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saying hello to meets outside a meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has this happened to anyone say like in a supermarket or pub and what would\did you do...And what if they were with another partner...
Just a simple smile and hi
A full on greeting
Or ignore each other knowing its a separate side if your lives.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who I was with and if they was alone, if they said hi first I would say hi back, I would only smile and say hello first if we was both alone, other wise just walk by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is something I discuss with guys I meet to avoid any awkward situations. We generally agree to smile and leave it at that. Never run into anyone yet though x |
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"Has this happened to anyone say like in a supermarket or pub and what would\did you do...And what if they were with another partner...
Just a simple smile and hi
A full on greeting
Or ignore each other knowing its a separate side if your lives.."
entirely depends. If they were alone we would say a cheery hello and walk on, if they were with other people we'd take our cue from them and acknowledge them if it looked as if we could do so and preserve their discretion. Met loads of people last Sauturday at a social and it could be awkward for some if we were to approach them while they were in company so we wouldn't dream of doing so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would depend on who it was. We have some local friends from the fet scene that we'd chat too, bit others who we know valuew their privacy who would would not speak to unless they spoke to us first.
If we don't know someone well enough to make an informed decision on whether it's appropriate then we pass them by with no acknowledgement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something I discuss with local men I meet now. I very nearly put my foot in it when I went to say Hi to a 'single' man I'd met only to realise very quickly that the woman walking a few paces behind him was the wife he forgot to tell me about! 
Someone mailed me the other day and said they thought they'd seen me in the supermarket but decided against saying Hi as they weren't 100% sure lol Not someone I've met so he only had the memory of my pic to go by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw someone we met today ....he said hi to Ian then i walked round corner he said hi to Me all we did was say hello think he was with partner so left it at that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.
Discretion is my middle name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.
Discretion is my middle name."
genuinely chuckling loudly at this  |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.
Discretion is my middle name."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd take my cue from them but wouldn't expect acknowledgement in the street particularly if either of us was with anyone else...that said with very good friends we've really connected with, we've majorly crossed over...been to family parties and work do's...I think relationships are constantly evolving... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have bumped into meets while out shopping and stopped and chatted,we've been on normal nights out with some,we make friends,we're more than able to control our sexual urges in a normal setting,I don't run up to people in the street waving my knickers above my head shouting "fuck me now" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have bumped into meets while out shopping and stopped and chatted,we've been on normal nights out with some,we make friends,we're more than able to control our sexual urges in a normal setting,I don't run up to people in the street waving my knickers above my head shouting "fuck me now" "
AWWWWW!  
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.
Discretion is my middle name."
Hahahah... |
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Didn't exactly say hello but we saw a meet in tesco.unfortunately for him he was with someone who was clearly his girlfriend,who we knew nothing about(we don't see attached people if partners are not aware).
I clocked him,he clocked me,and nothing at all was said.he'd been rumbled being a naughty boy but I saw no sense in doing a reveal he looked suitably embarrassed and kept his head down.i just smirked
Later on that evening we jumped on fab to check his profile; funnily enough it was gone, having been there,along with his verification for us, only the day before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This happened to me the other day. I saw a guy that a met last year in boots but he was with another woman. I just carried on doing what I was doing and then left the store! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we only like one off meets we would probably prefer to walk on by but thats sometimes difficult after a period of time as we forget what they look like. So when we pass someone who smiles and says hello wed probly say hello back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some did say "Hey cocksnogger" once and I made excuses to my friend and said it was a psychiatric patient at the hospital we were looking after. On the other side of the coin I followed a 'single ' guy round Asda I had met that somehow inherited a wife and kids he forgot to mention. Some would call it stalking I called it let's play the panic game |
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I think the main aim for everyone who swings is discretion, so this should be shown at all times. Like most people have said a simple smile wink etc as an acknowledgement should do. If you are both alone then maybe a quick chat is in order once your wink or smile was recpricated. In my experience where there are a lot of couples out there who openly swing there are more who do it secretly. And then of course there is the countless ones swinging behind a partners back. So for me its DISCRETION every time. I have met people outside and just winked/smiled like i say, had some wink/smile and walk by (no proboem with that) others stop chat and even share a beer with. And on one occasion ended up with another round of sex.
DISCRETION |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol x last week a guy said hi n then winked at me at a bar x
I've haven't experienced such terror in a long time x total opposite to how I normal feel here x
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We have seen a few people while out and about shopping etc. How we react depends on how well we know them and who they/we are with.
Some we will happily stop and chat with and others we would just smile at and walk on by.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bumped into the wife of a couple I met with in a shop,we both pretended to ignore each other.
Can you pretend to ignore someone "
Maybe acted would have been a better choice of word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some did say "Hey cocksnogger" once and I made excuses to my friend and said it was a psychiatric patient at the hospital we were looking after. On the other side of the coin I followed a 'single ' guy round Asda I had met that somehow inherited a wife and kids he forgot to mention. Some would call it stalking I called it let's play the panic game "
Pmsl love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I scream "helloooo bigcockforguys69" at the top of my lungs, push his wife out of the way and start dry humping his leg while sticking my tongue in his ear.
Discretion is my middle name."
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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I like to keep the fab side separate from other aspects of my life. I'm honest and happy to chat about my life when I'm on a meet. However I would not want my fab friends to mix with my other friends.
So if I saw anybody outside a meet I would not approach them or want them to approach me if either of us had other friends with us. If we were both on our own then I'd say hello at least, maybe chat if they wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've just walked into a pub behind someone we know quite well but she was with people and didn't see us...dropped her a text and she came over and said hi...discretion was maintained and we had a nice catch up... |
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It doesn't bother me much as single and very open about my lifestyle, however I would probably smile at others. leave it up to them to say hello as you don't know who may be close by, kids, other half, friends etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have met them as a couple and on thier own at shops, local events...and wouldnt dream of walking by without saying hello as not just super sexy peeps but good friends too..... |
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