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Younger vs older? stamina?????
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just been asked by a slightly younger guy (him 36...me 45) if I have the stamina to keep up with him!
This guy is on a vanilla dating site and at present, has absolutely NO IDEA of my naughty side!
Answers on a postcard...suggestions? I want to say 'bless him' but I am too busy laughing!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been asked by a slightly younger guy (him 36...me 45) if I have the stamina to keep up with him!
This guy is on a vanilla dating site and at present, has absolutely NO IDEA of my naughty side!
Answers on a postcard...suggestions? I want to say 'bless him' but I am too busy laughing!!!! "
I'd let it be a terrifying surprise if you end up getting it on lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I simply told him that any man who wanted to 'date' me, better bring his game plan...or go and get one...before even considering spending any time with me!
Cramp? I'll give him more than cramp! Cheeky bugger!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whatever you say... for Christ sake DO NOT tell him that you have been to a City Slickers Party and you used a tray full of condoms once! lol"
Lol!!!!! Sshhhhhh!!!!! Funny!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He says he is a generous and giving lover and just wanted to provoke a reaction as he really REALLY fancies me!!!!!
Really? Well he got one! I told him that NOONE who REALLY understands about a good sex life would ask such a dumb ass question and that his question told me everything I needed to know and saved me the bother of getting undressed!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't claim to have buckets of stamina, but I'm no five minute wonder either...for me the ideal time period for sex is whatever feels right for me and my partner at the time.
Anyway, we can always pillow chat between rounds x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I won't claim to have buckets of stamina, but I'm no five minute wonder either...for me the ideal time period for sex is whatever feels right for me and my partner at the time.
Anyway, we can always pillow chat between rounds x"
Exactly! But you are talking as a wonderful lover who understands what great sex is! He is talking....like a man who clearly doesn't! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take him up on his offer then teach his young buck ass a lesson  "
Nah! I am no ones teacher! He can get his private lessons elsewhere! He isn't that young! He is 36 so you would think he knew better but obviously not! I don't mind people being inexperienced or not knowing something. We are all learning! But no man should ask a woman older than him if she has the stamina to keep up with him! I am 45! Not 95!! Lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.
Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me  "
I have to agree with that from my experience. 2 guys who larged it up weren't all that good and another no showed! The best meets I've had are ones who never felt the need to talk about sex and what they wanted to do etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the chemistry is there, you will re-ignite each other time and again. I love the time-outs where you relax, and after a while feel the need build again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been asked by a slightly younger guy (him 36...me 45) if I have the stamina to keep up with him!
This guy is on a vanilla dating site and at present, has absolutely NO IDEA of my naughty side!
Answers on a postcard...suggestions? I want to say 'bless him' but I am too busy laughing!!!! "
Hes 36 so hes not that young and your not that old and like everyone says those who make out they are good usualy arent that good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I know is that I am 10 times better in the sack now then when I was 25 . Experience is a major asset when it comes to sex. The only thing is I don't repeat as well as I did when I was that age, but stamina is on a different level .
I'd take him on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who larges it online tends to be cramp in the sack - from what other women have told me
I have to agree with that from my experience. 2 guys who larged it up weren't all that good and another no showed! The best meets I've had are ones who never felt the need to talk about sex and what they wanted to do etc."
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In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?
We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..
Us women need to be ruined!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?
We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..
Us women need to be ruined!
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Experience and maturity for sure . I'm not worrying about coming too soon like I did when I was younger . |
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"Sooooo funny. Go on...take him on. I'm always being told that I'm going to be "ruined". I don't mind them trying though.  "
Actually that's true, the ones who promise very rarely deliver. Still waiting.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.
Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences."
I somehow can't see a man who HAS had similar experiences, asking such a question! Because he would know it isnt appropriate or relevant. Thats my view anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Anyone who feels the need to brag about their sexual prowess and 'stamina' beforehand....is usually hugely disappointing in reality! Thats been my experience anyway.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.
Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences.
I somehow can't see a man who HAS had similar experiences, asking such a question! Because he would know it isnt appropriate or relevant. Thats my view anyway."
Surely its more about the chemistry anyway though? I mean, if you like his pics and both enjoy your conversations, then isn't that more promising for an enjoyable meet rather than who has the most experience? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All I know is that I am 10 times better in the sack now then when I was 25 . Experience is a major asset when it comes to sex. The only thing is I don't repeat as well as I did when I was that age, but stamina is on a different level .
I'd take him on "
Well he is 37...not 25! But I agree with you. But I dont think its all about stamina anyway. Its soooo much more than that! He wants me to give him a chance but I always find braggars a turn off because they already have an attitude of something to prove and it just spoils it for me...especially when they rarely deliver what they say they can! I prefer men who are just themselves....relaxed and quietly confident.. not giving it large before they even met you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you met him on a dating site he will be very careful what he says to a woman. Most women would run a mile if a man got too full on too early.
Presumably you haven't told him of your experiences yet. He may have had similar experiences.
I somehow can't see a man who HAS had similar experiences, asking such a question! Because he would know it isnt appropriate or relevant. Thats my view anyway.
Surely its more about the chemistry anyway though? I mean, if you like his pics and both enjoy your conversations, then isn't that more promising for an enjoyable meet rather than who has the most experience?"
I agree! But he blew it for me....I just don't like that attitide some have...like they believe they are sooooooo amazing! 'I think its safer for a man to just let the womam decide for herself before building himself up for a letdown beforehand! I also don't think its all about stamina. Personally. ..I dont want just endless pounding! I like quality and chemistry and sensuality! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sooooo funny. Go on...take him on. I'm always being told that I'm going to be "ruined". I don't mind them trying though. "
Lol....clearly they havent ruined you yet! Still going strong! |
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"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?
We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..
Us women need to be ruined!
Experience and maturity for sure . I'm not worrying about coming too soon like I did when I was younger . "
I was used to a ten minute session up until just a few years ago. I thought it was normal! Lol! Now I'm in my element... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who feels the need to brag about their sexual prowess and 'stamina' beforehand....is usually hugely disappointing in reality! Thats been my experience anyway.. "
or imo desperate,there is so much desperation on here that it puts you off.
Whatever happened to going with the flow for a hour atleast hahah  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Maybe he said it tongue in cheek and in a joking way....
I tend to switch off if a man or woman, starts going on about how fantastic they are in bed. More often than not they are the most disappointing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a similar message once on this site.
my reply was
'the question is not whether or not i can, but rather why on earth i would want to'
knocked him on his ass, a bit. we never got it on, but he's now one of my closest friends lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?
We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..
Us women need to be ruined!
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Women need to be ruined?
Speak for yourself...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had men only a couple of years younger than me with more stamina than a 25 year old. There are unfit young people too "
What's the definition of sexual stamina ? I thought it was the ability to last a long time and to be able to control when you orgasm . I'm guessing there may be other views , like the ability to repeat several times in a single session . What's your views ?? |
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"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?
We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..
Us women need to be ruined!
Women need to be ruined?
Speak for yourself...
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Ruined? Spoilt? Why the shocked faces?
I'm sure "some" women do. Myself included. It works both ways too doesn't it? I love to ruin/spoil my man, that's for sure!
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"Older guys are much better at holding back orgasm and have great stamina, usually.Well they do if they are fit and experienced"
I have found younger men better. Stamina to me is overall time, however it is achieved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my experience, older men tend to have more stamina. Maybe the experience and maturity has something to do with it?
We have only ever had one meet with a single male and he was young and his inexperience showed..
Us women need to be ruined!
Women need to be ruined?
Speak for yourself...
Ruined? Spoilt? Why the shocked faces?
I'm sure "some" women do. Myself included. It works both ways too doesn't it? I love to ruin/spoil my man, that's for sure!
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Ah sorry it's a language thing. I understood ruin to be totally different to spoil. Apologies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had men only a couple of years younger than me with more stamina than a 25 year old. There are unfit young people too
What's the definition of sexual stamina ? I thought it was the ability to last a long time and to be able to control when you orgasm . I'm guessing there may be other views , like the ability to repeat several times in a single session . What's your views ?? "
Stamina is a sliding scale. At the bottom you have the men who want sucking and riding most of the time and fuck for a few minutes in between then cum and it's all over. The top end that I have experienced is someone who lets you suck for a while then fucks for an hour and a half, cumming 4 times and then makes tea. The fucking was rapid and non stop. But like I said it's a sliding scale and men with stamina don't always want to bang away like a kango |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then there is the bull joke.....
An old bull and a young bull enter the field where the cows are. The young bull sees them and says "There are the cows!! Let us run over and have one!!" then old bull replies. "Let us walk over and have them all."
If a dildo on the end of a Kango hammer was the ultimate pleasure device for a woman Love Honey would sell them.  |
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