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what if she was cheating on you ?

By *ivilizedkink OP Couple over a year ago

harrow

There seems to be a lot of males on here who are actually married but playing away from home without ttheir partners knowledge or concent, and trying to justify their actions just woundering what their reaction would be if they found out she was actually cheating on them ? Reactions please.

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By *adyGardenWoman over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I often wonder this myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be devastated!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really ...............

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to say its not just men playing away seems mainly blokes probably due to ratio of blokes to females.

Cheating is wrong its that simple whether male or female.

what gets me is the i am on sexless marriage drivel whils maybe true for some its peddled by the cheater.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's good for the goose is good for the gander, so if your a cheat dont bleat about it if the same happens too you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's good for the goose is good for the gander, so if your a cheat dont bleat about it if the same happens too you"

well said matey. To me if in relationship married etc and feel desire to cheat then the relationship is broke work at it instead of taking easy way out.

Its about respect for the other person and if the cheater had true feelings then they should but will not finish relationship due in my view to cowardice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's good for the goose is good for the gander, so if your a cheat dont bleat about it if the same happens too you

well said matey. To me if in relationship married etc and feel desire to cheat then the relationship is broke work at it instead of taking easy way out.

Its about respect for the other person and if the cheater had true feelings then they should but will not finish relationship due in my view to cowardice."

Well said, I totally agree

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By *ancpl05Couple over a year ago

Bridgend

Most cheats have double standards so would probably go crazy. Sure they justify it to themselves that's it's not their fault they have to cheat !!!

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By *ivilizedkink OP Couple over a year ago

harrow

"What's good for the goose is good for the gander, so if your a cheat dont bleat about it if the same happens too you

well said matey. To me if in relationship married etc and feel desire to cheat then the relationship is broke work at it instead of taking easy way out.

Its about respect for the other person and if the cheater had true feelings then they should but will not finish relationship due in my view to cowardice.

Well said, I totally agree"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he cheats on me, then he does. Can't really complain can I.

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By *ivilizedkink OP Couple over a year ago

harrow

Isn't it interesting none on these cheating males have not participated in this thread ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a feeling that the married men who are cheating on here are the more honest person on here cos they admit what they are doing. Would love to know how many women on here are married and cheating but not saying they are. Bet the numbers are near same as men

Let's not be judges on others lives let's juSt enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not cheating, she knows and has just asked for discretion.

I would leap around the house with a huge grin on my face singing hallelujah. Her sexuality reawakened, the possibility of going to Kestrel together and same room, different room swapping.

She might smile again, sing , skip ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about the woman on here saying they are married and don't want there husband to find out

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By *uslaffMan over a year ago

manchester

"Isn't it interesting none on these cheating males have not participated in this thread ???? "

None of them have not ? So all of them have ?

Its difficult to lake some posters.never mind their opinions,seriously !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can forgive domestic violence, child abuse, theft, constant humiliation before others, constant nagging, attraction towards another of the opposite gender, alcoholism, malevolent manipulation, gamboling and not generally not contributing to the relationship.

If she once let a guy even touch her I would hang, draw and quarter her!!!!

Actually that is all absolute bollocks. I regularly watch her have sex with others so sex is of no consequence; a pleasant pass-time.

She does not lie and cheat because she does not need to. Start focusing on what is important in a relationship folks; leave this social conditioning to the past.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a lot of married cheating women on here too, it puzzles me how out of the married cheaters it's always the married men who are singled out for criticism, oh and for the record I'm not a married man complaining just to clear that up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't it interesting none on these cheating males have not participated in this thread ????

None of them have not ? So all of them have ?

Its difficult to lake some posters.never mind their opinions,seriously !"

lake ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can forgive domestic violence, child abuse, theft, constant humiliation before others, constant nagging, attraction towards another of the opposite gender, alcoholism, malevolent manipulation, gamboling and not generally not contributing to the relationship.

If she once let a guy even touch her I would hang, draw and quarter her!!!!

Actually that is all absolute bollocks. I regularly watch her have sex with others so sex is of no consequence; a pleasant pass-time.

She does not lie and cheat because she does not need to. Start focusing on what is important in a relationship folks; leave this social conditioning to the past.

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By *uslaffMan over a year ago

manchester

"Isn't it interesting none on these cheating males have not participated in this thread ????

None of them have not ? So all of them have ?

Its difficult to lake some posters.never mind their opinions,seriously !

lake ?

Big thumb,small phone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My post a hour ago is from me, a married cheating woman who has her reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had this problem before.

we were both playing behind each others backs.

I just suggested that we have an open relationship.

We swung together, had same room and separate room sex, (both a turn on), but could also meet others on our own and have a sort of relationship.

the sex as there but not the love.

it worked fine but we split a few years later.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't it interesting none on these cheating males have not participated in this thread ????

None of them have not ? So all of them have ?

Its difficult to lake some posters.never mind their opinions,seriously !"

Difficult to 'lake' some posters seriously? Indeed! Epic fail

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was told a while ago that there are more women actually cheating but more men trying to cheat something to do with guys not caring if women cheat and women being more annoyed about it. We have long since stooped judging others as long as we are happy with each other as that's what counts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't it interesting none on these cheating males have not participated in this thread ???? "

Why would they want to with so many who like to attack others on the forums they probably just ignore threads they are not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would really like my wife to enjoy fun with other men and women. I'd love us to be in an open marriage where we could play as a couple or individually. Im just much more liberated sexually, I have always been

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I understand why many women dislike the idea of cheating and the threat it could bring to a marriage and relationship. I will be very honest. I enjoy very discrete sex with a small circle of friends. I love sex too much to deny myself the pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There seems to be a lot of males on here who are actually married but playing away from home without ttheir partners knowledge or concent, and trying to justify their actions just woundering what their reaction would be if they found out she was actually cheating on them ? Reactions please."

I Jez would ask myself why and had I contributed to the need for her to cheat ie was I showing disinterest etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love my G/F to hook up with someone and get a good fucking of them.

Then when she gets in still wet with his spunk she can tell me all about it while I'm fucking her wet pussy

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