Are you looking for a slave or a submissive individual?
I can't figure out why you "want" one when you've no idea what to do with one??
I think people can have the impression that you have a "slave" and they will do what you want.
The above is not true and actually you should be finding out what your slave wants... Don't be fooled that they are weak or need someone to control them.
They are infact (in my experience) very strong minded who know exactly what they want.
But still, it's like saying you want a space shuttle ... Fuck knows how it works, I just want one  |
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"Why would you get a slave if you have no idea what it's all about?
Don't play in roles your unfamiliar with..."
If you're unfamiliar you would need to play with someone experienced but if no one played in roles they were unfamiliar with all sexual activity would come to an end  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you get a slave if you have no idea what it's all about?
Don't play in roles your unfamiliar with...
If you're unfamiliar you would need to play with someone experienced but if no one played in roles they were unfamiliar with all sexual activity would come to an end "
What I was implying with that comment was, maybe they should become familiar with the role between them before they look for someone to act the role. Experience goes a long way and without it could be quite damaging |
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"Why would you get a slave if you have no idea what it's all about?
Don't play in roles your unfamiliar with...
If you're unfamiliar you would need to play with someone experienced but if no one played in roles they were unfamiliar with all sexual activity would come to an end
What I was implying with that comment was, maybe they should become familiar with the role between them before they look for someone to act the role. Experience goes a long way and without it could be quite damaging"
you're right and I agree. Experience is needed from at least on of the parties however the forum would be a good place to learn if people were willing to teach or advise. |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
Bristol, Thornbury |
"shaved, bi leicester male here who would love to be trained as an obedient slave.
I want to be dressed, used and abused.
Offers?
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Cleaning the house, car and windows uniform suppled plus feee wifi.
Deal?
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Why would you get a slave if you have no idea what it's all about?
Don't play in roles your unfamiliar with...
If you're unfamiliar you would need to play with someone experienced but if no one played in roles they were unfamiliar with all sexual activity would come to an end
What I was implying with that comment was, maybe they should become familiar with the role between them before they look for someone to act the role. Experience goes a long way and without it could be quite damaging
you're right and I agree. Experience is needed from at least on of the parties however the forum would be a good place to learn if people were willing to teach or advise. "
you couldn't write a book telling someone about it |
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"Why would you get a slave if you have no idea what it's all about?
Don't play in roles your unfamiliar with...
If you're unfamiliar you would need to play with someone experienced but if no one played in roles they were unfamiliar with all sexual activity would come to an end
What I was implying with that comment was, maybe they should become familiar with the role between them before they look for someone to act the role. Experience goes a long way and without it could be quite damaging
you're right and I agree. Experience is needed from at least on of the parties however the forum would be a good place to learn if people were willing to teach or advise.
you couldn't write a book telling
someone about it "
Ok genuinely confused now, how can someone learn about this if they wanted to?
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Why would you get a slave if you have no idea what it's all about?
Don't play in roles your unfamiliar with...
If you're unfamiliar you would need to play with someone experienced but if no one played in roles they were unfamiliar with all sexual activity would come to an end
What I was implying with that comment was, maybe they should become familiar with the role between them before they look for someone to act the role. Experience goes a long way and without it could be quite damaging
you're right and I agree. Experience is needed from at least on of the parties however the forum would be a good place to learn if people were willing to teach or advise.
you couldn't write a book telling
someone about it
Ok genuinely confused now, how can someone learn about this if they wanted to?
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it's a lifestyle, with more error than trial involved IMO  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Any slave I had would do exactly what I told him. Clue in the name. Every man who has contacted me about being my slave had demands. I want this..I want that...I'm going to call you Mistress. Who's in charge here?? |
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"Any slave I had would do exactly what I told him. Clue in the name. Every man who has contacted me about being my slave had demands. I want this..I want that...I'm going to call you Mistress. Who's in charge here?? "
Slave or sub both relationships toward the Master/Mistress is based on trust and to a degree the sub is ultimately the one in control as they have the 'safe word'. As a Dom yes id expect them to follow my instructions and I be able to do as I pleased but if the suject used it play would stop immediately.
Role play is fun but not every one can play the part.
I hope the OP find what they want |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Any slave I had would do exactly what I told him. Clue in the name. Every man who has contacted me about being my slave had demands. I want this..I want that...I'm going to call you Mistress. Who's in charge here??
Slave or sub both relationships toward the Master/Mistress is based on trust and to a degree the sub is ultimately the one in control as they have the 'safe word'. As a Dom yes id expect them to follow my instructions and I be able to do as I pleased but if the suject used it play would stop immediately.
Role play is fun but not every one can play the part.
I hope the OP find what they want "
Thats not quite right. A slave is a different dynamic entirely. The slave has no rights. That's not to say the master wouldnt want to look out for their property to the the most out of "it". |
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By *ndy13Man
over a year ago
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"were thinking of getting a slave after having some offers but don't really know how it works, what sort of things could we get upto, ideas welcome"
make ME cook you that curry mmmm lol then anything you want :-  :- |
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I was offered a financial slave but it was all new to me and wouldn't know where to start so said thanks but no thanks.
I would feel awful taking gifts from someone I didn't know for treating them like shit.
Fem x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for the helpful comments,well some of them, we said we were thinking about it after receiving offers not that we wanted to, we only got started swinging by discussing it, doesn't mean we knew how to go about it, we do now so willing to axplore other things, after much thought we think we used the wrong word, its not a slave were thinking about but more a sub, its the guys that contacted us asked to be slave but they probably mean,t sub |
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