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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For goodness sake...single guys specially.
put a couple of facepics up at the very least in your private section how do you expect a woman too choose you when looking?..just by a cock pic? dont think so, we dont just fuck you because of your cock...we like to be fucked by someone we fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For goodness sake...single guys specially.
put a couple of facepics up at the very least in your private section how do you expect a woman too choose you when looking?..just by a cock pic? dont think so, we dont just fuck you because of your cock...we like to be fucked by someone we fancy. "
I just block them and find someone else.
otherwise you can waste a lot of time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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message them show your interest and ask to be added as friends and share photos as we speak to each other. countless guys just send or have a barrage of cock pics.if any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ask people in my profile to send a face pic as its only polite to know who you're talking to at the very least. If they don't I'll politely ask for one when I reply to their first message. The amount of bizarre excuses some come out with to not send one is unreal so I just move on. One guy recently said he didn't have a face pic on here at all and could he send it by text/e-mail. Well no, I don't give out personal contact details unless I've arranged to meet. I understand people's need for discretion but I often wonder how some people meet at all! |
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"message them show your interest and ask to be added as friends and share photos as we speak to each other. countless guys just send or have a barrage of cock pics.if any."
I deliberately have no cock pics on my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many people say 'it's a personality that matters'.
Then - Face and cock pics come second. I have them available in my Friends section. I do send them in a message if asked for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it moan about single guys day today?
I thought it was pancake day...."
Totally forgot!! 
I think most guys have face pics but in friend only or private. Most of mine are in private because it's my profile and I don't want to share them with everyone. Simples.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a serious note, those that don't have them on display are normally willing to share if you ask so I don't see what the problem is. I only have mine set to private so I must be as bad as the single guys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the vast majority of guys that have sent us messages have included a face pic.
ok, its been in with 5 cock pics, but still, its there.
however, many couples and single women dont do either, send face pics in the first instance, or indeed pics of their genitals, not say we would want them, but there ya go lol.
some have them in their friends photos, most will have them totally rivate for sending with message.
just because you have yours out for all to see doesnt mean everyone should |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For goodness sake...single guys specially.
put a couple of facepics up at the very least in your private section how do you expect a woman too choose you when looking?..just by a cock pic? dont think so, we dont just fuck you because of your cock...we like to be fucked by someone we fancy. "
Here here! When we receive a string of messages from ppl without a pic we are far more inclined to respond to a message with a face pic and immediately reply with face pics back!
Like u say we won't get excited over a cock pic but a face pic def! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For goodness sake...single guys specially.
put a couple of facepics up at the very least in your private section how do you expect a woman too choose you when looking?..just by a cock pic? dont think so, we dont just fuck you because of your cock...we like to be fucked by someone we fancy.
Here here! When we receive a string of messages from ppl without a pic we are far more inclined to respond to a message with a face pic and immediately reply with face pics back!
Like u say we won't get excited over a cock pic but a face pic def! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For goodness sake...single guys specially.
put a couple of facepics up at the very least in your private section how do you expect a woman too choose you when looking?..just by a cock pic? dont think so, we dont just fuck you because of your cock...we like to be fucked by someone we fancy. "
Well we ladies do also tend to put our tits, bums and legs on show and not our faces.
Most do not have visible face shots and want to provide pics as part of initial contact or perhaps just to those they've befriended. And also a lot of couples profiles don't feature the man at all in any pics so it's not just single blokes who show more/less than you'd like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a serious note, those that don't have them on display are normally willing to share if you ask so I don't see what the problem is. I only have mine set to private so I must be as bad as the single guys..."
It's easy to just ask for a face pic. I never assume people will have them in friends gallery. |
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"message them show your interest and ask to be added as friends and share photos as we speak to each other. countless guys just send or have a barrage of cock pics.if any."
Do you message with a face pic asking for one back?
If I message someone I always send a face pic and I would expect the same courtesy from anyone who messaged me. I often get messages asking me to send one but they haven't and I happen to think that's a bit cheeky. It also means they haven't read my profile properly. So it's obviously not just single guys that behave like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"message them show your interest and ask to be added as friends and share photos as we speak to each other. countless guys just send or have a barrage of cock pics.if any.
Do you message with a face pic asking for one back?
If I message someone I always send a face pic and I would expect the same courtesy from anyone who messaged me. I often get messages asking me to send one but they haven't and I happen to think that's a bit cheeky. It also means they haven't read my profile properly. So it's obviously not just single guys that behave like this. "
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"For goodness sake...single guys specially.
put a couple of facepics up at the very least in your private section how do you expect a woman too choose you when looking?..just by a cock pic? dont think so, we dont just fuck you because of your cock...we like to be fucked by someone we fancy. "
We don't have face pics on public display nor do we normally keep them in our friends only gallery. Why because we choose not too. But doesn't mean that we don't have any or are not willing to send them.
If someone wants to see our face pic they only have to ask and we will send one. Same as if we choose to make first contact then we attach one/some to our message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work in a very public environment I wouldn't dream of putting a face pic up this a private part of my life..I always send one if that person appeals..and OP I think with a bit of research you'll find about 80% of women's profiles demand a face pic without having one themselves. |
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after that hacking incident a while back where lots of members private pics were posted up to a F***B**k page, people are being cautious about what they show pic wise ..... and hardly surprising either really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I ask people in my profile to send a face pic as its only polite to know who you're talking to at the very least. If they don't I'll politely ask for one when I reply to their first message. The amount of bizarre excuses some come out with to not send one is unreal so I just move on. One guy recently said he didn't have a face pic on here at all and could he send it by text/e-mail. Well no, I don't give out personal contact details unless I've arranged to meet. I understand people's need for discretion but I often wonder how some people meet at all!"
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"message them show your interest and ask to be added as friends and share photos as we speak to each other. countless guys just send or have a barrage of cock pics.if any."
Ah, you mean message all those women and couples who (quite reasonably) won't add you as a friend until after you've met to avoid the pic collectors you mean?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally don't knock anybody for not putting public viewable face pics on profiles, there are lots of strange, nosey and untrustable people here! Not everybody wants to be known as a swinger or in some cases sexual deviant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It annoys the f**k out of me when people demand a face pic when they won't send you 1 until you have! Especially those who have no pics on display and no pics to send but still demand 1 to continue speaking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It came to my notice via another forum post that the face pic is sent with fabswingers.com plastered over it. Most people are genuine I guess but there are some who would use it negatively and I dont want a face pic with that banner on it floating around. Happier to send via email/whatapp/kik |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a serious note, those that don't have them on display are normally willing to share if you ask so I don't see what the problem is. I only have mine set to private so I must be as bad as the single guys..."
^^^^ me too in that case. I dont accept a friends invite till I've chatted, swaped face pic and agreed to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many fakes and pic collectors people who set up profiles just to have a nosy with no intention for meeting? Countless. Most of us here dont want to be know in public as swingers and keep it secret for their reputation ect... Men and women.
Why would I take the risck sending my face pic in the first message to a total stranger?!! Just because I am a man and women have plenty of choice and therefore I am expected to follow stupid rules?!! In many cases its a double standard and selfish. I come across many profile who put it clearly as a condition to chat to receive a face pic in the first message when they have no pics at all in their profile and they have no intention on sending one in return. I'd ruther converse a bit, build some comfort and trust before we both get to the stage of exchanging pics. my discretion and other ppl discretion comes before the fun in my book of priorities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People run their profiles how they want and if we don't like it we can just move on. Personally, I find it awkward to have to say someone isn't for me after chatting for a while and a face pic wasn't sent. Shallow as it may seem if I'm not attracted to someone there's no point wasting their time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've face pic as main profile shot. My cock photos are held in the friends section. It makes no difference in my opinion. I find it hard to smile when taking a self portrait shot. I'm more of a serious face although I do have a dry sense of humour. |
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