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The Fine Line

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wish to know what constitutes the fine line and what the catalyst is for crossing it....let me explain.....

Hubby and I swing, we meet up with other couples and we attend clubs where we engage in threesomes, foursomes and sometimes a touch of group sex. Mostly when the 'stuff' is happening I find watching hubby engaging with other women, from just deep conversation all the way to a good hard shag, exciting and a turn on, in fact a good session can keep my juices up for weeks.

However, there have been a few occasions where exactly the same things are happening, usually a different woman but you know, the snogging, feeling up, oral etc and there will suddenly occur deep in my gut what I can only describe as a 'twang'. Suddenly my smile goes, my stomach flips and I AM NOT HAPPY, I want to punch hubbies lights out or similar, although I don't of course, I just signal with our safe word that we should stop and go and talk somewhere away from what's happening. I really want to know why this sometimes happens and if other women (and men of course) experience this dichotomy in their play.

Answers please, on a postcard and be gentle. I really enjoy the lifestyle and mostly it enhances the relationship between us. Is it that those few times when it isn't so pleasant, they are the price to pay for the enjoyable stuff? Maybe someone can clarify the issues I've raised, explain the fine line and offer a solution, or do I just have to put up and shut up, enjoy the good times?

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Youve already posted this thread so Im closing this one

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