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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have a FB who does not swing. She has given me freedom in terms of the bedroom. She has said for me to take charge and do anything i choose. (Except introducing male/female and anal). This is were i come stuck and want to give her a great experience but she wont give any clues or advice.

Any help would be great - espe ially from women

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Blindfold her, handcuff her then masturbate her with a banana, then eat the banana out of her pussy except for the last bit which you feed to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Visit a club,no pressure to play and you both may enjoy watching/being watched.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Visit a club,no pressure to play and you both may enjoy watching/being watched."

she wants it just us ' hence not wanting to introduce msle/female. Thanks though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Visit a club,no pressure to play and you both may enjoy watching/being watched.

she wants it just us ' hence not wanting to introduce msle/female. Thanks though"

He didn't say anything about inviting anyone else. He was basically saying you two both go to a club and be watched having sex (if that happens) or watching others

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok sorry - i can not involve anyone else in anyshape or form. She wants it to be just us two as she does not swing nor enjoy watching porn.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Ok sorry - i can not involve anyone else in anyshape or form. She wants it to be just us two as she does not swing nor enjoy watching porn. "

Then you have to respect her wishes and not coerce her into something she feels uncomfortable with. If that's not working for you then you need to call it a day.

Have you tried light bondage or toys? Don't know what you've done with her so hard to suggest anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

maybe she hasn't given you clues because she doesn't really know herself? i'd say your onto a winner mate you can spend hours finding out how to really blow each others minds sexually, try an all over body massage with good oils the works, tease areas let your hands do the work and you'll feel the difference when it's a place that pushes her buttons, but use nothing but your hands! the sex will come later!

just enjoy each other mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok sorry - i can not involve anyone else in anyshape or form. She wants it to be just us two as she does not swing nor enjoy watching porn.

Then you have to respect her wishes and not coerce her into something she feels uncomfortable with. If that's not working for you then you need to call it a day.

We are just looking to spice things up and explore more. We have done role plays and some light spanking. I am thinking of getting a paddle or whip. Any ideas of anything else we could try? Or some good role plays?

We always seem to go for the hooker and customer thing. She likes a power thing and likes me to take charge.

Have you tried light bondage or toys? Don't know what you've done with her so hard to suggest anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

from what your saying in your original post sounds to me that she wants to be dominated ,, start with light bondage and blindfolds with sensual play ,, but you will need to talk about if she wants anything more in that line ,, but untill you try something you and she wont know whether it suits you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"from what your saying in your original post sounds to me that she wants to be dominated ,, start with light bondage and blindfolds with sensual play ,, but you will need to talk about if she wants anything more in that line ,, but untill you try something you and she wont know whether it suits you "

thank you. Can you suggest toys/ props?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

squirty cream .. sauces ( sweet ones .. not tomato or hp ) fruit pieces .. chocolate buttons

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Scarves, neckties, handcuffs, riding crops, fancy dress, food play, feathers, oils, taking pics of each other or you both together, role play, masks (start with Venetian style), playing in shower/bath, different positions, toys (vibrators, dildos, bullets, clitoral stimulators, vibrating cock rings), breast play, pulling her hair... The options can still be many

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