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over a year ago
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From what I've seen of peoples input on this if the girl does it it's fine if the lad does it it's a lad pretending to be a couple? But what ever floats your boats I guess! |
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over a year ago
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I think maybe it's not for many people, you have to be very secure in yourself, in one another and in the strength of your relationship. I'd say if someone isn't sure then don't do it, you can't take back what you've done.
We do play together and alone but when we met 14 years ago (on a sex site) we agreed at that point that monogamy wasn't important to either of us.
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"Yeh understand that just wondered what peoples _iews was if someone messaged from a couple but was playing alone would that put you off "
Yes it would not because we have a problem with it just because it's not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very hungover and i read that as playing alone as in masturbating! dohhhh
although i have no probs playing alone in any way "
 masturbating all good as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are fairly fluid in how we play and I played alone for the first time last night. We were at a fet event with a couples room and I played in there while crystal danced with friends (though she did join us later in the night).
We'd definately do it again but only if it felt right at the time and it's probably not something we'd actively plan to do. We've talked about it today and will only do it in quite strict circumstances - it would certainly have to be someone that we both knew and not just a random meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done, and would do.
However, if we were contacted by a couples profile and only one of them wanted to play we'd say no.
This is because we try and avoid single men posing as a couple (ok he might have a few fb's at various points) and as we are equal ops, because we would decline a male, we would also decline a female.
If a single gets in touch and then drops into pm that they have another... we report from that message; as they arnt single.
This is just our method though  |
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