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What REALLY turns you on?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Exploring the swinging scene has been an interesting and illuminating journey for me ...yet I still find from time to time that some still judge others for the NUMBER of lovers /partners they have had....especially at the same time..which strikes me as rather ironic given the nature of the scene! Some women (and men!) tell me they get nervous of saying what they REALLY want in case they are judged....so I thought I would run a little question by the guys to answer honestly...as this is one that has come up a few times in my conversations with others. .
If a woman tells you she wants to fuck as many men as possible in one session..would it:
a) turn you on?
b) turn you off?
And if you said 'a' and she was 'with' you...would you want to..
a) Join in
b) Just watch
c) Leave her to it but want to hear about it later
d) Other
No likey, no lighty!
Lets go!  |
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"Exploring the swinging scene has been an interesting and illuminating journey for me ...yet I still find from time to time that some still judge others for the NUMBER of lovers /partners they have had....especially at the same time..which strikes me as rather ironic given the nature of the scene! Some women (and men!) tell me they get nervous of saying what they REALLY want in case they are judged....so I thought I would run a little question by the guys to answer honestly...as this is one that has come up a few times in my conversations with others. .
If a woman tells you she wants to fuck as many men as possible in one session..would it:
a) turn you on?
b) turn you off?
And if you said 'a' and she was 'with' you...would you want to..
a) Join in
b) Just watch
c) Leave her to it but want to hear about it later
d) Other
No likey, no lighty!
Lets go! "
A - Turn on
I would want to:
A,C and D
The opportunity hasn't arisen yet tho. Maybe in the future it will. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankyou to those that replied so far. May I ask to those that say you would be turned off...why that is? No judgement here.....just curious. Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Be good to see where this goes x"
My question why....for you please. .if you don't mind elaborating?
(Just a bit off topic for a second. ....sexy arse!!!! Sorry....just saying! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exploring the swinging scene has been an interesting and illuminating journey for me ...yet I still find from time to time that some still judge others for the NUMBER of lovers /partners they have had....especially at the same time..which strikes me as rather ironic given the nature of the scene! Some women (and men!) tell me they get nervous of saying what they REALLY want in case they are judged....so I thought I would run a little question by the guys to answer honestly...as this is one that has come up a few times in my conversations with others. .
If a woman tells you she wants to fuck as many men as possible in one session..would it:
a) turn you on?
b) turn you off?
And if you said 'a' and she was 'with' you...would you want to..
a) Join in
b) Just watch
c) Leave her to it but want to hear about it later
d) Other
No likey, no lighty!
Lets go! "
A,A b and D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thankyou to those that replied so far. May I ask to those that say you would be turned off...why that is? No judgement here.....just curious. Thanks x"
Few reasons I think.
1- Gangbang is not something I'd like to experience as I am a selfish fucker lol. I like the intimacy and personal connection. The attention to myself and thats what turns me on. The idea of holding my cock and qewing to get my turn to finally ... just dig it in a meat hole with no chemistry hapening is just too low for my liking.
2- The chance of catching an STD is amplified by the exponential wether by being part of it or by meeting a woman who likes gangbanging. When I see it in a woman's profile it makes me go errrrmmm better to avoid.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definite turn off. We've witnessed it a number of times in clubs and find the scene industrial rather than erotic.
Two guys and one woman is much more to our taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definite turn off. We've witnessed it a number of times in clubs and find the scene industrial rather than erotic.
Two guys and one woman is much more to our taste."
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It's not for me. I prefer intimacy, attention to detail, being able to give personal attention towhoever I'm with and to receive the same from them. Each to their own but I seriously doubt I would be able to get any of that from a large group situation. I like to do rather than watch so seeing a partner with a multitude of men wouldn't be a turn on for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Great question OP.
I think a lot of people simply wouldn't choose it for themselves personally which is understandable but a number also pass judgement.
Someone called women who have multiple partners dirty skanks on here a few days ago and I think women (and to a lesser degree men) are still judged harshly by society for being free with both showing and sharing too much of their bodies. Fab is no different or any less scathing about it, in some ways worse because you anticipate a certain level of tolerance that isn't there.
Even in the enlightened world of swinging (said with tongue in cheek) there are invisible lines and arbitrary rule setting and promiscuity is often frowned upon. |
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As far as the OP original question goes, I honestly don't know if I would find it a turn on (never seen a gangbang for real). Having said that if Candy wanted to do it, I would more than happily let her do it as long as it was safe. Yes I would probably join in and I would certainly watch.
very good question though! |
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"Great question OP.
I think a lot of people simply wouldn't choose it for themselves personally which is understandable but a number also pass judgement.
Someone called women who have multiple partners dirty skanks on here a few days ago and I think women (and to a lesser degree men) are still judged harshly by society for being free with both showing and sharing too much of their bodies. Fab is no different or any less scathing about it, in some ways worse because you anticipate a certain level of tolerance that isn't there.
Even in the enlightened world of swinging (said with tongue in cheek) there are invisible lines and arbitrary rule setting and promiscuity is often frowned upon. "
Very true |
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When I receive a message from a 'willy pic' whose been on here for over a year but still yet to meet and has 'will fill in later' on their profile text asking me to come to theirs and 'suck their big one!'
That reallllly gets me moist!
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