stopping it herself???"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is no way on earth that a situation like that would ever occur with my OH and I,no matter what is going on each of us would always check to make sure the other is ok and to enjoy whats going on

Secondly any man who ignored me saying no would have my own fist to deal with,followed swiftly by my OHs

Can a man just walk up to a woman and fist her? I find that really hard to believe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If some bloke did that to me I'd shout / scream at him to stop ; move to get away and then slap the twat. WTF

Oh then I'd have very strong words with my partner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have jumped up and stopped something myself.

If he is to busy to look after her, she needed to do it herself

Best to keep your wits about yourself.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That's why I said fact or fiction ,, we think it's bollox ,, maybe it's her fantasy or something ,, but either way he would have the imprint of my fellas fist I can assure u and mine x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Either he is a prick or it's bollocks"

While I'd be lying if I said crystal was always the centre of my attention in a group scenario I can tell you with 100% certainty id know withim seconds if she wasn't ok and I'd certainly know if someone joined in uninvited

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds a bit far fetched. If any guy tried to do that to me, partner in tow or not u'd punch him in the face or knee him in the bollocks. He'd soon get off then lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't really see this happening. Everyone knows that NO means NO. And why was he allowed to join in. Can't think a guy would just join in and fist her. But do agree that her OH should always be aware what is going on with his Mrs on the same bed.

If it is real then feel sorry for her but as others have saud why didn't she hit out at him or scream. Do something. that would get a reaction from others. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't had to stop something as bad as that.

What I have noticed about some men with their partners ( not all I stress) once there, the interest in the partner has gone.

You know where the score and respect is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

wtf , hubby should have said something , she should have said something, but mainly the other guy should never have been there doing anything or at least stopped when he was told, if he was told to stop that is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is no way on earth that a situation like that would ever occur with my OH and I,no matter what is going on each of us would always check to make sure the other is ok and to enjoy whats going on

Secondly any man who ignored me saying no would have my own fist to deal with,followed swiftly by my OHs

Can a man just walk up to a woman and fist her? I find that really hard to believe

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr shy would have done some fisting of his own! But not in a sexual nature and certainly not to me!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Either he is a prick or it's bollocks"

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Secondly any man who ignored me saying no would have my own fist to deal with,followed swiftly by my OHs

Can a man just walk up to a woman and fist her? I find that really hard to believe

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By *aturasqCouple over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Isn't it a criminal offence ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I go to clubs on my own so have no one to look out for me, but I've always found that everyone is aware if something isn't right and would soon help if I needed it.....

Actually, I'd just smack him myself!!!

But it's still nice to know people are aware xx

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'm often a single at clubs, I'd stop it myself...I've only ever had to tell a bloke once (it was at an après social party and I said if he didn't stop grabbing my hand and putting it on his cock I'd rip it off for him), that did the trick...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm often a single at clubs, I'd stop it myself...I've only ever had to tell a bloke once (it was at an après social party and I said if he didn't stop grabbing my hand and putting it on his cock I'd rip it off for him), that did the trick..."

what was his name? *innocently asking*

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

what was his name? *innocently asking*

Not a Fabster of course, all my meets from here have been perfect gentlemen (and ladies)

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By *unPeteMan over a year ago

Near Bristol

Fact ... if you make the assumption that she allowed him to start fisting her.

Hubby looks over and sees his wife enjoying her swap partner and the new man. So hubby carries on enjoying himself.

Then the fisting becomes painful but the new guy ignores her and carries on. I would imagine it doesn't take many seconds to do a lot of damage once a fist is inside a vagina.

Before her hubby or swap partner realizes it ... damage has been done.

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By *aceytopWoman over a year ago

from a town near you

howcan you be fisted if you don't want it to happen,first you have to relax surely.its not true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it a bit hard to believe that a woman coold be fisted against her will in the situation described.

I do however agree that a guy should always ensure that his partner is ok and happy even if he is also playing. Its a very low thing to do if all you concern yourself is with getting your own pleasure and not ensuring she is safe and happy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It doesnt add up. Ok, it is hear say stuff, but based on these details, something is either missed out, glossed over, or a huge load of bull shit was let loose at the time. Experienced swingers would not let this happen and I think fresh swingers would be even less likely to relax for this to transpire outside of awareness of her partner. If they were sober, then they likely could and would not have got into this. And a stranger does not really just walk through an open door and find his fist deep in her, unless he has had a bad trip and was catapulted via a rubber contraption to repeat fist her over and over, until it got rough and nasty. No, it does not seem like the clubs, swingers or scenarios that I know or could imagine may happen. I am wrong sometimes, but try to rely on gut instinct. At least clubs deal appropriately with any real wrong doings.

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By *eno_2004Man over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Sounds a little far fetched as I can only imaging she wasn't quiet while damage was done and unless you're in a coma the whole Club would have heard

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